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07-10-2024, 04:35 AM
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What does it mean when a woman you're talking to in a bar talks to another guy?

This has happened to me multiple times and it seems to be a trend, and I truly don't know what to make of it.

I'll give an example of last night. I approached a woman at a bar and we're having a good convo. She seems interested. We exchange Instagrams, then I ask her if she wants to go outside for some fresh air and she agrees. Then she says she wants to dance. We go back to the bar for a drink and as we're speaking she suddenly turns around and quickly approaches another guy and starts a conversation with him.

I'm just standing there stunned. Then I leave and go approach another woman, a few minutes later I see the original woman dancing with the other guy. So I'm speaking to another woman for about ten minutes, when suddenly the original woman shows up and tries intervening and approaching me. I just ignore her and keep talking to the second woman.

Later I go home, and at 5am I receive a text from the original woman saying "you ok?".

I'm unable to read minds, so I assumed she approached another guy because she simply wasn't interested. But why would she try to approach me later and then text me uninitiated?
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07-10-2024, 04:36 AM
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It means that it's over.
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07-10-2024, 04:38 AM
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It means she is a sloot. And sloots gonna sloot.


Also OP…..water is wet. Srs, vy srs.
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07-10-2024, 04:39 AM
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It means that it's over.
That's what I assumed, but why would she try approaching me later when I was talking to another girl and then text me? This is not a one-time thing, this same situation has happened multiple times with different women I approached in bars in the past.
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07-10-2024, 04:41 AM
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You passed the test.

She cucked you for the first time, and wanted to see if you'd stand around like a little puppy dog. You immediately went for another girl, which told her you have options and are not some guy who doesn't get laid.

I usually walk away from girls who play these games. Its just not worth it.
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