Reka is a nympho to the max, here's a glimpse of our convo's. I swear, I could be like "Good morning, how are you?" and she'll hit me back with "Tell me your most recent sexcapade" LOL



Here's a glimpse















It was like she was the dude and I was the bitch. LOL

I truly respected her honesty, she confirmed how women really operate.








The 6 guys in 24 hours, I loosely remember the story.

She got on Tinder and a dude asked her over. She went over and ****ed him. She got home, was still horny and called another guy over. Then she had another Tinder date later that night. I think she went on a trip to the islands the following day. Met a guy at the bar. Got on Tinder and met two other guys during the day.

Did she go NC the day of or before?

And this Reka chick, shes indian?

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WTF do you even put on instagram? Like is it just pics of you balling out? So if you are a person who doesn't ball out wtf should you be posting on there? Just seems crazy it has that much value for guys, not every joe blow has interesting things to post about.

I seem to be getting 0 matches from Super Likes which has never been the case before. I wonder if I've been shadowbanned for restarting my account too often. Anyone else ever experience this?

yes i have been shadowbanned, not sure what the reason was. As far as I know I had never been reported (never got any "your account is being reviewed" notifications)
For me, the shadowban is obvious when it ONLY shows you bottom-of-the-barrel girls that I would have zero interest in

Another funny thing is, I had the same exact thing happen recently after letting my plus membership expire. Literally the day it expired they started showing me only heavy/ugly girls. Night and day difference, they didn't even try to hide it lol

LOL definitely not true unless you are only trying to get with chicks well above your range. You can be a 3-6 and still get some dates here and there they will just be in your same range not 7+

This is why it's imperative to use protection. Going on a sex bender is very easy for women and I think you should assume she's actively seeking and hooking up with other guys.

On the flip side, I've met a few girls who I'll be the only guy they're hooking up with and they don't mind that I'm seeing others (well...they say that but they slowly fade).

If you are banging a chick off of an online date withing the first couple of meetings, you got to assume that she is getting dink on a frequent basis so you better wrap up. Same goes for girls and guys.

Can't post links but I found an article saying that Tinder's eliminating "desirability" factors from your ELO score/revising the algorithm so that active users get priority.

This may also be why I've experienced an influx of recent dates. From what I know of Tinder, they're able to check how often you use the app, how active you are in messaging, how often you exchange phone numbers (iphone anyway), how often you unmatch and keep your list tidy/active, etc. I've been doing a lot of those things right. This can also be why I experienced a shortage in matches when I turned off notifications (all other variables equal).

To some degree though, your desirability will always be based on attraction (ie odd are, an 8 female aint swiping on 6 male and if she does, she won't message).

As mentioned by the OP, you should be one standard deviation above average in terms of perceived attractiveness (6.5+ or top 16%) to get your money's worth.

From my results, I'd say I'm in the 6.5-7.0 range because most of the women I'm matching and meeting are 5's and 6's (some 7's and 8's peppered). I'm definitely not at the top of my league because the hotter women are harder to keep around (even if we smash).

devastated, bros. we (perhaps) had what felt like our last night together. in short, people in her circle put things into perspective on how she's moving away next month after graduating college and she hit me up, out of the blue, on Friday evening, unloading all of this and bringing a bunch of doubts to us going forward because of what was looming ahead for her and her life (we agreed long distance is not realistic). i told her 'it had been in the back of my mind, too, but wanted to deal with it when the time came'. she txted, some hours later, 'apologizing how she went about it' and 'how it all like just came out', then we made plans for Sat night. she flaked on our plans for her gf's bday weekend, instead - what a buddy said was a tactic she did to get me mad by blowing up her phone, giving her an easy excuse out. i didn't budge/take the bait, and we ended up meeting yesterday afternoon and into the night, instead, after she apologized for doing that and how she would make it up to me - she picked me up, went to the farmers market, bought us some beers and took in some Irish music for St Patrick's day, followed by a nice dinner. after dinner, we talked about the future, i started rubbing her neck at a red light, something i've done and she's gotten used to me doing, and she said 'youre going to make me cry' and i held tight, cause i was going to as well, after she'd said that, but didn't, changing the subject. we arrived and kissed a few times outside my place, before exiting her car, and she said 'she'd call me tomorrow so we can talk more'. i'm in NC, feeling rather empty now and didn't sleep all too great last night. fk. i'm such a bich, but ending a relationship on good terms feels so much worse. it's not the end, just the end for now.

ps I did kind of sht test her yesterday - no kiss upon greeting nor being affectionate out and about and overall going around the market in a friends-only vibe, with no touching or anything, until she seemingly couldn't take it anymore, reaching out and interlocking her hand with mine. a sign of a woman who just cannot let go, despite what she says.
actions > words.

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i never used protection with mine. not even once. no std's. but yeah, agreed, good rule of thumb as i have gotten 'bitten' before, 2-3 years back.

'Dont believe it. this is what happened:

Tinder launches (2013-2014): app works like you think it would - attractive people get matches
Tinder introduces swipe limit (2015): buy tinder plus, now you're get tons of matches
Tinder tweaks algorithm (spring 2016), to again reduce matches and encourage more spend
Tinder introduces boost (fall 2016): buy Tinder boost, get tons of matches
After a while, Tinder tweaks algorithm again to stop getting large number of matches (mid - late 2017)
People continue to spend money on the app, but realize their matches aren't going up. Therefore, they stop spending as much on the app (2018-present).
Tinder probably notices people are slowly starting to stop pouring money into an app that has been TOO throttled by Tinder to encourage in-app purchases. (Present)
People probably think they are just not as attractive as they thought, so they give up on Tinder (present)
Tinder announces "hey, we dont care how you look in our algorithm anymore. We want active people" (last week)
People that stopped spending money on the app, will reboot their spending because the app now rewards "activity" and not "attraction". (present - future)

It makes perfect sense too. Imagine you're a non-paying user and now you know Tinder rewards "activity." If you can't swipe anymore because you've reached your limit, how can the app continue to reward you if you're not active for an extended period of time? Answer: it can't.

Therefore, you then buy Tinder Plus to remove the swipe limit, so you can always be active, thinking it will get you more matches because now Tinder says thats how the algorithm works.

sorry to hear brah, tough to let go of someone that you vibe with well.

Good luck man, tough when feelings are involved

thanks ^. mannn, despite a nearly 200 lay count, no memories with any other woman stand up to the ones i've had with her. it's as if she came into my life and shattered them all away from my brain for good.


anyways, it actually didn't end up being the last time. we hung out last night - she kind of just needed someone there for moral support because of her friend that passed (beta/bf type of stuff that is hard to get out of). it is annoying though, as it is hard to tell if she is just keeping me around, for the time being, or whether she still sees me as a lover (we still kiss and stuff, but still, we've not gotten physical since when we had 'the talk' on Friday- friend passing away this week didn't help things either). have been close to 'slipping', in hopes of gaining more certainty/clarity, but have ultimately held off.

overall, i've learned a lot about myself these past few months, so i'm grateful, no matter how much it ends up hurting in the end.

Ffs.. 200 lays? What do you look like man. I'm on 30. HATE being below average looking.

yeah. #197 was within the first couple days of this year, and then she was #198 a few days after. been committed since, with no cheating - met one girl for a drink, when she had pulled back, during the first couple weeks, assessing the guys she was currently dating, and that's it. i'm 6'3", white, good jaw line, swimmers build, around a 7. it's okay you're at 30. it is way overrated, believe me, and i'd trade them all to continue to see where things go with this girl and her not move away.

(don't think they all were dimes, either, cause they definitely were not, for it is impossible for that to be the case when you get to such a number ie. online, without much effort, if you're a 7, you will be getting mainly 4-6's in bed, with the occasional 7. though, late last year, lightning did strike and managed to sleep with a 20 year old, solid 8 that didn't seem to know her value yet. a rarity.)

who the **** cares when they ban 80% of the guys on the app

I guess when you think about it, only a small amount of the population is going to be above a 7 (probably top 10%).

Punching above your league, it seems like you need to know people in social circle or have some social media clout.How did you get banned? I haven't yet but I'm also pretty quick to delete girls. And I never save negative things, troll or get in arguments. I also pay for gold.

I decided to get Tinder back today (no idea why, friend did it so I thought why not). I have decent pics of me, but does anyone have any advice for a decent bio?

I want to keep it short/sweet. I can't remember the old bio I had.

Don't overthink it. Just put stuff consistent with who you are. As long as you don't come off like a ****boy/scary/beta.

Should be at 10,000 tomorrow.

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Should be at 10,000 tomorrow.[/QUOTE]Guess I need to dress up as king tut next halloween lol

we went out to a lounge on Friday night, with two of her girlfriends from her home state, who she said liked me. grabbed dinner then fkd passionately Saturday night, and then hung out together for most of the day yesterday, walking around, running errands and such. things are back to how they were and it is as if she likes me even more - inviting me along to meet her grandmother next weekend (i prob won't go), telling me i should meet (and i'd like) the bf's of some of her friends, and trying to plan a trip with me in June.

it is still not 100% certain she is moving or when. whole thing could have been the ultimate sht test. who knows. girls emotions are up and down and you just have to do your best to stay centered/indifferent to them.

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Amandine looks like she'd be a good ****

Don't know if I mentioned this before but those animated gifs they let you upload a few months back are clutch. I added one of me tipping my hat and winking and my matches went up a bit. Then I added one with me taking a big plastic spoon and spanking it against my hand, like some domination spanking undertones stuff with a serious face, felt like it could go either way, it has actually gotten me a lot more matches and a few women has specifically contacted me about it. The more kinky ones looking for something on the rougher side.

I'm definitely not the kind of guy women fall over themselves for or anything so if these things helped me get more matches I cant imagine pulling off something similar wont help some of you guys. Get a good gif as your first pic that captures their attention.

Meanwhile I can't get a match going. What the phuck is this lol.

Well I finally did it.



When I started in this thread, I was still some what fresh out of my break up with my ex-gf which was 3.5 year of toxic hell. I was in a dark place and to help myself out of it I got on Tinder to bounce back. I was on bodybuilding.com forums and all the dudes were bitching about not getting matches so I made a challenge I could get 10,000 matches. That was about a year and a half ago.





It's interesting to see how much Tinder has changed. At one point I was getting 700 matches a week without boost. Now boost is a absolute must if you want to win, I don't even really bother swiping without boosting anymore. I could of reached 10,000 much earlier but I got banned from Tinder for 3 months than lost interest in it.





I'm now Tinder retired. I actually found a good woman 3 weeks ago... It's funny to think about. After leaving a toxic relationship 3.5 year of hell, I was on my hard on hoes **** constantly preaching to other guys how women just **** them over in relationships so just continue getting money and ****ing bitches living the bachelor life. I even swore off white women because alot them were obnoxiously full of themselves like














My new woman and I just clicked instantly despite us being vastly different. She is a nurse practitioner who is also a program director at a University will obtain her PH.D in a couple years. **** all I got is my GED and I'm at the bottom of the totem pole in my field. She isn't a instagram model but she's still top shelf looks wise. Bad lil 5'6" tall 130lb red head with these piercing blue eyes, coke body shape, perky tits, nice azz with the thigh gap. She breaks necks when we go out.




She has champagne taste for the finer things in life like buying herself ********* shoes and a $4,000 Chanel bag. I on the other hand is cheap as **** and don't like spending money on materialistic items unless absolutely necessary.



I was very honest with her from the bat how I felt about women and relationships in general (**** them) She agreed with my stance and said "Want to be single together?" lol I found that **** unique and it stuck with me. I could tell she was smitten with me from the start, I give her a bunch of sweet compliments which constantly has her red in the face or giving me these long smitten lingering glares.




Usually these types of women are repulsed by me... They find me classless and beneath them. She on the other hand is just chill as ****. Took her ass to see Captain Marvel last week followed by some chicken mcnuggets at McDonald's. Her azz was legit happy as **** with that simple date.




She'll spend $120 on getting her hair done and don't mind when I **** it up a couple hours later when I'm ****ing the **** out of her. She thoroughly just enjoys spending time with me. We just cuddle, talk, netflix, and **** alot. One week after meeting her I told her I wanted to be in a exclusive relationship with her, it's been 3 weeks now.




Cheated on her already but it helped put in perspective what I have at home. Took my son's to Florida for a family vacation. While down in Orlando I matched with a cute bitch and went on a date the following day.



We saw the movie "US". When I was pulling up, this chick said I'm in the brown VW. I said cool, I'm in a green Kia Sorento. She said ew wtf is that?

:rofl:

This bitch is 32 living with her mother****ing sister, a teacher assistant, and her son's father never made a single attempt of seeing his son in his 9 years but hits her up for sex constantly but she got the audacity to **** on my ride.



Thought of my woman at home after that, she never pulled no bull**** like that even tho she could flex on me if she wanted... So I'm going to invest some real time and effort into her, she's worth it.



I have no advice that hasn't been given already a million times but I can't stress how important bios are important like decent pictures are. Majority of the **** in my bio has been stolen from other female bios. I'll just post bios I found interesting from my time on TInder later and maybe you guys can take whatever from them, making it work for you.




A couple things I learned from my time on Tinder




Women really dig halloween and cosplay outfits. Post that **** if you got it.

Women really dig pics of men reading a book, drawing, or playing a instrument.

Women hate filtered pics.

Make your bio witty and short. Less is more. Self depreciating humor is a big no no.

You only need 4 pics max, women don't particularly care for motion pics. It's not necessary to be out and in about in your pics or have your IG linked to your Tinder profile... but it does help greatly if you do live a interesting life.

Don't ever get excited over women who are big flirts or act like they are DTF immediately. Alot of them are fronting.

If you have a trip planned, swipe in whatever destination 2 weeks in advance... A month preferably. Women hate tourists but if you give them ample enough time, you'll be able to sweet talk yourself into some pussy when you land because they got to know you well in advance that they aren't skittish when you actually meet.

It's better to lie when you are a tourist. Just tell them you are there for work or scouting a new home relocating for work.

Become keen to when women are wasting your time.

My Tinder breaks all the ****ing time. It will tell me their is no new matches in my area so I would have to **** with the age, distance, show me men, women, both functions to get it working again. One thing I found is when I put show me men and women, I was shown hotter women than usual.

Top picks is racist. I would be swiping in the Dominican Republic or Africa and was still shown nothing but ****ing blonde women. I brought a 30 pack of top picks once. I have never matched with a single top pick. Waste of time and money.

Boost is a necessity. My son actually helped me out with this. He downloaded a tapping app to cheat on cell phone games where you have to constantly tap a button. I saw that and used it for Tinder. Every time I had long drives I would boost and turn on the the tapping app.



If you are going to go this route, do it thru Tinder.com not the actually app. Tinder app limits your matches, Tinder.com doesn't.

Just lol @ that wall of text above. No one cares mate