Thread: Dating a single mother
08-02-2024, 03:37 AM
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Dating a single mother
I'm dating this chick who is an awesome person and very beautiful. Problem is she has a 6 year old kid. She got pregnant at a young age with a black dude and now the dude is completely out of the picture.
I resent the fact she has a kid with another dude, and the fact the kid is black lets everyone know it isn't mine.
I'm struggling to not view the kid as a constant reminder of the huge mistake she made, but on the other hand I know he's just an innocent kid with no father.
Every instinct within me says not to raise the kid, but that instinct is conflicted with compassion for an innocent child and the love for the woman I am with.
She's also reluctant to have more kids with me, because she believes that would be committing the same mistake she made 6 years ago. However, I believe having kids with her at a ratio of 2:1 to outnumber her mistake, is the best solution for me.
I'm keeping my eyes open to signs that she actually loves me rather than using me as a cuck step-dad for her kid.
What would you do in this situation?
I resent the fact she has a kid with another dude, and the fact the kid is black lets everyone know it isn't mine.
I'm struggling to not view the kid as a constant reminder of the huge mistake she made, but on the other hand I know he's just an innocent kid with no father.
Every instinct within me says not to raise the kid, but that instinct is conflicted with compassion for an innocent child and the love for the woman I am with.
She's also reluctant to have more kids with me, because she believes that would be committing the same mistake she made 6 years ago. However, I believe having kids with her at a ratio of 2:1 to outnumber her mistake, is the best solution for me.
I'm keeping my eyes open to signs that she actually loves me rather than using me as a cuck step-dad for her kid.
What would you do in this situation?
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08-02-2024, 05:52 AM
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Knock her up and marry her, brah. Hopefully your kids come out black like her 6 year old.
If they do, celebrate the diversity of your new Wife's sexual partners.
If they do, celebrate the diversity of your new Wife's sexual partners.
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08-02-2024, 06:02 AM
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Read title, entered thread, saw join date, leavin' thread
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08-02-2024, 07:08 AM
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saw the title and loled
never ever date a single mom
never ever date a single mom
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08-02-2024, 07:40 AM
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08-02-2024, 07:44 AM
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If she doesn't see herself having kids with you then you are just the beta provider.
I'd 360 it out of there.
I'd 360 it out of there.
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08-02-2024, 07:47 AM
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Shutting this down.
The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.
The reality here is: OP's dad found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick…
The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.
OP's dad has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.
I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.
The reality here is: OP's dad found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick…
The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.
OP's dad has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.
I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
08-02-2024, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By BenchWorship⏩
She's also reluctant to have more kids with me, because she believes that would be committing the same mistake she made 6 years ago. However, I believe having kids with her at a ratio of 2:1 to outnumber her mistake, is the best solution for me.
Her viewing you as "the same mistake" as her previous partner who bailed? Red flag.
She's also reluctant to have more kids with me, because she believes that would be committing the same mistake she made 6 years ago. However, I believe having kids with her at a ratio of 2:1 to outnumber her mistake, is the best solution for me.
You wanting kids strictly to outnumber her previous baby daddy mistake? Red flag.
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08-02-2024, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By tripod29⏩
Thanks for your support. But I really appreciate what the others have to say too and if they are rude or call me a cuck then that's fine because it could be true.
Shutting this down.
The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.
The reality here is: OP's dad found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick…
The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.
OP's dad has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.
I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.
The reality here is: OP's dad found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick…
The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.
OP's dad has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.
I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
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08-02-2024, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By BenchWorship⏩
What would you do in this situation?
I'd probably rope for having such a low self sense of worth that I think I'd be 'stuck' dating a single mother who has those hang ups.
What would you do in this situation?
08-02-2024, 12:35 PM
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lol move on
you already harbor resentment against the kid despite not wanting to. he's gonna feel it at one point or another and that's not fair to him. somehow I doubt having more kids is the solution to this.
nevermind she isn't even entertaining the idea with you. If it's a blanket "no more kids" I could maybe understand it, but that still affects your requirement to outnumber her baby daddy's offspring.
you already harbor resentment against the kid despite not wanting to. he's gonna feel it at one point or another and that's not fair to him. somehow I doubt having more kids is the solution to this.
nevermind she isn't even entertaining the idea with you. If it's a blanket "no more kids" I could maybe understand it, but that still affects your requirement to outnumber her baby daddy's offspring.
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08-02-2024, 12:37 PM
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In this situation I would neg you for being stupid.
08-02-2024, 12:37 PM
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Everyone with an iq over room temperature knows to pump and dump single moms .
Single moms will always put their kid first , and you’ll always be second in her life and expendable.
I never wanted to have kids after dating sloots that had them, as they’re usually undisciplined little brats .
As much as I got a disdain for kids after that, I do help out a single mom here in town as they are struggling pretty hard . So it’s not all bad , but I certainly wouldn’t marry or get romantically involved with her
Single moms will always put their kid first , and you’ll always be second in her life and expendable.
I never wanted to have kids after dating sloots that had them, as they’re usually undisciplined little brats .
As much as I got a disdain for kids after that, I do help out a single mom here in town as they are struggling pretty hard . So it’s not all bad , but I certainly wouldn’t marry or get romantically involved with her
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08-02-2024, 06:47 PM
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go ahead and raise her niglet, what could go wrong? be the dad who stepped up
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08-03-2024, 07:13 AM
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Society needs cucks to raise single moms children. Go ahead and step up. Someone has to do it so she's not a drain on government resources.
08-03-2024, 09:18 AM
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It's not like I can't envision a scenario I would date a single mom but she would have to be literally perfect
Having a child BBC'd into her is not something I could overcome
Having a child BBC'd into her is not something I could overcome
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08-03-2024, 08:04 PM
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Hey, fat - how is it you can carry on with racism like this but as soon as I PM you with a racist slur I get banned??
go ahead and raise her niglet, what could go wrong? be the dad who stepped up
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08-04-2024, 06:43 AM
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Because you're a Trump crew brah in your sig. Everything is against normalcy and being a Trump supporter is normal. That makes you a raclst, mysoginist, bigoted, literally Hltler targeted brah.
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08-06-2024, 02:52 PM
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Nope.
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08-06-2024, 03:18 PM
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Just a thought, but maybe you could sell the kid to a farmer or the railways? and have momma bear all to yourself.
08-06-2024, 03:32 PM
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Lol
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That's racist
08-09-2024, 05:13 AM
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I love eating white holes - both vag and anus. But there are rules. If a BBC has been in either hole, it's game over for me.
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08-19-2024, 09:51 AM
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alot of red pill/incel talking points in this discussion.
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08-26-2024, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By benchworship⏩
lmao
thanks for your support. But i really appreciate what the others have to say too and if they are rude or call me a cuck then that's fine because it could be true.
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08-26-2024, 08:37 AM
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whoever reads this and does not have the aspirations to be a future cuck - don't do it.
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08-27-2024, 03:38 PM
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even dating single moms(hot ones) for fun/casual dating is still a pain in the ass. Kids create too much logistics
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08-27-2024, 05:15 PM
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is she willing to give the child up for adoption and start again?
08-27-2024, 06:23 PM
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I would have thought you laid into the troll a little further than you should have but appears Miscers are taking you at face value.
I know this isn't a serious thread but i'll give a serious answer to your problem. Tell mom you want to spend some quality time with her son. Take him on a fishing trip. Capsize the boat to make it believable and then make sure you're the only one wearing a life preserver. Problem solved.
I know this isn't a serious thread but i'll give a serious answer to your problem. Tell mom you want to spend some quality time with her son. Take him on a fishing trip. Capsize the boat to make it believable and then make sure you're the only one wearing a life preserver. Problem solved.
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