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Originally Posted By radrd⏩
You understand she says that to every guy that lasts more than 20 pumps, right? Flattery makes it more likely you'll be a return customer.
strong this lol

If u believe the flatttery and compliments of a fuking escort ur a retard she's secretly disgusted by ALL of her customers she's just a literal whore and whores will do anything for the right price
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Mirin new avi brah. Looking ab-so-slootly sickening. The way your legs just fade into the background and have this whisphy, almost ghostly appearance. Calves must be down to 8 maybe 8.5 inches. Mirin dedication, lean is law after all. Dop that circumference another inch or so and you'll be in real sick kent territory. Sub 7 inch calves unlock true shredder status. I over heard these two 9/10's Korean chicks at a cafe oogle over some Changs slim legs. A -2 T score is hot right now in that demographic.
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A husband is an archetype that lacks respect inherently.

Husbands don’t respect themselves, wives don’t respect their husbands…

This creates a propagating cycle of resentment and that manifest in the form of a lack of sexual attraction.

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Originally Posted By imbored⏩
My buddy told me his wife stopped putting out and I'm just confused. Don't girls just lie there? Even if not in the mood, I'd think it would be easy. And don't you want to do things for your husband that you love? I'm pretty sure he is doing a lot more that he doesn't want to do to make you happy. Did he want to go to dinner with your family? Go to your friend's wedding? No he did not. But he did it for you. That is love. Where is a woman's love?
this is a HUGE issue it's called "dead bedrooms" on reddit it is a huge sub i read it every once in a while but not for too long because the stories are too brutal

only women in LTR can truly answer this from their perspective but in my experience it comes from

1. too much stress women do work + kids + take care of the home where is the sexiness in this it's gone and so is the lust women need to be in the right mood
2. men let themselves go yup sad but true weight gain weaker erections is not attractive to women
3. hormones may mess them up as they age srs @kimm4 has talked about it

as a man in a dead bedroom do ur absolute best to help with 1 and 2 and if things do not improve at all it's probably 3 there are medicine for this srs

@kimm4 and @legz422 will confirm

now i don't think lowered libido is really the cause because there are UNTOLD stories of women divorcing men and then a week later they are having the BEST SEX they have ever had multiple orgasm all from penetration etc. they go dick wild after a LONG period sometimes years without sex and lust but then suddenly with a new man they want to have sex constantly ?

it's very complicated but also very common i think husband and wife BOTH have an OBLIGATION to satisfy their spouse regardless if they are feeling it or not
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Sex is a means to an end for women. Sex is just a tool for them to get stuff. They think will get them a relationship, so they put out and are shocked when the guy just moves on. They think having a high bodycount just shows their willingness. Then they get married, think they won the game, and stop.
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Originally Posted By Salsashark717⏩
Sex is a means to an end for women. Sex is just a tool for them to get stuff. They think will get them a relationship, so they put out and are shocked when the guy just moves on. They think having a high bodycount just shows their willingness. Then they get married, think they won the game, and stop.
not true it's also a means to pleasure for them u should know this srs
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
I've heard of such a thing and just listen in disbelief, this is probably why when I was a kid I thought women didn't like sex, in movies they're always portrayed as "rewarding" their partner for doing chores or good behaviour by giving them sex, I would rather just be single, I never had that problem when I had a girlfriend, I never "asked" for sex, I just start playing with her cunt and it goes from there, I would think something is seriously wrong if my girlfriend or wife isn't putting out.
All three times you've had sex in your life.
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Originally Posted By imbored⏩
My escort once told me every guys finishes in 20 pumps (she was impressed with me cause I can do 10 minutes straight of pronebone). Doesn't sound hard?
Send her to papi chulos

I can give her 11 minutes if intense pleasure

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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
All three times you've had sex in your life.
You're just as fat and ugly as me, so you cant talk.

Just because you have a fat and ugly wife doesn't mean you have one up on me, most ugly people are able to get someone on their own level.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
You're just as fat and ugly as me, so you cant talk.

Just because you have a fat and ugly wife doesn't mean you have one up on me, most ugly people are able to get someone on their own level.
Incorrect. Even in your AVI pic you look like shit compared to me now. In my early 20s we may as well have been different species. My wife looks better than any woman you've ever touched in any capacity. What I mean by that is that the most attractive woman whose hand you've shaken, my wife is better looking than her.

Just like every other aspect of my life versus yours. I'm just better than you, I will always be better than you. I could die today and 5 years from now you still wouldn't compare.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Incorrect. Even in your AVI pic you look like shit compared to me now. In my early 20s we may as well have been different species. My wife looks better than any woman you've ever touched in any capacity. What I mean by that is that the most attractive woman whose hand you've shaken, my wife is better looking than her.

Just like every other aspect of my life versus yours. I'm just better than you, I will always be better than you. I could die today and 5 years from now you still wouldn't compare.
You only got one thing right, we are a different species, you're black and I'm not.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
You only got one thing right, we are a different species, you're black and I'm not.
I'm black, I'm rich, I have a beautiful family, and a head full of hair.

You're white, you're a broke burden to society with poor hygiene who was never successful with women or successful in any other way. You're also bald.

The only reason you aren't the ugliest dude to have ever graced the misc is because toker is trolling around. But in a good day you can give him a run for his money. Metaphorically, you're too fat to run anywhere.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
I'm black, I'm rich, I have a beautiful family, and a head full of hair.

You're white, you're a broke burden to society with poor hygiene who was never successful with women or successful in any other way. You're also bald.

The only reason you aren't the ugliest dude to have ever graced the misc is because toker is trolling around. But in a good day you can give him a run for his money. Metaphorically, you're too fat to run anywhere.
I think you just exist to be a nuisance, lol you claim to be a wealthy man but you spend all your free time on a gay forum, sad really.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
I think you just exist to be a nuisance, lol you claim to be a wealthy man but you spend all your free time on a gay forum, sad really.
Yeah. I can do that because money affords me all the time in the world. I guess being a bum affords you the same as long as you don't mind living in squalor in your sister's basement.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Yeah. I can do that because money affords me all the time in the world. I guess being a bum affords you the same as long as you don't mind living in squalor in your sister's basement.
Why dont you take like 5% of your earning and actually do something? Like attend charm school or attend martial arts classes? My fate is sealed, I cant afford to do anything, and the events I do want to do that are free are too far away and I cant afford transportation. You must secretly have something wrong with you if you're on here all the time, I make my issues known.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
Why dont you take like 5% of your earning and actually do something? Like attend charm school or attend martial arts classes? My fate is sealed, I cant afford to do anything, and the events I do want to do that are free are too far away and I cant afford transportation. You must secretly have something wrong with you if you're on here all the time, I make my issues known.
I'm on my cell phone. I can be anywhere and still be able to berate you.

And I've done martial arts for years, and travelled, and everything in between. I can do that and still have my phone near by to remind you that you need to get a job.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
I'm on my cell phone. I can be anywhere and still be able to berate you.

And I've done martial arts for years, and travelled, and everything in between. I can do that and still have my phone near by to remind you that you need to get a job.
We spoke about this many times before Godfrd, you're like a child really, just looking for attention.

If you're so well off hop on some drugs to lose the weight, aint no way you're comfortable being obese.

And I seen your serving sizes, theres no way you're the size you are from having a meal of 4 chicken wings and some salad.
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Maybe they do just lie there but do you want a penis sliding in your innards? Doesn’t sound pleasant even if you don’t do anything to be fair.
It doesn't but we're looking at it from a male perspective. Women like penis sliding in their innards but only if they find the man the penis is attached to attractive.
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These women aren't attracted to their husbands. In fact they are disgusted by them

They are with them for other reasons

Usually financial and the desire or expectation to be a wife and have kids.

This guy I know his wife only put out 2-4 times per year. To be fair he is near 300 pounds and sweats a lot. But he provided for her and the kids, she didn't even work

She was cheating on him and now they are divorced


They met in their 20s, she had a "special needs" baby and needed some cuck to bail her out, he was the guy, he adopted her special baby and had more kids with her.
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These women also lured the men in with transactional sex but after the marriage life long contract is signed then she can take 60 percent of his net worth so that threat alone means she doesn't have to put out anymore


Marriage should be a lease that can renew monthly, annually ECT then she would have incentive to put out to get her marriage renewed
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
We spoke about this many times before Godfrd, you're like a child really, just looking for attention.

If you're so well off hop on some drugs to lose the weight, aint no way you're comfortable being obese.

And I seen your serving sizes, theres no way you're the size you are from having a meal of 4 chicken wings and some salad.
Let's make a small wager then. We can both take shirtless pics today. If you're fatter than me, then you have to quit the misc until you find full time employment. If I'm fatter than you, I will stop pointing out how much of a loser you are, and I will buy you a box of cigarettes.

Let me know if you're interested.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Let's make a small wager then. We can both take shirtless pics today. If you're fatter than me, then you have to quit the misc until you find full time employment. If I'm fatter than you, I will stop pointing out how much of a loser you are, and I will buy you a box of cigarettes.

Let me know if you're interested.
I'm not doing that, the majority of miscers are biased in favour of me so they will all say you're fatter, it wouldn't be fair.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
I'm not doing that, the majority of miscers are biased in favour of me so they will all say you're fatter, it wouldn't be fair.
Right. Next time I remind you about the reality of your life and how you're too weak to do anything but leech off others, just acknowledge that it's the truth and move on. Because as we saw here today. You're too much of a pussy to put your money where your mouth is.

Metaphorically, you're broke, and you can and will eat anything that gets near your mouth.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Right. Next time I remind you about the reality of your life and how you're too weak to do anything but leech off others, just acknowledge that it's the truth and move on. Because as we saw here today. You're too much of a pussy to put your money where your mouth is.

Metaphorically, you're broke, and you can and will eat anything that gets near your mouth.
Seems I hit a nerve for calling you black and fat, same reasons David Goggins got shut down for the military.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
Seems I hit a nerve for calling you black and fat, same reasons David Goggins got shut down for the military.
You can't even hit the showers let alone hit a nerve.

But you should. You smell bad.
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This is a trannymaria alt.

SRS.


She just canNOT stop talking about misc females and their men's cocks.

Ever.
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
not true it's also a means to pleasure for them u should know this srs
part of the grift, my friend.
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Not attracted to them is my best guess. They marry for other things that are reasonable but don’t make for great sex lives.
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