Thread: Nobody actually cares about you
05-05-2024, 06:22 AM
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Nobody actually cares about you
Ever notice how long it takes for people to forget someone who leaves their job? Even if someone worked there for 30+ years before leaving or retiring, they are forgotten and never brought up again very quickly. Within a few months, their name might never come up again, and that's if they were reasonably well known and well liked.
In that case, the person is still alive, yet still completely forgotten very quickly. That person will forget most of their coworkers and stuff pretty fast, too. Now imagine when somebody actually dies. People forget all the faster. When you die, you're lucky if anyone other than your parents or children give a chit beyond hearing the news initially. Maybe a longtime spouse, if they aren't already hopping on someone new already.
Within months, you're forgotten almost entirely. 10 years from your death, you're alreadly less remembered by people you knew personally than historic people they didn't know. That's reality.
In that case, the person is still alive, yet still completely forgotten very quickly. That person will forget most of their coworkers and stuff pretty fast, too. Now imagine when somebody actually dies. People forget all the faster. When you die, you're lucky if anyone other than your parents or children give a chit beyond hearing the news initially. Maybe a longtime spouse, if they aren't already hopping on someone new already.
Within months, you're forgotten almost entirely. 10 years from your death, you're alreadly less remembered by people you knew personally than historic people they didn't know. That's reality.
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05-05-2024, 06:26 AM
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We are all expendable and replaceable. What matters is what we achieve together. No one person is important enough to make all the difference. It doesn't matter how obese, orange or obnoxious he is. All of us will die and be forgotten in time, but humanity and society will live longer.
05-05-2024, 06:30 AM
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I care about you brah just chill with the threads sometimes
05-05-2024, 06:41 AM
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If you wanna look at it a bit differently, people have way to much stuff going on in their life and in their head to be able to care about anyone else.
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05-05-2024, 06:43 AM
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i must have really gotten to you
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05-05-2024, 06:43 AM
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Sounds like cope
05-05-2024, 06:47 AM
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Not true in every field. Where im at people are mentioned many times YEARS after they've gone. Heck I just heard one name come up the other day from a dude who left in 2018 lol
05-05-2024, 06:52 AM
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Very true, especially at work. We had a guy working for us for 40 years, died one day. They passed a card around for his wife then distributed his work that same week. No fuks were given except by people complaining about the extra workload.
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05-05-2024, 06:53 AM
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i cared about my ex. that didnt work out well
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05-05-2024, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
u still hurtin brah? forget that hoe
i cared about my ex. that didnt work out well
05-05-2024, 06:58 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
Ever notice how long it takes for people to forget someone who leaves their job? Even if someone worked there for 30+ years before leaving or retiring, they are forgotten and never brought up again very quickly. Within a few months, their name might never come up again, and that's if they were reasonably well known and well liked.
In that case, the person is still alive, yet still completely forgotten very quickly. That person will forget most of their coworkers and stuff pretty fast, too. Now imagine when somebody actually dies. People forget all the faster. When you die, you're lucky if anyone other than your parents or children give a chit beyond hearing the news initially. Maybe a longtime spouse, if they aren't already hopping on someone new already.
Within months, you're forgotten almost entirely. 10 years from your death, you're alreadly less remembered by people you knew personally than historic people they didn't know. That's reality.
In that case, the person is still alive, yet still completely forgotten very quickly. That person will forget most of their coworkers and stuff pretty fast, too. Now imagine when somebody actually dies. People forget all the faster. When you die, you're lucky if anyone other than your parents or children give a chit beyond hearing the news initially. Maybe a longtime spouse, if they aren't already hopping on someone new already.
Within months, you're forgotten almost entirely. 10 years from your death, you're alreadly less remembered by people you knew personally than historic people they didn't know. That's reality.
Because people you work with should care about you.
Ok
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05-05-2024, 07:00 AM
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Depends, I worked with a guy for maybe 2 years before he retired, taught me a lot and a really chill guy, 7 years later and even though he moved to Baja we still talk 1-2 times per month. I know plenty of people who retired and still keep in contact or stay involved somehow with coworkers and friends.
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05-05-2024, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted By FrostF⏩
Not true in every field. Where im at people are mentioned many times YEARS after they've gone. Heck I just heard one name come up the other day from a dude who left in 2018 lol
He probably worked there for a really long time and got brought up because some chit he used to do was relatable to some other really long-timers, and something reminded them of the "old days". In any case, a name being brought up once every other blue moon doesn't mean most people there actually give a chit.
Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Because people you work with should care about you.
Ok
Ok
Work on your reading comprehension skills. That wasn't the point of me bringing that up at all. It was an example of how fast people are forgotten even among groups they've spent a lot of time closely with, for whatever reason.
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05-05-2024, 07:37 AM
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just look at the trans movement if you de-transition - see how much they care for you in that group as an outcast
05-05-2024, 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
You are a master of the obvious. People who have no reason to care about you don't care about you. Thanks for the enlightenment.
Work on your reading comprehension skills. That wasn't the point of me bringing that up at all. It was an example of how fast people are forgotten even among groups they've spent a lot of time closely with, for whatever reason.
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05-05-2024, 07:47 AM
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05-05-2024, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
It's not my fault you're too low-IQ to grasp basic reading comprehension.
You are a master of the obvious. People who have no reason to care about you don't care about you. Thanks for the enlightenment.
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05-05-2024, 08:09 AM
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The sooner people understand this, the better.
I know misc likes to make jokes about "mogging other people" with material things etc.. but the bitter pill is that no one really gives a **** about you and your car or your watch.. you are being lead by your ego.
The only people who can and will truly care about you, are your parents/siblings (if you are lucky and maintain good relations with them). Most spouses and girlfriends don't really care about their partners.. they only care about the things and lifestyle the man can offer them @ the moment.
I know misc likes to make jokes about "mogging other people" with material things etc.. but the bitter pill is that no one really gives a **** about you and your car or your watch.. you are being lead by your ego.
The only people who can and will truly care about you, are your parents/siblings (if you are lucky and maintain good relations with them). Most spouses and girlfriends don't really care about their partners.. they only care about the things and lifestyle the man can offer them @ the moment.
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05-05-2024, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
It's not my fault you are a whiny bitch
It's not my fault you're too low-IQ to grasp basic reading comprehension.
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05-05-2024, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
Brutal truthpill right here.
10 years from your death, you're alreadly less remembered by people you knew personally than historic people they didn't know. That's reality.
05-05-2024, 08:24 AM
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I tried to keep in touch with one chick who i worked with and she completely ghosted me. Didnt even return my Happy New Years text. It was so strange. I guess when people leave a job they dont want to keep anything with them. Its all fake.
Another person at this same job was loved by everyone. They ended up moving to Chicago. 4 weeks later I ask people how she was doing in Chicago and nobody could tell me. So even if it seems like people have these great relations at work, when one person leaves a job, it all ends
Another person at this same job was loved by everyone. They ended up moving to Chicago. 4 weeks later I ask people how she was doing in Chicago and nobody could tell me. So even if it seems like people have these great relations at work, when one person leaves a job, it all ends
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05-05-2024, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By mryamamoto⏩
This. Your parents are the only ones that truly give a fukk about you, and even thats not a gaurantee.
The sooner people understand this, the better.
I know misc likes to make jokes about "mogging other people" with material things etc.. but the bitter pill is that no one really gives a **** about you and your car or your watch.. you are being lead by your ego.
The only people who can and will truly care about you, are your parents/siblings (if you are lucky and maintain good relations with them). Most spouses and girlfriends don't really care about their partners.. they only care about the things and lifestyle the man can offer them @ the moment.
I know misc likes to make jokes about "mogging other people" with material things etc.. but the bitter pill is that no one really gives a **** about you and your car or your watch.. you are being lead by your ego.
The only people who can and will truly care about you, are your parents/siblings (if you are lucky and maintain good relations with them). Most spouses and girlfriends don't really care about their partners.. they only care about the things and lifestyle the man can offer them @ the moment.
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05-05-2024, 09:49 AM
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A valid train of thought that arrives at nihilism. What is your motivation for posting this OP?
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05-05-2024, 09:54 AM
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they're called work friends for a reason. Out of my current crew at work I will probably not maintain contact with any of them after I retire. I do maintain contact with a couple of people I've worked with at my current employer and a couple of people from each of my previous employers. I'm happy that I've regained contact with some of my high school and college buddies. True friends who will be with you in the long run are hard to cultivate and take work to maintain. Do the work.
05-05-2024, 09:55 AM
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There is no such thing as unconditional love between non-familial persons.
There is no such thing as altruism.
There is no such thing as altruism.
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05-05-2024, 10:05 AM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
I agree with the first but not the second. Are they presented as separate thoughts or are you saying that the first implies the second?
There is no such thing as unconditional love between non-familial persons.
There is no such thing as altruism.
There is no such thing as altruism.
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05-05-2024, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By TwoTailedSperm⏩
Well in terms of altruism I don’t believe it’s truly possible for humans.
I agree with the first but not the second. Are they presented as separate thoughts or are you saying that the first implies the second?
There is always a self-serving reason deep down behind every motivated human act imo.
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05-05-2024, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
Game theory can show that stable self-serving altruism is possible. Altruism is not always motivated by selfless behavior. Yes, it creates a niche for selfish people to exploit but with enough opportunity to punish and therefore deter this niche can be kept small enough that altruism is still beneficial for all participants and that foregoing it to spite those greedy individuals is not self serving. White people do this best in my opinion and is a key reason for their greatness. (no hate)
Well in terms of altruism I don’t believe it’s truly possible for humans.
There is always a self-serving reason deep down behind every motivated human act imo.
There is always a self-serving reason deep down behind every motivated human act imo.
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05-05-2024, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By TwoTailedSperm⏩
interesting
Game theory can show that stable self-serving altruism is possible. Altruism is not always motivated by selfless behavior. Yes, it creates a niche for selfish people to exploit but with enough opportunity to punish and therefore deter this niche can be kept small enough that altruism is beneficial for all participants and that foregoing it to spite those greedy individuals is not self serving. White people do this best in my opinion and is a key reason for their greatness. (no hate)
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05-05-2024, 10:17 AM
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The glass is always half empty with you ph@ggots
Everyone else is out enjoying their life & you choose lonely misery
Everyone else is out enjoying their life & you choose lonely misery
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