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08-21-2024, 11:05 AM
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Anyone prefer a “roster” over having a gf?

Considering my last relationship I feel like as long as I’m grinding in and out of the gym I don’t really have time for a gf (no incel) I just feel like it’s a big commitment. Meanwhile, all it takes is a few texts and I can go smash and then depending on how I feel either stay at her spot or go back home, easy peasy. As long as I keep the rotation going I won’t get bored of the girls and it’s a win win, let’s hear yall thoughts on this
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08-21-2024, 11:06 AM
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My preferred is a FWB type who isn't fuking anybody else but doesn't think I am her boyfriend. If I ever wanted to get serious, she's sitting there waiting.
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08-21-2024, 11:13 AM
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A roster is really just several FWBs in my opinion. I basically did that until I found someone that I felt was worth "dating" to see where things go - after my 20s it was basically three months of dating and if I didn't think I wanted to marry her at that time I ended it or we moved to FWB. This kept from wasting anyone's time or getting caught up in real heavy emotions and having difficult breakups.
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08-21-2024, 11:17 AM
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My preferred is a FWB type who isn't fuking anybody else but doesn't think I am her boyfriend. If I ever wanted to get serious, she's sitting there waiting.
That’s hard to accomplish cuz if they aren’t fukn anyone else then they’ll eventually feel as tho she’s your gf, slippery slope
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08-21-2024, 11:20 AM
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Not really….I never liked the idea of going backwards.

So like if I had a fwb and I slept with someone else, I'd be done with the fwb and move on.

I never overlapped girls, ever. I just didn't want to.

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08-21-2024, 11:23 AM
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Not really….I never liked the idea of going backwards.

So like if I had a fwb and I slept with someone else, I'd be done with the fwb and move on.

I never overlapped girls, ever. I just didn't want to.

Ever Starward bro
it's too much work.
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08-21-2024, 11:32 AM
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That’s hard to accomplish cuz if they aren’t fukn anyone else then they’ll eventually feel as tho she’s your gf, slippery slope
Agreed but there are some out there though that either don't want a relationship either. And I know of people having not even an FWB but more of a fuk buddy - they don't even like each other as friends, it's strictly physical, fuk and get out.

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Not really….I never liked the idea of going backwards.

So like if I had a fwb and I slept with someone else, I'd be done with the fwb and move on.

I never overlapped girls, ever. I just didn't want to.

Ever Starward bro
I agree with that - once you end it with the FWB you gotta find a new one if you want another
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08-21-2024, 11:39 AM
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Just go by how you feel man. If there is a special connection you don’t feel often lock her down. If the engagements with her are bleh just fuk her and move on. Keep your eyes open for real chemistry and don’t let it slip.
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08-21-2024, 12:19 PM
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Just go by how you feel man. If there is a special connection you don’t feel often lock her down. If the engagements with her are bleh just fuk her and move on. Keep your eyes open for real chemistry and don’t let it slip.
Indeed, I just think it’s weird a lot of the guys I know will throw themselves into relationships regardless on if there’s chemistry. I do the opposite I just chill until I find one I’m good with
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08-21-2024, 12:21 PM
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Younger girls roster. but i'm 38. Wouldn't want to be bouncing around from girl to girl at this age.
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08-21-2024, 12:22 PM
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Indeed, I just think it’s weird a lot of the guys I know will throw themselves into relationships regardless on if there’s chemistry. I do the opposite I just chill until I find one I’m good with
yup - they look at it on paper - she checks x number of boxes so they get in the relationship and then wonder why it doesn't work out
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08-21-2024, 12:31 PM
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YESSSSSS I love my Chad roster

Just pen pals unfortunately
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08-21-2024, 12:55 PM
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it's too much work.
It I'd a lot of work

Let the individual decide what is too much
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08-21-2024, 12:55 PM
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YESSSSSS I love my Chad roster

Just pen pals unfortunately
Are you still upset that I caught your male arm in one of your spoon pics spoon-reflection?
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08-21-2024, 12:56 PM
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The best is when they all know each other so you can have one massive orgy.
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08-21-2024, 01:07 PM
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Last guy with a roster here was timbison. He hasn't posted in months though.
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08-21-2024, 01:14 PM
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Are you still upset that I caught your male arm in one of your spoon pics spoon-reflection?
pics?
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08-21-2024, 01:16 PM
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Are you still upset that I caught your male arm in one of your spoon pics spoon-reflection?
This literally never happened.
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08-21-2024, 01:33 PM
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This literally never happened.
Oh did it not? Lol…

Remember when you tried to spoon pic with a prop of a water bottle you had at the gym?











Lol
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08-21-2024, 01:36 PM
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Oh did it not? Lol…

Remember when you tried to spoon pic with a prop of a water bottle you had at the gym?











Lol
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