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post 10000010260 01-13-2026, 01:20 PM
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What’s it mean?

If dudes say “we should go get coffee sometime?” This must be a thing now because it’s the third man to request coffee. It just seems too loose to me. Like how long does a coffee take?
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post 10000010262 01-13-2026, 01:22 PM
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it's inexpensive and can be over with in 30 minutes if you don't click

men have woken up to taking women out to an expensive first dinner only to be hit with the "i had a great time, Mike! I just didn't feel the spark that i'm searching for. take care and good luck!"

take it or leave it sugar tits
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post 10000010267 01-13-2026, 01:25 PM
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iced coffee?
post 10000010269 01-13-2026, 01:26 PM
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Would you prefer a snow cone?
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post 10000010270 01-13-2026, 01:27 PM
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They're not being direct because you bitches said you didn't like that
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post 10000010271 01-13-2026, 01:27 PM
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Because people CBA wasting time or money on someone that might turn out to be a fuckin dud.
post 10000010277 01-13-2026, 01:31 PM
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Sorta a form of speed dating ....you have an easy out in 15 to 20 minutes...if it works....cool

If not......no hard feelings....NEXT!
post 10000010282 01-13-2026, 01:34 PM
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It means they have been fkd over so many times that's all they are willing to invest at the moment


I wont even drive over 20 minutes anymore and there was a time I'd drive 1.5 hours
post 10000010287 01-13-2026, 01:38 PM
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it's a neutral way to gauge your crazy levels without spending $$$. if u are single at 40 it usually means some form of crazy or attachment issues (or both). learned this the hard way so don't take it personally.

Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
it's inexpensive and can be over with in 30 minutes if you don't click

men have woken up to taking women out to an expensive first dinner only to be hit with the "i had a great time, Mike! I just didn't feel the spark that i'm searching for. take care and good luck!"

take it or leave it sugar tits
yeah also this
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post 10000010295 01-13-2026, 01:43 PM
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He just wants to take his turn with you. Sorry.
post 10000010296 01-13-2026, 01:43 PM
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So if I say yes or go - it’s a date? I don’t mind chilling for coffee but I don’t think I want to date. Plus it’s weird when it’s people that i barely talk to- like there’s no level of comfort for me so it’s a very awkward thing to go into.
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post 10000010299 01-13-2026, 01:44 PM
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Coffee is cheap and quick. It's to make sure you are who you say you are.
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post 10000010302 01-13-2026, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
it's a neutral way to gauge your crazy levels without spending $$$. if u are single at 40 it usually means some form of crazy or attachment issues (or both). learned this the hard way so don't take it personally.

Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
it's inexpensive and can be over with in 30 minutes if you don't click

men have woken up to taking women out to an expensive first dinner only to be hit with the "i had a great time, Mike! I just didn't feel the spark that i'm searching for. take care and good luck!"

take it or leave it sugar tits
yeah also this
It’s fine lol I’ve been diagnosed with BPD - massive attachment issues. I haven’t been in a relationship for 6 years so maybe it could be different but I really don’t know. My crazy seems to be triggered by relationships. I don’t pick great people though neither. So it’s probably a mixture of two toxic people not working together.
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post 10000010304 01-13-2026, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Coffee is cheap and quick. It's to make sure you are who you say you are.
I semi know them irl- i don’t feel like I look my best lately so it’s odd if it’s a date thing. Maybe they are just asking as a friend.
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post 10000010305 01-13-2026, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
So if I say yes or go - it’s a date? I don’t mind chilling for coffee but I don’t think I want to date. Plus it’s weird when it’s people that i barely talk to- like there’s no level of comfort for me so it’s a very awkward thing to go into.
yes, the guy would consider it a date

don't go and waste his time if you aren't in the same boat
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post 10000010311 01-13-2026, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
So if I say yes or go - it’s a date? I don’t mind chilling for coffee but I don’t think I want to date. Plus it’s weird when it’s people that i barely talk to- like there’s no level of comfort for me so it’s a very awkward thing to go into.
Yes, it's a date. Used to be drinks, but suggesting alcohol now implies date rape is intended.
post 10000010312 01-13-2026, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
So if I say yes or go - it’s a date? I don’t mind chilling for coffee but I don’t think I want to date. Plus it’s weird when it’s people that i barely talk to- like there’s no level of comfort for me so it’s a very awkward thing to go into.
Just tell him Netflix and chill instead

Show him your oh face
post 10000010345 01-13-2026, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
So if I say yes or go - it’s a date? I don’t mind chilling for coffee but I don’t think I want to date. Plus it’s weird when it’s people that i barely talk to- like there’s no level of comfort for me so it’s a very awkward thing to go into.
Just tell him Netflix and chill instead

Show him your oh face
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post 10000010353 01-13-2026, 02:09 PM
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Counter offer and ask if he wants to get ice coffee.
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post 10000010375 01-13-2026, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
It’s fine lol I’ve been diagnosed with BPD - massive attachment issues. I haven’t been in a relationship for 6 years so maybe it could be different but I really don’t know. My crazy seems to be triggered by relationships. I don’t pick great people though neither. So it’s probably a mixture of two toxic people not working together.
typical 40yo lost girl. such a shame.



also wtf 6 years? don't forget to flush out the spider webs first
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post 10000010400 01-13-2026, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Coffee is cheap and quick. It's to make sure you are who you say you are.
I semi know them irl- i don’t feel like I look my best lately so it’s odd if it’s a date thing. Maybe they are just asking as a friend.
That's exactly it. You'll show up mid winter bulk, he'll bail, the coffee will have done it's intended job.

BTW guy friends aren't a thing. He wants to be more than friends.
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
If dudes say “we should go get coffee sometime?” This must be a thing now because it’s the third man to request coffee. It just seems too loose to me. Like how long does a coffee take?
What's important – seeing if there is any chemistry etc can be done just the same over coffee, if not better since less formal/potentially less nerves - knowing it's casual and not locked down for 2 hrs. No need to give a label such as date – who cares what it's called? Either you click or you don't.
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Ask for a dinner instead
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
So if I say yes or go - it’s a date? I don’t mind chilling for coffee but I don’t think I want to date. Plus it’s weird when it’s people that i barely talk to- like there’s no level of comfort for me so it’s a very awkward thing to go into.
yes, the guy would consider it a date

don't go and waste his time if you aren't in the same boat
this, the guy may not think it's a date, but it's a precurser to a date 100%
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I’d rather go for some wings instead
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
I’d rather go for some wings instead
Hooters! Hope it's still there - brought my mom and sister there when they came for my 97 florida graduation. A place all must go.
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Originally Posted By steffo99⏩
Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
I’d rather go for some wings instead
Hooters! Hope it's still there - brought my mom and sister there when they came for my 97 florida graduation. A place all must go.
Nothing like a first date at Hooters. If she's up for it she's a keeper LOL! :)
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Originally Posted By steffo99⏩
Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
I’d rather go for some wings instead
Hooters! Hope it's still there - brought my mom and sister there when they came for my 97 florida graduation. A place all must go.
Nothing like a first date at Hooters. If she's up for it she's a keeper LOL! :)
lol, true
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