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Study: 22-33% of Females have gone on a date only for free food
01-12-2026, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
01-12-2026, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
There actually are quite a few girls out there these days that avoid social media pretty well.
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.
People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.
It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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01-12-2026, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.
People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.
It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
LMFAO, broooooo, boomer status truly kicking in. The younger folks have it WAY WORSE, what a bubbled take.Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
There actually are quite a few girls out there these days that avoid social media pretty well.
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.
People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.
It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
01-12-2026, 03:28 PM
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01-12-2026, 05:45 PM
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I've said a million times don't take a first meet to dinner. You don't even know if you're going to like each other in person. Coffee, walk, do something low key/free. If they're not ok with that then you have your answer.
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01-12-2026, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By BriggsBrigade⏩
Disagree
Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.
People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.
It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
LMFAO, broooooo, boomer status truly kicking in. The younger folks have it WAY WORSE, what a bubbled take.Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
There actually are quite a few girls out there these days that avoid social media pretty well.
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.
People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.
It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
Only one of us is pulling college aged sloots and it's not you. I can go down to the campus area and easily get numbers/dates. Picked up quite a few from my gym too which isn't far from the campus. I'm talking SEC university too if you're wondering not some podunk community college.
Given that between the two of us I'm the only one with experience from both populations I can tell you for a fact there's more girls in the 20-25 range these days that refrain from social media, or at the very least intentionally limit it, than you find with girls in the 30-40 range. The 30-40 range is constantly trying to flex online completely unable to spend a day enjoying it without showing off what they did. Younger girls do it too, but you're more likely to run into one that doesn't is what I'm saying so don't twist it around here.
These are facts based on data, not opinion. Nice try though from a dude who likely never leaves his house.
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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01-12-2026, 07:09 PM
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It's the sloot version of pump and dump.
Chads pump and dump. Sloots dine and dash.
Chads pump and dump. Sloots dine and dash.
01-12-2026, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Papi_Chulo⏩
even coffee is $15 nowI remember getting cucked by some fat divorced girl took her to a sushi place that was higher end so it was like 80 bucks precovid dollars. I didn't know it would end up that much I thought she would be an easy lay but it was one of those you could tell instantly nothing is going to happen and she was ordering more drinks
That was a big red pill moment around 2019 realizing dating market had changed
Sloota will sit there and stay longer with a guy just to stuff their face for free. It didn't use to be like that. Never again only coffee and free dates after that
That was a big red pill moment around 2019 realizing dating market had changed
Sloota will sit there and stay longer with a guy just to stuff their face for free. It didn't use to be like that. Never again only coffee and free dates after that
01-12-2026, 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted By RustledJimmies⏩
I’m pretty aware of this stuff I got played one time tho it started out as drinks at a bar then she ordered food ended up costing me like $60 and she had no interest in a second date I’ll never do that shit againPeople still can't figure these sort of girls out?
01-13-2026, 12:22 AM
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01-13-2026, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
Spoken like a dumbass boomerOriginally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
01-13-2026, 07:41 AM
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My rule was always (if I wanted to see the girl again) I'd pay for the first date and tell her she had to get the next one. It was a good test to see if she was only in it for the free stuff.
If I had no desire for a second date I'd just tell the server two bills and sometimes their heads would explode, but IDGAF.
If I had no desire for a second date I'd just tell the server two bills and sometimes their heads would explode, but IDGAF.
06-12-2026, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Oliverheldens1⏩
This is old 2011 news. We already know this......
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333920013_Foodie_Calls_When_Women_Date_Men_for_a_Free_Meal_Rather_Than_a_Relationship
Conclusion: Bitches be scammin.
Conclusion: Bitches be scammin.
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Originally Posted By BigGuyForYou⏩
Ok great. Congratufukinlations.
I'm pretty sure a girl did this to me last year, she insisted on some fancy place and I paid like a cuck. Get home, text from her, something like "Hey you were a nice guy but I didn't feel a spark!"
06-12-2026, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By BigGuyForYou⏩
Ok great. Congratufukinlations.
Because of that, I'll never eat out again with a woman srs. Coffee or something casual only
06-12-2026, 09:24 AM
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real number is more like 100%. I've been careful as fuark and still some dumb skank got a dinner off me a few years back
06-12-2026, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By BigLeagueBrah⏩
Lol, I took a girl out a couple nights in a row when I was traveling in Argentina, and tried having sex with her after the third night and she tried to give pushback and I told her to get the fuck out of the taxi. Was a great decision.
real number is more like 100%. I've been careful as fuark and still some dumb skank got a dinner off me a few years back
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