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Thread: Sloot said “there’s a lot to unpack here” when I told her I expect blowjobs

post 1694990393 12-17-2023, 06:43 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
I don’t think this is correct; it’s moreso a reflection of your own psychology and perhaps a deathly concern with being alpha or something like that.

I think she just doesn’t want to feel like a whore, despite the fact she’s engaging in a whorish arrangement. It’s kinda like having an abortion, it’s an ugly thing and so you have to do what you must to justify it on a psychological level.

She’s aware of what she’s getting into, she probably just doesn’t want to be so “on the nose” about it.

I actually think your approach comes off as somewhat insecure and petty. Almost like you’re worried that you lack the seduction skills to get what you want over the weekend. Instead, you have to get a verbal agreement from her that she will be your whore.
This. It's odd you have to have it so explicitly planned out and verbalized before hand

You are taking a girl in your private hotel room for a weekend and you're already worried if you'll be getting laid or not.


Dunno, the whole direct approach like this wouldn't be for me. Rather just go with the flow and have a good time and see where that leads me
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it's good to get it off your chest if it was bothering you. maybe you could have worded it differently and still gauge her response.

but too many of these sloots these days would take you up of the offer just for a free mini break. and not fk you. basically cuckolding you. there are videos of this on social media where 1 guy actually drives the sloot straight back to the airport when she says nothing is going to happen. i think that was on day one of her arrival.

are you expecting her to sleep in your bed or does she have a separate room? or do you have twins?
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post 1694990893 12-17-2023, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
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it's good to get it off your chest if it was bothering you. maybe you could have worded it differently and still gauge her response.

but too many of these sloots these days would take you up of the offer just for a free mini break. and not fk you. basically cuckolding you. there are videos of this on social media where 1 guy actually drives the sloot straight back to the airport when she says nothing is going to happen. i think that was on day one of her arrival.

are you expecting her to sleep in your bed or does she have a separate room? or do you have twins?
Saw that video. Imagine being so desperate for a piece of puss you fly some random thot across the country...and then get mad like an angry beta when even she doesn't wanna fk u


Men act like worthless simps and then are surprised when they get treated like one.

You can't buy a genuine connection , and nor should you be trying to buy sex either
post 1694990913 12-17-2023, 07:06 AM
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You’re bringing a chick, you’re not banging, to a wedding in Cabo.

You are literally bringing sand to the beach boyo. Go solo, and have a good time with your friends, bang some bride’s maids and/or various other women on vacation.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
is this on seekingarrangements or something? cause then it makes more sense

but i do think its a bit "off" if this is a normal girl and she was just going to come with you
This is what I'm thinking too. Why are you even thinking of taking some chick you don't even know on a 4K+ trip? Have you even met this girl in person?
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post 1694990973 12-17-2023, 07:10 AM
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i don't really see the point of the pressure some people put on themselves to get laid. in the end it's just a fading memory unless you're in a long-term relationship
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post 1694991023 12-17-2023, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This is what I'm thinking too. Why are you even thinking of taking some chick you don't even know on a 4K+ trip? Have you even met this girl in person?
It's funny to me when men act like loser simps and then are surprised when they are treated like one.

Girls can sense that fake alpha act a mile away. If op was truly alpha he wouldn't be spending 4k on a girl he barely knew plain and simple
post 1694991193 12-17-2023, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Saw that video. Imagine being so desperate for a piece of puss you fly some random thot across the country...and then get mad like an angry beta when even she doesn't wanna fk u


Men act like worthless simps and then are surprised when they get treated like one.

You can't buy a genuine connection , and nor should you be trying to buy sex either
this is where OP at least has made his intentions clear.

he doesn't want to waste his time and days with a sloot just to be in her company. fk that.

as for the guy in the video. i think they had been talking for months and his intentions were clear. she tried to play him and it backfired. that is why he was pissed because she wanted his time/money and she still decided to come like an idiot. knowing he would of course be trying it on.

so who is the idiot? she was desperate for a free holiday. she could have just told him no - nothing will happen. and i guarantee he wouldn't be flying her out
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post 1694991303 12-17-2023, 07:20 AM
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post 1694991313 12-17-2023, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
this is where OP at least has made his intentions clear.

he doesn't want to waste his time and days with a sloot just to be in her company. fk that.

as for the guy in the video. i think they had been talking for months and his intentions were clear. she tried to play him and it backfired. that is why he was pissed because she wanted his time/money and she still decided to come like an idiot. knowing he would of course be trying it on.

so who is the idiot? she was desperate for a free holiday. she could have just told him no - nothing will happen. and i guarantee he wouldn't be flying her out
True that

I just find it on some old fat guy vibes if you actually have to make it explicitly clear by saying " I'll buy you this 4k vacation if you give me blowjobs "

Probably why I wouldn't date this way and fly a girl out anywhere. Rather keep my investment low ...and it's best not to act overly forward and make it clear you are only in it for sex.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
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You can’t buy attraction. Either she is attracted to you in which case she would sleep with you without you having to negotiate it.Or she is not attracted in which case why are you paying for her vacation.
this is the point. does she have to fk him because he is paying? OP doesn't want blueballs the whole trip. are they meant to be sharing a room?

note: i don't pay for sloots or take them on "real" dates. i usually meet and fk them outside somewhere on "date" 1 or 2 max.
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post 1694991563 12-17-2023, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
this is the point. does she have to fk him because he is paying? OP doesn't want blueballs the whole trip. are they meant to be sharing a room?

note: i don't pay for sloots or take them on "real" dates. i usually meet and fk them outside somewhere on "date" 1 or 2 max.
Dunno bout you but if I know I'm going to be spending a weekend with a girl..sleeping in the same bed it's basically a given that I'm going to do something sexually with her. No need to negotiate blowjobs before the trip

Only issue is op probably met this girl and some horrible unnatural way where he feels her sexual market value is higher...so he's gotta negotiate blowjobs before the trip even happens because he is scared that the discrepancy will shine thru and he will be used as the simp he is ( in this case)
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wtf is wrong with misc today? Between this and the vegas guy, yall really are socially retarded
post 1694992243 12-17-2023, 07:54 AM
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There is nothing girls like more than being treated like disposable hoors on wedding trips
post 1694992343 12-17-2023, 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Dunno bout you but if I know I'm going to be spending a weekend with a girl..sleeping in the same bed it's basically a given that I'm going to do something sexually with her. No need to negotiate blowjobs before the trip

Only issue is op probably met this girl and some horrible unnatural way where he feels her sexual market value is higher...so he's gotta negotiate blowjobs before the trip even happens because he is scared that the discrepancy will shine thru and he will be used as the simp he is ( in this case)
i agree. i would presume action would proceed, but it also depends on the conversation he has had with her. i don't know how long he has known her. their previous interactions. or if she is a stranger.

i've never had to negotiate ahead of time. that doesn't sound natural. but with these western sloots wanting a free ride. i don't blame him either

either way, like SS said. this thread was most likely a flex
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OP you're going to be kicking yourself so hard when you have a bridesmade salivating over you who's twice as nice as the random sloot you brought.
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Whoremaxxers...how many 10/10 hookers could you get with the 4k OP just spend?
The $4k is a cost regardless of whether I’m solo or with someone.
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Originally Posted By EvanStroud⏩
OP you're going to be kicking yourself so hard when you have a bridesmade salivating over you who's twice as nice as the random sloot you brought.
It’s a relatively small destination wedding and the people getting married are late 30s, so I’m guessing the number of single females will be low. Normally I’d strongly consider going solo, but I don’t Cabo is a place good for mostly solo travel.
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OP dun goofed
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So instead of getting lucky in Cabo you're paying expenses for some random slut...
Who tf drags a random wh0re across the country with them to a wedding?


Op= fail.
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
inb4 she blocks your number

Smooth operator
If she blocks my number that would actually be a desired outcome as well, because it tell me her intentions.
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Originally Posted By BronsonStorm⏩
Bro you can't just blatantly treat her like a hooker if this is someone you're wanting to make your "girlfriend".

I went to a wedding in the summer as a +1 of a girl I know, she drove and paid for the hotel.

You're spending thousands and "95% of costs" like an absolute chump.
The only extra costs I’m spending for the chick would be for her flight. Everything else I’d be paying regardless.
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Originally Posted By IlChosenOne⏩
Just lol @ even considering to bring a sloot you haven’t ravaged yet
The wedding is in 4 months, so I probably will **** her beforehand.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
One of my good friends is getting married in Cabo next year, and over the weekend I invited this random sloot to be my date for the wedding. Pretty good setup for her, free $600 flight, in a 4 star hotel on the beach for a week that is costing me $4000. I’m sure I’ll end up paying for 95% of other costs as well.
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
What I’ve just given you is a masterclass on how to deal with young sloots nowadays.
HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA

OMG, this is so pathetic, I almost turned a blind eye to the fact that your friend expects people to fund the logistics to his wedding
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
this is the point. does she have to fk him because he is paying? OP doesn't want blueballs the whole trip. are they meant to be sharing a room?

note: i don't pay for sloots or take them on "real" dates. i usually meet and fk them outside somewhere on "date" 1 or 2 max.
Exactly. I think it’s a totally reasonable thing to put her on notice about. If not interested, she’ll decline the trip this week, which I would also be ok with.
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Originally Posted By wtfBritannia⏩
HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA

OMG, this is so pathetic, I almost turned a blind eye to the fact that your friend expects people to fund the logistics to his wedding
Logistics? I have no idea what you’re talking about.
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She doesn't want you OP. Move on.
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