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» Study: 22-33% of Females have gone on a date only for free food
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post 10000009263 01-12-2026, 02:45 PM
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FLAT: 225x15 INCLINE DB 100x15 incline bench 225x8 deadlift: [RETIRED!! OUTTA HERE] FS: 225X14
post 10000009265 01-12-2026, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.

There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
post 10000009273 01-12-2026, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.

There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
There actually are quite a few girls out there these days that avoid social media pretty well.

The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.

People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.

It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 10000009276 01-12-2026, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.

There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
There actually are quite a few girls out there these days that avoid social media pretty well.

The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.

People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.

It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
LMFAO, broooooo, boomer status truly kicking in. The younger folks have it WAY WORSE, what a bubbled take.
post 10000009280 01-12-2026, 03:28 PM
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i don't blame them tbh

simps are to blame for taking out random sloots they don't know to restaurants on first dates
You can’t fight fate
post 10000009430 01-12-2026, 05:45 PM
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I've said a million times don't take a first meet to dinner. You don't even know if you're going to like each other in person. Coffee, walk, do something low key/free. If they're not ok with that then you have your answer.
~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
post 10000009431 01-12-2026, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By BriggsBrigade
Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.

There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
There actually are quite a few girls out there these days that avoid social media pretty well.

The age range that really got screwed was those of us in the 30-40 decade currently. For this group social media launched right around high school for those near the 40 end of this range. And because it was brand new everyone had it and then dating apps popped up next and of course this was the age range that all tried them out.

People in recent years have begun to kind of shun social media as people spending too much time on it and it being bad. As a result there's more awareness and it's become more acceptable to avoid it.

It's kind of like when crack cocaine hit the streets no one knew how bad it was so a lot more people did it unknowingly. Social media is still a huge problem for younger generations but I'd wager those that had good sense either used very little in moderation or tried to avoid outright. That's still going to be a minority of course, but the 30-40 age group was the group that truly got played by all of this. It's why you see so many middle aged women on it still acting like they are 20. It started with us and hooked everyone in my age bracket severely.
LMFAO, broooooo, boomer status truly kicking in. The younger folks have it WAY WORSE, what a bubbled take.
Disagree

Only one of us is pulling college aged sloots and it's not you. I can go down to the campus area and easily get numbers/dates. Picked up quite a few from my gym too which isn't far from the campus. I'm talking SEC university too if you're wondering not some podunk community college.

Given that between the two of us I'm the only one with experience from both populations I can tell you for a fact there's more girls in the 20-25 range these days that refrain from social media, or at the very least intentionally limit it, than you find with girls in the 30-40 range. The 30-40 range is constantly trying to flex online completely unable to spend a day enjoying it without showing off what they did. Younger girls do it too, but you're more likely to run into one that doesn't is what I'm saying so don't twist it around here.

These are facts based on data, not opinion. Nice try though from a dude who likely never leaves his house.
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
post 10000009503 01-12-2026, 07:09 PM
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It's the sloot version of pump and dump.

Chads pump and dump. Sloots dine and dash.
post 10000009516 01-12-2026, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Papi_Chulo
I remember getting cucked by some fat divorced girl took her to a sushi place that was higher end so it was like 80 bucks precovid dollars. I didn't know it would end up that much I thought she would be an easy lay but it was one of those you could tell instantly nothing is going to happen and she was ordering more drinks

That was a big red pill moment around 2019 realizing dating market had changed

Sloota will sit there and stay longer with a guy just to stuff their face for free. It didn't use to be like that. Never again only coffee and free dates after that
even coffee is $15 now
post 10000009538 01-12-2026, 07:43 PM
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I bet if you scope that to women 21-50, it’s more like 80%
See SuperHercules' sig
post 10000009721 01-13-2026, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted By RustledJimmies
People still can't figure these sort of girls out?
I’m pretty aware of this stuff I got played one time tho it started out as drinks at a bar then she ordered food ended up costing me like $60 and she had no interest in a second date I’ll never do that shit again
post 10000009722 01-13-2026, 12:22 AM
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post 10000009723 01-13-2026, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis
Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains
There's no reason to feel bad for guys. Put in the bare minimum and you'll get bare minimum results. The guys who struggle to get laid don't lift, don't socialize, etc. The guys who looksmaxx and confidencemaxx don't have to jump through hoops.

There's plenty of good women out there. Got to make yourself as valuable as possible.
Spoken like a dumbass boomer
post 10000009914 01-13-2026, 07:41 AM
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My rule was always (if I wanted to see the girl again) I'd pay for the first date and tell her she had to get the next one. It was a good test to see if she was only in it for the free stuff.

If I had no desire for a second date I'd just tell the server two bills and sometimes their heads would explode, but IDGAF.
post 10000210283 06-12-2026, 09:07 AM
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This is old 2011 news. We already know this......
post 10000210285 06-12-2026, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By BigGuyForYou
I'm pretty sure a girl did this to me last year, she insisted on some fancy place and I paid like a cuck. Get home, text from her, something like "Hey you were a nice guy but I didn't feel a spark!"
Ok great. Congratufukinlations.
post 10000210287 06-12-2026, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By BigGuyForYou
Because of that, I'll never eat out again with a woman srs. Coffee or something casual only
Ok great. Congratufukinlations.
post 10000210331 06-12-2026, 09:24 AM
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real number is more like 100%. I've been careful as fuark and still some dumb skank got a dinner off me a few years back
post 10000210334 06-12-2026, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By BigLeagueBrah
real number is more like 100%. I've been careful as fuark and still some dumb skank got a dinner off me a few years back
Lol, I took a girl out a couple nights in a row when I was traveling in Argentina, and tried having sex with her after the third night and she tried to give pushback and I told her to get the fuck out of the taxi. Was a great decision.
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