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03-12-2024, 04:35 AM
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Stop using dating apps NOW



They're only made for women, yet men pay the most for them. Why haven't you quit dating apps already? Do you like looking like a total loser?
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03-12-2024, 04:40 AM
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Personally I've never had a problem meeting girls off Tinder. The problem males have is they are so thirsty they blow these women up with unearned attention so the only way to play the game is to let women show interest in you and put in an actual effort instead of them just using it to mine attention from simps.
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03-12-2024, 04:59 AM
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Scum deserve scum. Or nothing.
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03-12-2024, 05:00 AM
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Online dating should be banned
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03-12-2024, 05:02 AM
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Originally Posted By cavillac⏩
Personally I've never had a problem meeting girls off Tinder. The problem males have is they are so thirsty they blow these women up with unearned attention so the only way to play the game is to let women show interest in you and put in an actual effort instead of them just using it to mine attention from simps.
This ,99% of women send out an emoji

They're wormed hooks

You can't make an effort to form a sentence, fuk off

Of course ,I'm the minority

Most men are thirsty as f

Is what it is
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03-12-2024, 05:03 AM
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Honestly looking at that chart, men have too low of standards. Imagine liking 50% of the pigs on dating apps. You're giving them the illusion that they are all desirable.
I'm just a whit guy frm the future, I completely out of touc

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03-12-2024, 05:11 AM
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Honestly looking at that chart, men have too low of standards. Imagine liking 50% of the pigs on dating apps. You're giving them the illusion that they are all desirable.
This.

Miscers tend to complain they match with women they deem undesirable…

But how do they match with them unless they swiped right on them?

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03-12-2024, 05:14 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Honestly looking at that chart, men have too low of standards. Imagine liking 50% of the pigs on dating apps. You're giving them the illusion that they are all desirable.

Plus, a lot of swiping is spam swiping. As a guy, you learn pretty quickly that your results don't get much better by taking your time and putting effort into it, so you treat it like the numbers game that it is and spam swipe right. And yeah, it's amusing that chicks can't tell that spam swiping, and guys lowering their standards compared to IRL (lowering standards is a requirement of any man on online dating apps, as there are 10x more men than women on the apps, and there are no truly high end women on the apps.
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03-12-2024, 05:16 AM
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just don't pay for them…
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03-12-2024, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Honestly looking at that chart, men have too low of standards. Imagine liking 50% of the pigs on dating apps. You're giving them the illusion that they are all desirable.
Most men can barely get laid as it is but the solution is to raise their standards?

Online will never go away because it works for women and the men they actually want.

The undesirables can all get off today and it wont make a difference cause nobody wants them.
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03-12-2024, 05:30 AM
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Online dating is essentially women selling men the rope to hang themselves with.

There was a period when it was this new thing that helped people connect with others that they likely wouldn't have ever have done. I've fuked a bunch of girls while traveling that I never would have met(and still use it while traveling). But it's 100% useless in the US nowadays.
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03-12-2024, 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Honestly looking at that chart, men have too low of standards. Imagine liking 50% of the pigs on dating apps. You're giving them the illusion that they are all desirable.
As an onlinedatingcel (at least formerly, my plan is put it behind me for good) of several years, i'll explain the process of how this happens. It's gradual and sinister.

When you first join online dating, as in, you've never done it before, you go into it with your "normal standards". Most people have a vague awareness of their level, and they'll message women accordingly.

But then you start to realise your repsonse rate is abysmal, really abysmal. You keep trying it some more, maintaining your standards, but it's just the same minimal or zero responses over and over again.

This marks the beginning of lowering your standards a bit. You discover that KINDA works, but it's still mostly chit.

Anyway, you can sorta see the pattern forming now.

The final stage of this is that you basically drop your standards so much that you start looking for women that you would never dream of actually dating or having a relationship with, but are good enough for a "fuk".
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03-12-2024, 05:37 AM
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You can say get off the apps, but wtf do you replace them with?

BRB coed hobbies. BRB grocery store game. Like do those actually turn up more first dates than kamikaze swiping?
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03-12-2024, 05:40 AM
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You can say get off the apps, but wtf do you replace them with?

BRB coed hobbies. BRB grocery store game. Like do those actually turn up more first dates than kamikaze swiping?
Maybe if you're not a guy like you.
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03-12-2024, 05:48 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
You can say get off the apps, but wtf do you replace them with?

BRB coed hobbies. BRB grocery store game. Like do those actually turn up more first dates than kamikaze swiping?
No. Online is the most common way to start relationships. IRL is less and less of a thing especially if you arent that attractive because women have gotten so picky you need to play a high volume game.

Now if EVERYONE quit the apps and they died, yes would make a huge difference. but as long as they exist, they will be the best option.
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03-12-2024, 05:58 AM
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No. Online is the most common way to start relationships. IRL is less and less of a thing especially if you arent that attractive because women have gotten so picky you need to play a high volume game.

Now if EVERYONE quit the apps and they died, yes would make a huge difference. but as long as they exist, they will be the best option.
I've cold approached single girls in dog parks before and got their # …and they weren't even on apps

Real life game is good, but I have a feeling guys like you and faphgt would lack the confidence to actual speak to them without hiding behind a screen
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03-12-2024, 06:12 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Online dating is essentially women selling men the rope to hang themselves with.

There was a period when it was this new thing that helped people connect with others that they likely wouldn't have ever have done. I've fuked a bunch of girls while traveling that I never would have met(and still use it while traveling). But it's 100% useless in the US nowadays.
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03-12-2024, 06:16 AM
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Was back on the apps November 30th last year. By December 2nd I was balls deep. It's fishing with dynamite
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03-12-2024, 06:19 AM
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No. Online is the most common way to start relationships. IRL is less and less of a thing especially if you arent that attractive because women have gotten so picky you need to play a high volume game.

Now if EVERYONE quit the apps and they died, yes would make a huge difference. but as long as they exist, they will be the best option.

Online is hands down the worst way to meet women period (they're all mentally ill, so would you be if you had hundreds of messages from strange women begging you for sex), but even more so if you're below average looking. Or if you've got something they can cling to as bad right off the bad, like being shorter or bald or whatever. Online dating is the last thing I'd suggest to someone struggling with fnding chicks to date.
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Was back on the apps November 30th last year. By December 2nd I was balls deep. It's fishing with dynamite

Grindr still good?
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03-12-2024, 06:23 AM
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Online is hands down the worst way to meet women period (they're all mentally ill, so would you be if you had hundreds of messages from strange women begging you for sex), but even more so if you're below average looking. Or if you've got something they can cling to as bad right off the bad, like being shorter or bald or whatever. Online dating is the last thing I'd suggest to someone struggling with fnding chicks to date.
This.
Dating apps : are you tall and look good?
Then they will work for you.

Other wise you guys need to think outside the box . I've had luck before just randomly chatting girls up on fb/ ig

Dating apps are the same old pool that all the other incels are fishing in too and coming up with very little
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03-12-2024, 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Honestly looking at that chart, men have too low of standards. Imagine liking 50% of the pigs on dating apps. You're giving them the illusion that they are all desirable.
That would bring the 1% match rate down to 0%.
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03-12-2024, 06:37 AM
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As long as you're not Quasimodomaxxing Tinder is ez.

Swipe right rarely (only to 7.5+) and when you get a match always say Hi. The algorithm recognizes you as picky high value who isn't there just pile up matches, but to actually hit up girls and your profile gets more exposure.

Brahs who are never saying Hi to matches and swipe everything right are gonna have a bad time.
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
Online is hands down the worst way to meet women period (they're all mentally ill, so would you be if you had hundreds of messages from strange women begging you for sex), but even more so if you're below average looking. Or if you've got something they can cling to as bad right off the bad, like being shorter or bald or whatever. Online dating is the last thing I'd suggest to someone struggling with fnding chicks to date.
The problem is almost all girls use tinder and social media.

So they already think they can easily get a doctor or businessman that makes 200k+ a year with 10/10 looks and tall.

When they see a cute guy they think well there’s so many of them.
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The problem is almost all girls use tinder and social media.

So they already think they can easily get a doctor or businessman that makes 200k+ a year with 10/10 looks and tall.

When they see a cute guy they think well there’s so many of them.
The base problem is men's low standards and thirst. Imagine the average women when she can't get free and instant attention from simps. Imagine the average women when she suddenly will be ignored and treated like thin air. That's when change will come.

But as long as men are weak and desperate, women will have all the power in the dating market.
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As long as you're not Quasimodomaxxing Tinder is ez.

Swipe right rarely (only to 7.5+) and when you get a match always say Hi. The algorithm recognizes you as picky high value who isn't there just pile up matches, but to actually hit up girls and your profile gets more exposure.

Brahs who are never saying Hi to matches and swipe everything right are gonna have a bad time.
say "hi" lool youre not pulling anyone with that sort of game
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03-12-2024, 06:42 AM
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Try talking to women in real life. It's so uncommon these days. I wonder how the average app based sloot would respond to having someone cold approach her.
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Try talking to women in real life. It's so uncommon these days. I wonder how the average app based sloot would respond to having someone cold approach her.
Don't do that either. Unless you're at least 8/10 women IRL will look at you with disgust and then leave. Best you can do is to learn to live without them, and use porn as a substitute.
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Originally Posted By Sybb⏩
The base problem is men's low standards and thirst. Imagine the average women when she can't get free and instant attention from simps. Imagine the average women when she suddenly will be ignored and treated like thin air. That's when change will come.

But as long as men are weak and desperate, women will have all the power in the dating market.
Most guys think a girl needs to sleep with chad off tinder.

Most of the girls I met didn’t even have sex with chad off tinder.

They just got likes and didn’t have sex with anyone.

They just feel like they shouldn’t have sex with guys who are beneath them.
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
say "hi" lool youre not pulling anyone with that sort of game
Depends on how good looking you are. For me personally "Hi" won't do it, unless it's some average or below looking broad, so I have to drop in with something witty.

For Chad Thundercock "hey" should be enough.
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