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post 10000139414 04-25-2026, 09:01 AM
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How many of you are incels?

And why are you an incel?

I’m not an incel in the sense that I haven’t had sex or a gf. I had my first gf and lost my virginity late in life. Mindset wise I’m still pretty incel.

It’s because I never learned to or desired to assimilate with popular culture. I developed crippling social anxiety around most people because I lacked shared interests. Even counter-culture groups were unfit for me. Goths, emos, anime kids, etc. I couldn’t fit in with them. I also sucked at sports but I did excel academically but couldn’t get along with the nerdy kids either. I gradually retreated from my peers and found social comfort in online forums like misc.

I had a small friend group. They were composed of misfits who had nerdy interests but also talked about depraved weird shit. Kinda like miscers.
post 10000139422 04-25-2026, 09:07 AM
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I feel like I am but I don’t know what the bar is for involuntarily . Mine might just be like not caring enough to try
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post 10000139424 04-25-2026, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
I feel like I am but I don’t know what the bar is for involuntarily . Mine might just be like not caring enough to try
You could probably get your cunt pounded out if you wanted to, most people have options they just dont like the options they have.
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post 10000139427 04-25-2026, 09:11 AM
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We’re all Indian so all of us
post 10000139431 04-25-2026, 09:14 AM
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Not sure I fit the true definition of incel either but I would say I've struggled with relationships in general because I'm introverted and don't put myself out there.

Example: I only went to prom in high school because a girl asked me to go, otherwise I wasn't going to make any attempt to go.


Not claiming to be a Chad but if I put myself out there as often as the average dude I would probably get above average results. Chasing women just feels so demeaning with how the game is played and feels so unappealing to me. There are things I regret for sure though.
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post 10000139434 04-25-2026, 09:15 AM
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post 10000139442 04-25-2026, 09:22 AM
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I'm two months incel since my messican fwb ghosted me. Srs
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post 10000139447 04-25-2026, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17⏩
I'm two months incel since my messican fwb ghosted me. Srs
Looks like she's getting her burrito stuffed with someone elses carne
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post 10000139450 04-25-2026, 09:32 AM
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post 10000139453 04-25-2026, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Bonobo⏩
Looks like she's getting her burrito stuffed with someone elses carne
Brutal
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post 10000139484 04-25-2026, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted By RustledJimmies⏩
Don't use words like that. They want us to turn on eachother.
That’s because they redefined the definition of incel as both a pejorative and borderline domestic terrorist group. Feminists hijacked the word and emphasized that misogyny is an integral component.

Its primordial definition is a man who desires who getting laid but can’t. Usually due to social stigma or anxiety.
post 10000139519 04-25-2026, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Not sure I fit the true definition of incel either but I would say I've struggled with relationships in general because I'm introverted and don't put myself out there.

Example: I only went to prom in high school because a girl asked me to go, otherwise I wasn't going to make any attempt to go.


Not claiming to be a Chad but if I put myself out there as often as the average dude I would probably get above average results. Chasing women just feels so demeaning with how the game is played and feels so unappealing to me. There are things I regret for sure though.
Your problem, like many incels, is that you have a colossal ego which is a defense mechanism for deeper insecurities. I can read it through the damn screen.

It's not that you're introverted, (possibly you are, that's immaterial) it's that you are terrified to put yourself at a level equal to others to include socializing with them.

You will continue to have regrets until you stop allowing fear to hold you back.
post 10000139530 04-25-2026, 10:21 AM
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Miscers arent nearly as bad as the hard core Incels. Just read a few thrads on their little corner of the interwebs and you will feel much better about yourcelf.

https://incels.is/forums/inceldom-discussion.2/
post 10000139535 04-25-2026, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Miscers arent nearly as bad as the hard core Incels. Just read a few thrads on their little corner of the interwebs and you will feel much better about yourcelf.

https://incels.is/forums/inceldom-discussion.2/
Clicked the link and tried to click on a thread, immediately redirected me to porn, probably exactly what these losers want on that site.
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post 10000139558 04-25-2026, 10:30 AM
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Haven’t gotten laid since my hair transplant.

I don’t even talk to a single girl atm.

I’m not sure if this makes me an incel but im not even sure I could get laid looking like I do right now with my transplant not grown in.

Doesn’t matter tho because I have no interest in women at this point in my life. Just focused on my hair transplant growing in. When it does I’ll be back in the game and I can’t wait.
post 10000139562 04-25-2026, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Haven’t gotten laid since my hair transplant.

I don’t even talk to a single girl atm.

I’m not sure if this makes me an incel but I truly don’t believe I could even get laid looking like I do right now with my transplant not grown in.

Doesn’t matter tho because I have no interest in women at this point in my life. Just focused on my hair transplant growing in.
Once its grown in it could bring you up a full point from before, could be the difference in getting laid or not.
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post 10000139566 04-25-2026, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Haven’t gotten laid since my hair transplant.

I don’t even talk to a single girl atm.

I’m not sure if this makes me an incel but im not even sure I could get laid looking like I do right now with my transplant not grown in.

Doesn’t matter tho because I have no interest in women at this point in my life. Just focused on my hair transplant growing in.
I'm sure you could. Just throw some old pictures on the apps and show up to the date with a hat on.
post 10000139570 04-25-2026, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
Once its grown in it could bring you up a full point from before, could be the difference in getting laid or not.
I used to get a ton of girls prior to balding. And even when I was balding I used hair fibres to hide it. So I’m simply taking back my life and restoring my original self with the transplant.
post 10000139571 04-25-2026, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
You could probably get your cunt pounded out if you wanted to, most people have options they just dont like the options they have.
The guy that most recently hit on me was very cute but 26 which is too young for me
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post 10000139576 04-25-2026, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By MiscDetective⏩
I'm sure you could. Just throw some old pictures on the apps and show up to the date with a hat on.
It’s just not worth it to me. I don’t want to deceive anyone and you typically have to take the hat off during sex.

I’m actually really enjoying my time away from the dating scene and having no social life. I could easily do this for a year until my transplant grows in.
post 10000139721 04-25-2026, 12:34 PM
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post 10000139724 04-25-2026, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
I feel like I am but I don’t know what the bar is for involuntarily . Mine might just be like not caring enough to try
Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
Femcel checking in
shameful u two even consider urself involuntary celibate srs

michelle turned down a coffee date a few months back because the guy did not jester enough for her

imagine being asked out for coffee it would probably make my year and then to turn it down

some drown while others die of thirst
I put effort in all my threads srs

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Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
As well she should.

“Coffee” is not a date. A date is a man taking you out for a nice dinner and paying.

Always reject coffee dates.
I put effort in all my threads srs

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I think people are only truly incels if they accept that as their position.

I think there is always a degree of voluntarily giving up.
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You homos need to stop using this feminist terminology. I’ll call it out every time I see it.
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Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
A coffee date is insulting srs
Yeah should be a three Michelin star date
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Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
As well she should.

“Coffee” is not a date. A date is a man taking you out for a nice dinner and paying.

Always reject coffee dates.
Please tell me how many 20 yr olds are taking you out for a nice dinner? Just LMAO...

Another thing...they are not the best in bed...

Hope this helps! :)
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