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post 1668375873 09-23-2022, 09:58 PM
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Explain this girl’s mentality

At dance place sitting with some friends.
Girl looks over starts vibing, says I look like this musician guy, talk about music n stuff. See her soon after start asking her about school, she talks a bit then says have a goodnight nice to meet you twice in row dismissive like.

Wut? Seems like a weird sudden shift mentally.

My vibe/demeanour was pretty neutral, didn’t really want to get with her but might as well see where it goes so I didn’t have some aggro energy. Surprised by the shift
post 1668375953 09-23-2022, 10:01 PM
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Such is life for Timothy
post 1668375963 09-23-2022, 10:01 PM
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i remember the first time I tried to understand a sloot
Uncontrollable behavior with some psychopathic tendencies
post 1668376033 09-23-2022, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Critter5592⏩
i remember the first time I tried to understand a sloot
Lol
post 1668376063 09-23-2022, 10:04 PM
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from my experience when women act off like that it's useless to try and figure out what you did wrong, so don't dwell on it.

It's a common misconception that when a girl acts weird all of a sudden that it's solely because of something you did. Many women just act retarded unprovoked.
post 1668376363 09-23-2022, 10:15 PM
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Maybe stop going to high school dances
post 1668376513 09-23-2022, 10:24 PM
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She wanted you to play off of how she was fetishizing/fantasizing you in her sloot brain it was either role with it and play along or else you popped the sloot thought bubble
post 1668376673 09-23-2022, 10:29 PM
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Sloot: You look like this musician guy in this band I really like.
OP: So, let's talk about school.






fuсkin potato
post 1668376683 09-23-2022, 10:29 PM
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You thought she was feelin you?
You a munch.
post 1668376793 09-23-2022, 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted By gwg77⏩
Sloot: You look like this musician guy in this band I really like.
OP: So, let's talk about school.






fuсkin potato
Lol i dunno she mentioned liking science when. I asked what she liked referring t music so figured she’d roll with that
post 1668376943 09-23-2022, 10:39 PM
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shoulda just vibed and got on the dance floor

Better luck next year OP
post 1668378363 09-23-2022, 11:39 PM
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You spooked her, leave her alone, or creepermax.
post 1668378553 09-23-2022, 11:44 PM
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Have an opinion.
Make statements.
Asking bunch of boring questions is not the way to a woman's vagina.
post 1668378933 09-23-2022, 11:58 PM
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She was being nice and she’s not into you. Let it go.
post 1668378983 09-24-2022, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
from my experience when women act off like that it's useless to try and figure out what you did wrong, so don't dwell on it.

It's a common misconception that when a girl acts weird all of a sudden that it's solely because of something you did. Many women just act retarded unprovoked.
This is good advice. You can kill yourself ruminating over what you said or did, or didn’t say or do. Don’t catch the Feels.

Are you gonna marry the chick? Nope. Just be friendly and cordial next time you see them. You’re not married FFS. You ain’t even dating.

They probably aren’t even thinking about you. Why waste your thoughts on them?

Are you their boyfriend? Their husband? Their father? You aren’t responsible for their emotions or choices in life. Think about something else.
post 1668395153 09-24-2022, 10:24 AM
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She got her free drinks so her objective had been met.
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post 1668395943 09-24-2022, 10:41 AM
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You didn't close and she felt offended so acted dismissive to you like she didn't care in the first place
post 1668396053 09-24-2022, 10:44 AM
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It's called a chit test and you flunked.

She found you decent looking enough to talk to but then your boring personality ruined any chance at a hookup.
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post 1668396623 09-24-2022, 11:03 AM
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No one likes to talk about school or work outside of school or work.
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