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post 1626411033 12-23-2020, 03:45 PM
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What to do when left on read?

Was texting this new girl I met from online, asked her about travelling. She gives me list of countries she’s been to. I tell her I was planning to go to turkey with my friends, then she says yeah it’s a good place you should go.
I jokingly tell her “I’d rather go with you”
Then she leaves me on read. We are texting on Snapchat.
She’s 25 so kind of old but still fk online dating and being left on read like this.
What to do in this situation? Delete and move on?
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post 1626411123 12-23-2020, 03:46 PM
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"pls respond"
post 1626411203 12-23-2020, 03:47 PM
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struggling with this right now. she's a 5/10 so basically a goddess.
post 1626411253 12-23-2020, 03:48 PM
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yes, sir. rinse and repeat
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post 1626411333 12-23-2020, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By BaldingManlet⏩
"pls respond"
Was thinking of deleting her off my Snapchat srs, don’t wanna keep her on my list and being reminded of being left on read lol
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post 1626411393 12-23-2020, 03:49 PM
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Just leave it be. Give up and move on . Don't double text . In my experience there's no converting a flaky girl .


You could restart the convo if you didn't leave off on asking a q or some big statement.


What I learnt is that the dating game is cut throat . If you sense any sort of rejection give up and go NC immediately. Anything else you're just giving ego boosts for free .But If they ever hit you up again , you'll know whats up
post 1626411403 12-23-2020, 03:49 PM
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I guess she doesn't want to go to Turkey with you.
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post 1626411733 12-23-2020, 03:53 PM
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Ey fuk you mang! You need people like me! You need people like me so you can point your fockin fingers and say, "That’s the bad guy." Well say goodnight to the bad guy.
post 1626412233 12-23-2020, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
I guess she doesn't want to go to Turkey with you.
Bruh i was jokingly saying that, I’d hardly travel to a different country with a random chick, unless it’s my long term gf or whatever lol.
Her last text was like “yeah turkey is nice you should go”
And I’m a cheeky guy so sent that text I’d rather go with her lol..
But yeah fair game online chicks are mostly flakey from my experience.
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post 1626412353 12-23-2020, 04:00 PM
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go to Turkey, whoremaxx with Rajc and get hair surgery if you're Norwood 2+
post 1626412433 12-23-2020, 04:01 PM
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I just don't text them again and if I never hear from them again that's fine.

If a girl is into you, she will reach out. Only focus on girls that are really into you. Makes no sense to waste time on those that aren't when there are so many girls in the world.
post 1626412463 12-23-2020, 04:01 PM
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“Perfect, lets rebook”

Or

“Jk lol I don’t want to go to Turkey, I just want to stuff you like one”
post 1626412493 12-23-2020, 04:02 PM
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Nothing.

Forget it and move on.

How long has it been?
post 1626412753 12-23-2020, 04:06 PM
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Time to go full contact Opie

Double, triple, maybe even quadruple text her. Use lots of "haha" and emojis. Bishes love that chit.

Good luck
post 1626413203 12-23-2020, 04:11 PM
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“I rather go with you” shows you’re in low demand with other women and you’re desperate. Why? You asked? It shows you’re willing to drop everything and change major plans for a girl you barely met even if you’re joking. Don’t message her ever again until she message you and don’t send cringe stuff like that.
post 1626413653 12-23-2020, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Cite⏩
“I rather go with you” shows you’re in low demand with other women and you’re desperate. Why? You asked? It shows you’re willing to drop everything and change major plans for a girl you barely met even if you’re joking. Don’t message her ever again until she message you and don’t send cringe stuff like that.
nahhhh you're overthinking it, Just said it as a joke I'm not gunna go travel the world with a random chick man come on now. was just tryna be cheeky, brah that's my personality sure it's cringe for you, but it's what came to my mind when she sent me the last text.

edit: read my text again on snap... her last text was " you should go it's nice"
then i text her " it will be nicer to go with you"
So I didn't say i'd rather go with her, but its grasping at straws who cares.
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post 1626413793 12-23-2020, 04:17 PM
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post 1626413823 12-23-2020, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Was texting this new girl I met from online, asked her about travelling. She gives me list of countries she’s been to. I tell her I was planning to go to turkey with my friends, then she says yeah it’s a good place you should go.
I jokingly tell her “I’d rather go with you”
Then she leaves me on read. We are texting on Snapchat.
She’s 25 so kind of old but still fk online dating and being left on read like this.
What to do in this situation? Delete and move on?
jerk off before you text her back. you probs won't want to for a few days
post 1626413903 12-23-2020, 04:19 PM
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Just ignore it and if in a few months you still havn’t heard from her and you see her name on Snapchat for whatever reason, just delete her then.
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post 1626414033 12-23-2020, 04:21 PM
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Also dude you’re a Fuken man ... full of testosterone, ready to conquer

We’ve all been here, I know I have

But you shouldn’t be focusing on this stuff or even making this thread ... this is fuken minor league chit

Think bigger, don’t give this chick another thought (ded fkn srs)
post 1626414073 12-23-2020, 04:21 PM
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Lol at deleting or blocking him

Leave it as is. Maybe one day he will see your story with your new Chad bf and get super jealous.
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post 1626415153 12-23-2020, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Cite⏩
“I rather go with you” shows you’re in low demand with other women and you’re desperate. Why? You asked? It shows you’re willing to drop everything and change major plans for a girl you barely met even if you’re joking. Don’t message her ever again until she message you and don’t send cringe stuff like that.
This guy gets it. You probably creeped her out even if you were joking, who the fuk asks to travel together when you haven't even met..



And this alt below me gets it too



You went full beta OP
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imo you goofed by giving her too much validation and made it too easy on her too early on so she's less interested


Think about it from her perspective, this guy I haven't even met yet just told me he would rather go to another country with me than his own friends. Obviously you weren't serious but you put her on a pedestal with that statement and you put that thought in her mind that she's already over your boys and you haven't even met yet and she had to do nothing to prove herself.

Make a bish at least have to try a little and not think she's got you from the jump

I would wait at least 24hrs then reach out again and if she ghosts again then move on just my 2 cents bro
post 1626415273 12-23-2020, 04:36 PM
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post 1626415413 12-23-2020, 04:38 PM
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I would’ve said don’t overthink it and do whatever you want, but then you’ve already made a thread in the misc about it so.
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yeesh

das not it, opie

now you know what not to do

in general, the thing to do is text a different gal
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Bruh i was jokingly saying that, I’d hardly travel to a different country with a random chick, unless it’s my long term gf or whatever lol.
Her last text was like “yeah turkey is nice you should go”
And I’m a cheeky guy so sent that text I’d rather go with her lol..
But yeah fair game online chicks are mostly flakey from my experience.
first off

joking or not, dudes throw themselves at girls frequently enough they can't take the risk on whether you meant it in good natured fun, or a creepy way. They got enough options they can NC if they're concerned.

secondly, you said "rather go with you" when all she said was "you should go" in response to you going with friends. weird answer when you are already planning the trip with friends. should have suggested a rain check with her "give me the grand tour next time" or some bs like that
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instead of going to turkey with her, you book a one way trip to north carolina with her instead
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Has happened to all of us OP. I’ll sometimes even stop texting/calling after the first few dates to see if a girl will initiate contact. If she doesn’t, I move on. I’m trying to date an adult...not some high school clown who searching for drama or the thrill of being chased. It’s a sign of that or they aren’t interested.

I’ve stopped texting some women because I lost interest or discovered something that’s a deal breaker. Some have texted repeatedly back practically begging for attention. They wanted it. Those that didn’t respond back, didn’t. Use it as a means of weeding them out OP.
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
first off

joking or not, dudes throw themselves at girls frequently enough they can't take the risk on whether you meant it in good natured fun, or a creepy way. They got enough options they can NC if they're concerned.

secondly, you said "rather go with you" when all she said was "you should go" in response to you going with friends. weird answer when you are already planning the trip with friends. should have suggested a rain check with her
haha looked at the text again,
i say: " cool, I am planning a trip to turkey soon some of my buddies wanna go. is it a nice place
she says "you should go it's nice"
I reply " it will be nicer to go with you tbh :P"
i didn't say i'd rather go with her.
As in I said it would be a NICER experience if she was there with me, said it as a joking manner.
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