https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333920013_Foodie_Calls_When_Women_Date_Men_for_a_Free_Meal_Rather_Than_a_Relationship

Conclusion: Bitches be scammin.

BRB signing up on Tinder just to dine and dash and leave sloots with the bill

If your taking a first date out to dinner, you already lost. coffee date or depending on the weather or where you live a smoothie or that chinese shit with the ilttle black balls

I remember getting cucked by some fat divorced girl took her to a sushi place that was higher end so it was like 80 bucks precovid dollars. I didn't know it would end up that much I thought she would be an easy lay but it was one of those you could tell instantly nothing is going to happen and she was ordering more drinks

That was a big red pill moment around 2019 realizing dating market had changed

Sloota will sit there and stay longer with a guy just to stuff their face for free. It didn't use to be like that. Never again only coffee and free dates after that

You used to be able to do dinner

I did dinner first dates in 2013-2014 and they were fine and one ended up gf.

Not after probably 2017 would it be a good idea too many busted women now wanting free slop

No it's always been like that. You took her out because you thought you were gonna be able to fuck her and in the end you got fucked.

Blame the game not the player, Game is game.

And you said you took her to a fancy sushi spot.. this why Applebees, Fridays, Uno's, ect.. exist

I believe it

”a girls gotta eat”

no shame

I didn't look at the prices before hand and figured she would be an easy lay being a chubby recently divorced girl with big teds

It was a very red pill moment that the dating game changed from a few years earlier

All 2020s no more dinner first dates. All coffee or the park or straight to my hotel

I'm no Chad, unlike OP. But I didn't really ever pay for dates at all when I was dating. I'm at best average in looks, so someone like OP must be getting flown to France for first dates by the women lucky enough to get a date from him.

Something similar happened to me, some divorced chick I was lukewarm about going on a date with, I asked her out for drinks because I wanted to be able to take off after a couple if I didn't like her. She showed up and was 30 lbs heavier than her online pics, I was thinking well I'm out of here after 2 beers. The waiter came and she ordered an appetizer and a meal. I was literally bert staring her.

You should of asked for your check and left m8 but i am going to assume this happen to you when you were much younger

Did she pay? I mean if you're going to pull up to a bar and order a appetizer and an entree you probably at least have to offer to pay right?... right?

Did you actually stick around and wait for her to finish and pay the tab?

I paid my sugar baby $500 to get a coffee.

Keep it simple and meet for coffee. (not a $500 coffee though lol.)

So that's at what cost

Yep, I know one who does this and brags about it. But to be fair, guys be looking to bone so it's a cost of doing business.

Also, after dinner she said she had to go to the bathroom and then just sneaked out. That's even more insulting to waste someone's time like that on top of it.

I have a story kinda like this.

I spent a month in Argentina in 2022, and before I arrived into Buenos Aires I lined things up on Tinder with some local girls. One girl named Gimena seemed like the friendliest, and so I made plans with her. Started chatting as soon as I got to my hostel, and ended up meeting her for drinks like 4-5 hours after landing. Think of her as a looksmaxxed girl who kinda looks like Sydney Sweeney but slightly uglier in the face.

Anyways, ended up having drinks and food with her that day until like 11pm, and I personally was wasted drunk and tried to go back to her place and smash and she wasn't having it. Went out with her the next night, and she introduced me to her friends and I hung out with them(hot Brazilian girl) and two Brazilian dudes who were fun, so it was cool. We ended up going to the same gym as well, so I would see her every day working out and then we would make plans at night.

Ended up taking her to the nicest restaurant in Buenos Aires a couple nights later after hanging with her every day before that, and had tried to move the situation along to more sexual earlier that day because I was beginning to lose my patience with her. I could tell she was a bit bothered by the fact that I was pushing so hard to have sex with her that night, and she started acting all emotional and obnoxious at dinner by then I was pretty much over her. Ended up paying the tab, and we got a cab together home, and I told her that I wanted to sleep at her place that night and she was still playing games. And after a little while more I and told her, "If we don't have sex tonight I'll never speak to her again" and she immediately told the cab to stop and she got out and caught another cab and went home. Basically her response was, "I am not a prostitute" when I wanted to smash.

Fast forward a few weeks, and I was traveling in Spain by then, and I get a message on Whatsapp. She said she made an OnlyFans and was trying to get me to subscribe. Immediately laughed at her and told her to fuck off.

Bottom line, even if a girl doesn't seem like she's "using you" for free meals, there's no reason to go past date 2-3 without smashing. It's just a waste of time and isn't going to get any better.

when i used to date, the only thing they'd be putting in their mouths was my dong

srs

Why would you hang around an unattractive person for 3 hours just for a $50 meal?

I did, I drank 2 beers and watched her eat and got the check and left. I wouldn't do it now, but I didn't want to be an asshole, she seemed excited to be there, but there was no way anything was going to happen. It was probably $70 bucks, so a cheap lesson.

100% of girls that is

Wow I feel bad for guys nowadays . I was a Timmy but still pulled occasionally back in the 80 ‘s . Seems like you gotta be Chad or your tours over now .
Sloots are getting far too much validation with social media , not to mention it’s rotting their brains

Yep. Didn't need to be a Chad, didn't need to be 6', didn't need a stacked wallet, etc...

How times have changed smh...

I'm pretty sure a girl did this to me last year, she insisted on some fancy place and I paid like a cuck. Get home, text from her, something like "Hey you were a nice guy but I didn't feel a spark!"

Because of that, I'll never eat out again with a woman srs. Coffee or something casual only

Haven't had this happen to me but I don't advertise wealth or offer to go anywhere nice. The nicest first date I've been on in the last 10 years was at Texas Roadhouse. Most of the time it's coffee or straight to one of our houses.