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08-08-2024, 07:44 PM
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it's insane how much you are judged by the way you dress/look in person

IF I dress up well, wear a nice watch, show my tattoos. People will assume that i'm wealthy and i get treated like i'm a king where ever I go

If I go out dressed looking like a homeless person? People act like I don't even exist . I could ask for a cup of water they will say "no" if I go to a restaurant in a hoodie and shorts I will have to literally ask to get service. Now if I go in dressed up looking good? "Right this way king, first drink is on me" Waitresses will be flirting "wanting to know who you are" since you "look wealthy"
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08-08-2024, 07:47 PM
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08-08-2024, 08:28 PM
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I mean how else are strangers supposed to judge you? Looks are the only thing they have to go off of
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08-08-2024, 08:32 PM
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Yeah people assume that I am a drug dealer or gangster when I wear sports clothes, but otherwise I look nice when I dress more presentably.

Women also notice, especially when I dress up in corporate attire - so it's easy to become dependant on fashion to feel confident.

The obvious solution it to dress up as a strategic maneuver, but be comfortable in sports clothes and not give a fugg what people think.
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08-08-2024, 08:40 PM
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That's interesting because people assume that I am a drug dealer or gangster when I wear sports clothes, but otherwise I look nice when I dress more presentably.

Women also notice, especially when I dress up in corporate attire - so it's easy to become dependant on fashion to feel confident.

The obvious solution it to dress up as a strategic maneuver, but be comfortable in sports clothes and not give a fugg what people think.
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08-08-2024, 08:44 PM
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That's interesting because people assume that I am a drug dealer or gangster when I wear sports clothes, but otherwise I look nice when I dress more presentably.

Women also notice, especially when I dress up in corporate attire - so it's easy to become dependant on fashion to feel confident.

The obvious solution it to dress up as a strategic maneuver, but be comfortable in sports clothes and not give a fugg what people think.
You dare mock me?

Brother, you'd buckle if you saw me in my sports clothes. All 6 foot 5 of you. You're 5 incher would shrivel from the adrenaline pushing the blood to go straight to you head.
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08-08-2024, 08:52 PM
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What's even crazier is how many people either don't understand this, or do and still make zero effort.

You don't have to be a BB'er on fin with shin extensions.

But even just dressing in clothes that fit, shaving or trimming a beard, trimming nose hairs, being a healthy weight, etc.
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08-08-2024, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
You dare mock me?

Brother, you'd buckle if you saw me in my sports clothes. All 6 foot 5 of you. You're 5 incher would shrivel from the adrenaline pushing the blood to go straight to you head.
Lol you're almost as tough as Insidemane

You might be in the second spot now
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08-08-2024, 09:02 PM
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Lol you're almost as tough as Insidemane

You might be in the second spot now
I know your type. You're pretty tall, built, and you think that's what makes a man; his appearance or musculature. The problem with this is that you're relying on someone being intimidated by your size or appearance to stay safe. This might work on some people, but it wont work on people who've been through a rough life. The deciding factor is the level of aggression and anger that a person can muster up and whether or not they can fight through the flight/fright response and stand and fight. Most of the serious gangsters or bikies i've encountered and dueled have something wrong with their personality where they won't back down to people no matter what, like they have DID or something - they're not normal. So yeah, your muscle and height means fugg all in a real confrontation - but of course it does help to have some size, robustness and most importantly agility/athleticism, but it means fugg all in actual dominance.
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08-08-2024, 09:04 PM
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I also think the effect is amplified thanks to your physique.

If you watch movies the bad boy thugs have big muscles, and so do the James Bond/Jack Reacher leading men.

Normal people don't have big muscles (in movies and TV shows) so people unconsciously stereotype you into one of the above groups.

Hoodie and sneakers? Bad boy thug. Lock the doors honey.

Clean shaven with nice clothes? Must be a man of wealth and taste. Have you met my daughter?

There's a third group too - cops/military - but those require a certain haircut and way of dressing too.
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08-08-2024, 09:05 PM
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How bout just dress normally so no one has to treat you bad or well?
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08-08-2024, 09:06 PM
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How bout just dress normally so no one has to treat you bad or well?
For some people wearing sports clothes IS normal. Because I am ethnic and muscular, if I wear adidas people think I'm a hood rat, but if an asian or white aussie does the same thing, they look fine.

I CBF wearings jeans and shirts when walking about or hanging out, etc.
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08-08-2024, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
For some people wearing sports clothes IS normal. Because I am ethnic and muscular, if I wear adidas people think I'm a hood rat, but if an asian or white aussie does the same thing, they look fine.

I CBF wearings jeans and shirts when walking about or hanging out, etc.
I mean just dress whats normal for the venue lol.
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08-08-2024, 09:14 PM
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I mean just dress whats normal for the venue lol.
When I was at uni I'd just wear sports clothes, the same type of crap I wear to the gym. Where as beta ph4ggots would dress up in chinos, etc, to look presentable and make people like them.

I know very well that people would like me more if I dressed appropriately or acted a certain way, but I refuse to comply and allow my own emotions to be dictated by what some ph4ggot or sloots thinks of me.

If someone doesn't love me for nothing more than who I am, I don't want to even know the transactional kunts. When I was younger I was chubby, but I got into the gym and lost weight, etc, and realised that people started treating me better for no real reason other than my appearance. They can go eff themselves.
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08-08-2024, 09:17 PM
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I know your type. You're pretty tall, built, and you think that's what makes a man; his appearance or musculature. The problem with this is that you're relying on someone being intimidated by your size or appearance to stay safe. This might work on some people, but it wont work on people who've been through a rough life. The deciding factor is the level of aggression and anger that a person can muster up and whether or not they can fight through the flight/fright response and stand and fight. Most of the serious gangsters or bikies i've encountered and dueled have something wrong with their personality where they won't back down to people no matter what, like they have DID or something - they're not normal. So yeah, your muscle and height means fugg all in a real confrontation - but of course it does help to have some size, robustness and most importantly agility/athleticism, but it means fugg all in actual dominance.
Sounds kind of beta
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08-08-2024, 09:19 PM
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"Dressing well is form of good manners." -Tom Ford
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08-08-2024, 09:27 PM
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It's understandable. I judge people all the time based off how they look. Pajamas, socks & slides, leggings/"athleisure," crocs, and so on. People who dress slovenly get no respect from me.
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08-08-2024, 09:29 PM
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Sounds kind of beta
What, you sound beta? I agree.

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"Dressing well is form of good manners." -Tom Ford
Tom Ford sounds like a homosexual.

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It's understandable. I judge people all the time based off how they look. Pajamas, socks & slides, leggings/"athleisure," crocs, and so on. People who dress slovenly get no respect from me.
What about sports clothes?
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08-08-2024, 09:35 PM
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What, you sound beta? I agree.
I guess you also have trouble reading. Add retarded to the list which includes beta and delusional
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08-08-2024, 09:39 PM
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"Dressing well is form of good manners." -Tom Ford
"Over dressing a form of bad manners" - Yo momma.
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08-08-2024, 09:40 PM
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Call me old fashioned, but I don't think you should have a nice watch or nice clothes or be getting tattoos while living with your mom.
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08-08-2024, 09:41 PM
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What about sports clothes?
yeah people who spend $200 on a Travis Kelce jersey deserve to forcibly wander into traffic
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08-08-2024, 09:41 PM
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We all do it on some level

Ded fkn srs
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08-08-2024, 10:05 PM
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Call me old fashioned, but I don't think you should have a nice watch or nice clothes or be getting tattoos while living with your mom.
There are plenty of people here my age driving 100k+ cars while living at home still
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08-08-2024, 10:07 PM
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yeah no chit


I have been lazy af and not putting product in my hair and wearing lululemon

but when I wear more nice clothing I get treated well
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08-08-2024, 10:14 PM
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IF I dress up well, wear a nice watch, show my tattoos. People will assume that i'm wealthy and i get treated like i'm a king where ever I go

If I go out dressed looking like a homeless person? People act like I don't even exist . I could ask for a cup of water they will say "no" if I go to a restaurant in a hoodie and shorts I will have to literally ask to get service. Now if I go in dressed up looking good? "Right this way king, first drink is on me" Waitresses will be flirting "wanting to know who you are" since you "look wealthy"
I never see a man with tattoos and say "oh wow, this guy must be wealthy". I see an impulsive man who spends his money without a care in the world.
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08-08-2024, 10:19 PM
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Lol you're almost as tough as Insidemane

You might be in the second spot now
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08-08-2024, 10:23 PM
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Nobody assumes anyone with tattoos has money lol

Quite the opposite
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08-08-2024, 10:24 PM
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Call me old fashioned, but I don't think you should have a nice watch or nice clothes or be getting tattoos while living with your mom.
my parents paid for my tats and clothes and gave me the house so its gucci
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08-08-2024, 10:26 PM
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it's not that insane at all
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