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post 1658547443 03-25-2022, 09:40 AM
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Wedding Invitation - non incels only

So my wife’s high school friend is getting married soon, I’ve met her maybe a dozen times, and my wife and I have been together for 10 years.

The wedding invitation doesn’t include my name, anywhere. Not on the envelope, not in the card, not on the RSVP page. I joked that meant I wasn’t invited and didn’t have to go (I hate weddings). This caused a … little … conflict between us.

Misc take? How bad of a faux pas is it to not include a couple’s name, etc?
post 1658547863 03-25-2022, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By miscinbro⏩
So my wife’s high school friend is getting married soon, I’ve met her maybe a dozen times, and my wife and I have been together for 10 years.

The wedding invitation doesn’t include my name, anywhere. Not on the envelope, not in the card, not on the RSVP page. I joked that meant I wasn’t invited and didn’t have to go (I hate weddings). This caused a … little … conflict between us.

Misc take? How bad of a faux pas is it to not include a couple’s name, etc?
sounds pretty fukked up, i would fk her soon to be husband to get even srs
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post 1658547983 03-25-2022, 09:51 AM
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Even if it doesn't have your name, it should have a number for people invited (like +1 or some chit)
In which case you're implicitly invited
Idk anything about you, but I know weddings >500 people invited. Those people didn't even write all the invites.

Your wife thought your joke was chit, and you didnt recover in time. Don't give af if you're on the invite by name, you shouldn't give a chit unless she has only 1 seat for herself. At these type of events you need to go with your wife, just like you'd expect her to go to the weddings you're invited to.
post 1658548503 03-25-2022, 09:59 AM
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Weddings suck, but yeah, I think everyone involved would assume you'd go.
post 1658548713 03-25-2022, 10:03 AM
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In a wedding planning stage now. We included names of partners we knew on invites + save the dates, and are sure to include at least a (+1) option on the invites if we don't know the date's name.

That's weird if it didn't have at least a +1 option OP.
post 1658548743 03-25-2022, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted By CaseinPoint⏩
Even if it doesn't have your name, it should have a number for people invited (like +1 or some chit)
In which case you're implicitly invited
Idk anything about you, but I know weddings >500 people invited. Those people didn't even write all the invites.

Your wife thought your joke was chit, and you didnt recover in time. Don't give af if you're on the invite by name, you shouldn't give a chit unless she has only 1 seat for herself. At these type of events you need to go with your wife, just like you'd expect her to go to the weddings you're invited to.
I think my OP needs more detail. This isn’t some random, she is part of a pretty close group of about 10 women they all went to middle school and high school with and they all stay in contact regularly. Hell, I tried to set her up with my best friend as they went to the same undergrad.

Also, I’ve been invited to maybe 50 weddings over the years and my name has never, once, not been included to an invite from my wife’s side. Vice verse for her. Page two of the online rsvp page allows a plus one - but that could be literally anyone. I’m not tacitly invited to sht. I’m obviously going, but only as common decency to my wife.
post 1658548863 03-25-2022, 10:05 AM
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Of course you can't go, you weren't invited.

What a massive loss for you! (Not srs. Jackpot)

Weddings are the gayest, fakest, most asinine thing in our society. It's like Instagram IRL.
post 1658548903 03-25-2022, 10:05 AM
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I know one thing; you're going to that goddamn wedding OP
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post 1658548933 03-25-2022, 10:06 AM
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we didnt put the names of some of my wife's friends boyfriends because we didnt like them and wanted to be passive agressive

i can only assume thats what happened here. show up and get blacked out and make a scene
post 1658548953 03-25-2022, 10:06 AM
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If it is that big of a deal, ask the people who sent the invitation....

But I imagine if you were capable of that kind of direct communication, you would already have an understanding of their intention.

Just ask them man....
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post 1658549033 03-25-2022, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By miscinbro⏩
Also, I’ve been invited to maybe 50 weddings over the years and my name has never, once, not been included to an invite from my wife’s side.
You've been to 50 weddings? I'd kill myself and I'm being 100% serious.
post 1658549133 03-25-2022, 10:08 AM
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You seem to think this is a slight against you, maybe you're right, but her friend could have just been thoughtless without ill-intent.
post 1658549843 03-25-2022, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
we didnt put the names of some of my wife's friends boyfriends because we didnt like them and wanted to be passive agressive

i can only assume thats what happened here. show up and get blacked out and make a scene
This is the obvious answer, she’s rich so probably open bar with legit booz
post 1658549953 03-25-2022, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
You've been to 50 weddings? I'd kill myself and I'm being 100% serious.
It’s awful. They get way sad too as you get older and the desperate looks in the singles eyes. Let’s not even talk about the “food.”
post 1658550043 03-25-2022, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
If it is that big of a deal, ask the people who sent the invitation....

But I imagine if you were capable of that kind of direct communication, you would already have an understanding of their intention.

Just ask them man....
Already did, I’m “of course” invited - and like mentioned here I’m obviously going - this isn’t about that - it’s about the etiquette
post 1658550123 03-25-2022, 10:21 AM
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I wouldn't care at all, would skip the ceremony and show up for the reception and drink my share of the open bar and have some dinner and party.

If there's no open bar I wouldn't go.
post 1658550203 03-25-2022, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By coast2coastam⏩
You seem to think this is a slight against you, maybe you're right, but her friend could have just been thoughtless without ill-intent.
I highly doubt it was done with malice, but it’s going to be really hard to pretend I give a sht about her the next time I see her socially
post 1658550383 03-25-2022, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By miscinbro⏩
It’s awful. They get way sad too as you get older and the desperate looks in the singles eyes. Let’s not even talk about the “food.”
Lmao.

Had good food at ONE wedding. Friend had filet mignon at his.

Why would anyone want a wedding for themselves? What a huge pain in the ass. So much effort just to have some evidence of social hierarchy LMAO.

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Fuk all of that. Just go to the court, it's like $200. Done.

Maybe do a 'honeymoon' vacation because that part is actually fun.
post 1658550563 03-25-2022, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Lmao.

Had good food at ONE wedding. Friend had filet mignon at his.

Why would anyone want a wedding for themselves? What a huge pain in the ass. So much effort just to have some evidence of social hierarchy LMAO.

Legit Instagram IRL.
So much money, we guess this wedding is going to cost upwards of 200k - I can’t even.
post 1658551373 03-25-2022, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By miscinbro⏩
Already did, I’m “of course” invited - and like mentioned here I’m obviously going - this isn’t about that - it’s about the etiquette
lol at even thinking twice about something as meaningless as "etiquette" lol.


They won. clearly.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
lol at even thinking twice about something as meaningless as "etiquette" lol.


They won. clearly.
“Won” - won what?
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Her friends hates you and has hated you since the day you started dating your wife......she even probably tried to get her to break it off with you at some point, if not multiple times through your relationship.

By her not even mentioning you on the invite, it's just another stab at you and an expression of her hatred of you. Your wife got all pissed when you made a joke because she know the truth and instead of just laughing it off, got defensive. They were probably really good friends at one point, but ever since you were thrown into the mix their friendship has been strained and you are the one thing, that is constantly driving a wedge between them.

I believe she literally doesn't want to acknowledge your existence and the last thing she wants is to see your face at her wedding.


In all seriousness, ask some of the other couples that you know what their invites looked like and if their sig other was even mentioned. It is a little odd that it wasn't addressed to you as a couple. Was this friend invited to your wedding?
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Originally Posted By miscinbro⏩
“Won” - won what?
This bro. This. They beat you at this.
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I'd go and smash the bridesmaids maybe the bride too
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i don't think you are invited
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together for a decade..i have to assume not listing you on the invitation was 100% deliberate and intentional
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Her friends hates you and has hated you since the day you started dating your wife......she even probably tried to get her to break it off with you at some point, if not multiple times through your relationship.

By her not even mentioning you on the invite, it's just another stab at you and an expression of her hatred of you. Your wife got all pissed when you made a joke because she know the truth and instead of just laughing it off, got defensive. They were probably really good friends at one point, but ever since you were thrown into the mix their friendship has been strained and you are the one thing, that is constantly driving a wedge between them.

I believe she literally doesn't want to acknowledge your existence and the last thing she wants is to see your face at her wedding.


In all seriousness, ask some of the other couples that you know what their invites looked like and if their sig other was even mentioned. It is a little odd that it wasn't addressed to you as a couple. Was this friend invited to your wedding?
I don’t think it’s that bad - but I will ask some other couples in the same friends group of the opportunity arises and isn’t super awkward.

We didn’t have a ceremony - city hall all the way. But if we had she would have 100% been invited.
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Her friends hates you and has hated you since the day you started dating your wife......she even probably tried to get her to break it off with you at some point, if not multiple times through your relationship.

By her not even mentioning you on the invite, it's just another stab at you and an expression of her hatred of you. Your wife got all pissed when you made a joke because she know the truth and instead of just laughing it off, got defensive. They were probably really good friends at one point, but ever since you were thrown into the mix their friendship has been strained and you are the one thing, that is constantly driving a wedge between them.

I believe she literally doesn't want to acknowledge your existence and the last thing she wants is to see your face at her wedding.


In all seriousness, ask some of the other couples that you know what their invites looked like and if their sig other was even mentioned. It is a little odd that it wasn't addressed to you as a couple. Was this friend invited to your wedding?
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Your wife needs to ask her friend: "Is Miscnbro invited to the wedding"?

If yes, then ok.

If no, then you'll find out exactly where your wife's loyalty is.
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I wouldn't think anything about it...wtf? lol

I also hate weddings though
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