What the fook are you boyos doing to actually land the dates? So many sloots either don’t respond or will unmatch if they don’t find my satire funny. Or I’ll be messaging a sloot back and forth and then she’ll decide to randomly stop messaging back lmfao

Fast misc is fast. I should just post in the regular misc than the subsections where nobody hangs out in srs

I had a good run on Hinge and Bumble last time I was single.

I kept it conversational and light at first. I did not have stupid one-liner openers. Some girls really do want that (or they'd hit me with one) but I kept it pretty straightforward.

Ask a question, don't over-message. It's a competitive environment unfortunately. I got ghosted plenty of times or they'd come back a week later because some other date didn't go well. That's just the game.

Tbh I've never gotten a date by overdoing the funny/witty banter (I think subconsciously it'd be difficult to go into a date when she expects top notch cocky/funny).

All my dates have just been by being pretty authentic, finding common interests (usually an opener that recognizes as such), asking them questions, often about traveling and their hobbies.

I've definitely come to realize everyone ahs diff styles for dating/the apps and I'm ok with not adjusting my "game" to get as many opportunities as possible, just finding solid women who will be easy to vibe with on the dates i do end up going on.

I use the same exact strategy on all of my matches

My opener is always

Coming for a ride?
and i link my insta which has a video like this

if they are keen, i chitchat about whatever to see how receptive they are. If they are one of the few you can get to actually message you back with some interest you get their number or snap and setup a date within the next week.

really just a numbers game. Gotta remember most chicks are just using it for validation and entertainment and have almost zero intention of meeting up. Just gotta make sure you arent wasting time on these ones.

Goal is to build some sort of base and then get them off of the app ASAP. Ideal scenario is you match in the evening, and they actually engage in a back and forth for an hour or so before bed. Get secondary contact before going to bed.

My strategy obviously won't work for everyone because i use my 180mph motorcycle as a niche. If shes cute but isnt down for the bike ride i dont even waste my time. Every chick ive taken out on the bike ive nutted in that night.

yeah I’ve over messaged a lot back in the past. Lately, I’ve probably been too aggressive though. I gotta balance a bit more probably.

hmm, sounds like simplicity is the key.

lol I love it. You found something creative that works for you, plus it’s interesting. Smart strategy!

Yep - find what works for you.

For the people who say meet up asap as messaging is a waste of time, personally I'd rather send a few thoughtful messages when it's convenient to me than find a few free hours to go on a date w/o getting that rapport first (I'm also very particular about my schedule ie I ain't skipping a workout to go on a 1st date).

I've been using this for the last 2 years.

use them for self promotion

Zero strategy.