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10-03-2022, 05:12 PM
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Hold me, misc. I was the rebound.
Met this gorgeous attorney girl. She checked off everything I was looking for. Things were going so good. Had our second date Friday night and it went really good.
Today she told me she’s dealing with personal stuff having to do with a previous relationship and that she’s not ready to date, but that I’m a really handsome, smart, funny, etc. guy and that we can be friends. I basically said no to the friendship and wished her luck.
I’m absolutely shattered, misc. it’s been 9 years since I’ve been this broken. Not even my divorce had me like this (mainly cause I initiated that). obviously going NC and going to focus on myself just like I have for a while. This feeling is the worst
Today she told me she’s dealing with personal stuff having to do with a previous relationship and that she’s not ready to date, but that I’m a really handsome, smart, funny, etc. guy and that we can be friends. I basically said no to the friendship and wished her luck.
I’m absolutely shattered, misc. it’s been 9 years since I’ve been this broken. Not even my divorce had me like this (mainly cause I initiated that). obviously going NC and going to focus on myself just like I have for a while. This feeling is the worst
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10-03-2022, 06:03 PM
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10-03-2022, 06:08 PM
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10-03-2022, 10:39 PM
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>Had our second date Friday night
>it's been 9 years since I've been this broken
u fkn wot m8??
>it's been 9 years since I've been this broken
u fkn wot m8??
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10-04-2022, 01:34 AM
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Are you seriously crying over a girl that you've only seen twice ?
10-04-2022, 01:37 AM
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I hope this helps you opie : Don't dwell on the past, don't fantasize about her or the potential that she had. You don't know that woman, chances are she's as much of sloot than any other.
I got dumped right after the "honeymoon phase" who lasted 4 months, earlier this summer. It sucks because I only have good time to remember about but truth is it was not the real her.
The real her was the girl who cowardly dumped me by text and refused to talk about it on the phone.
Now pick yourself up and move on. It's all we have got to do.
I got dumped right after the "honeymoon phase" who lasted 4 months, earlier this summer. It sucks because I only have good time to remember about but truth is it was not the real her.
The real her was the girl who cowardly dumped me by text and refused to talk about it on the phone.
Now pick yourself up and move on. It's all we have got to do.
10-04-2022, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By deltakappabrah⏩
This. fkn lmao>Had our second date Friday night
>it's been 9 years since I've been this broken
u fkn wot m8??
>it's been 9 years since I've been this broken
u fkn wot m8??
Here's to swimmin' with bow-legged women.
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10-04-2022, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted By MrQuint⏩
I totally agree. My mom said the same thing.This. fkn lmao
I guess I got too excited, we talked about plans and everything was going so good. She led me on and it hurts like hell. It’s not like a breakup where interest might’ve dropped or there are reasons for it
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10-04-2022, 07:19 PM
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you met her off a dating app didn't you
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10-04-2022, 07:30 PM
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shes prob seen your chit posts on here and panties dried up real quick
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10-04-2022, 07:41 PM
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Sucks man but take it as a lesson to help keep your emotions/mind in check.
See you tomorrow
10-04-2022, 11:08 PM
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10-05-2022, 01:49 PM
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What kind of plans do you make after 2 dates?
Plans for a third date?
Plans for a third date?
10-05-2022, 05:08 PM
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u fukken queened her , treated her like royalty n she saw that chit a mile away . i bet you couldnt shut ur chit mouth 4 a second 2 listen 2 what she had 2 say . bet u gave out the stalker alert by telling her how great she is . u were fukken married b4 the damn salad was brought 2 the table
10-05-2022, 06:18 PM
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Side note, can we all agree you need to smash to get rebound status?
10-05-2022, 08:57 PM
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10-07-2022, 06:09 PM
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Yes, met her off Hinge. She was displaying high levels of attraction too. I think the reason I was really hurt (I’m doing better now) is because I only met her good side. We had made some plans and really hit it off. So imagine riding that endorphin-high emotion, then from one day to another, it’s dead. Thanks for the encouragement, and yes I know it was only 2 dates. I’ll be fine. Her loss.
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10-07-2022, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
OP's a deranged liberal chitposter and he's genetic trash so it was quite possibly the first date he's gotten since his wife left him.Are you seriously crying over a girl that you've only seen twice ?
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10-08-2022, 09:19 AM
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did you get any action, bj or some finger banging?
she dumped you because you didn't make her pussy tingle
she gave you a chance - and you failed to capitalise on this. another guy has since slidden into her DMs
if you had her gagging on your cawk in the back of the car after the first or second date she would still be messaging you
srs
she dumped you because you didn't make her pussy tingle
she gave you a chance - and you failed to capitalise on this. another guy has since slidden into her DMs
if you had her gagging on your cawk in the back of the car after the first or second date she would still be messaging you
srs
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10-28-2022, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
Sounds like my coworker who went on two dates with a girl and was shattered. Pretty laughable if this is true.Met this gorgeous attorney girl. She checked off everything I was looking for. Things were going so good. Had our second date Friday night and it went really good.
Today she told me she’s dealing with personal stuff having to do with a previous relationship and that she’s not ready to date, but that I’m a really handsome, smart, funny, etc. guy and that we can be friends. I basically said no to the friendship and wished her luck.
I’m absolutely shattered, misc. it’s been 9 years since I’ve been this broken. Not even my divorce had me like this (mainly cause I initiated that). obviously going NC and going to focus on myself just like I have for a while. This feeling is the worst
Today she told me she’s dealing with personal stuff having to do with a previous relationship and that she’s not ready to date, but that I’m a really handsome, smart, funny, etc. guy and that we can be friends. I basically said no to the friendship and wished her luck.
I’m absolutely shattered, misc. it’s been 9 years since I’ve been this broken. Not even my divorce had me like this (mainly cause I initiated that). obviously going NC and going to focus on myself just like I have for a while. This feeling is the worst
10-30-2022, 09:25 AM
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Been there. It's a reason why it's hard for me to even become really interested in a girl. Right when you think that things are really starting to move she just pulls the tracks out from under you and then you are derailed. Fuk that.
11-09-2022, 02:26 PM
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12-22-2022, 01:18 PM
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So we stopped talking for about 1.5 months. I reached out and asked her how her 5K race went in mid-November, added each other on social media. We’d talk every now and then, mainly replying to stories (both of us) or memes. I really was treading carefully.
Last week we started talking more, set up a hangout for this past Tuesday to go see some Christmas lights around downtown (I was surprised she was down). We had a blast, good conversation, dinner. Great personal conversations. I told her the story of my divorce, and she told me some personal stuff too. We opened up. But I’m still fixated on what she told me back in September about her not being ready. And then she has her thing with her dad having cancer (diagnosed in mid-October) which sucks and obviously that can take a lot out of someone mentally. So basically like where I’m at is, “what’s next” or was it just a friendly hangout. You know? She could’ve easily said no to hanging out. But she said yes. I’m not new to this, I know when a conversation is based on interest. No I didn’t hold hands or kiss, since I didn’t know what tf it was, even though it did feel like a date. Fuuuuu
Last week we started talking more, set up a hangout for this past Tuesday to go see some Christmas lights around downtown (I was surprised she was down). We had a blast, good conversation, dinner. Great personal conversations. I told her the story of my divorce, and she told me some personal stuff too. We opened up. But I’m still fixated on what she told me back in September about her not being ready. And then she has her thing with her dad having cancer (diagnosed in mid-October) which sucks and obviously that can take a lot out of someone mentally. So basically like where I’m at is, “what’s next” or was it just a friendly hangout. You know? She could’ve easily said no to hanging out. But she said yes. I’m not new to this, I know when a conversation is based on interest. No I didn’t hold hands or kiss, since I didn’t know what tf it was, even though it did feel like a date. Fuuuuu
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12-26-2022, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
brah. this isn't rebound territory. this is guy best friend territory.No I didn’t hold hands or kiss, since I didn’t know what tf it was, even though it did feel like a date. Fuuuuu
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12-26-2022, 08:35 AM
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I've been broken by a girl I dated 3x before
It was also the first girl I ever liked. Srs.
Hope that puts things into perspective. Man the fuk up
It was also the first girl I ever liked. Srs.
Hope that puts things into perspective. Man the fuk up
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12-27-2022, 03:21 PM
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Option 1: Ask her if she's ready/interested in actually dating.
Option 2: Setup another hangout and make a move.
Not sure slow-playing with more IG smalltalk makes sense as I think if she claims she's "not ready"," you can get your answer and move on (and still revisit at any time without investing in constant smalltalk via IG).
Option 2: Setup another hangout and make a move.
Not sure slow-playing with more IG smalltalk makes sense as I think if she claims she's "not ready"," you can get your answer and move on (and still revisit at any time without investing in constant smalltalk via IG).
12-27-2022, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
This. Pick one of those options. If the answer to 1 is "no," move on to someone else. If option 2 results in awkward rejection of your advance, move on to someone else.Option 1: Ask her if she's ready/interested in actually dating.
Option 2: Setup another hangout and make a move.
Not sure slow-playing with more IG smalltalk makes sense as I think if she claims she's "not ready"," you can get your answer and move on (and still revisit at any time without investing in constant smalltalk via IG).
Option 2: Setup another hangout and make a move.
Not sure slow-playing with more IG smalltalk makes sense as I think if she claims she's "not ready"," you can get your answer and move on (and still revisit at any time without investing in constant smalltalk via IG).
01-02-2023, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
This.wut, this is the gayest thing i ever read on this site, "we had amazing conversations", what kind of guy talks like that, this is gayer than that "relapse" guy who was banging twinks, atleast he didnt wax poetic on their conversations and emotionally opening up. wtf
OP, you need a dating app and get back on the horse brah orr do it old skool and go to a bar
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01-10-2023, 09:51 AM
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Any updates, OP? Did you ask her the deal and/or go out again and make a move?
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