Thread: How many of you are incels?
04-25-2026, 01:55 PM
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I had a gf before the pandemic, then after I broke up with her went on tinder and realized everything is fuked. I quit trying and have accepted I’m alone.
04-25-2026, 02:03 PM
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Haven’t gotten laid in 10 years so don’t know what I am 😔
04-25-2026, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
it will look like a mother is taking her son out for dinner
Please tell me how many 20 yr olds are taking you out for a nice dinner? Just LMAO...
Another thing...they are not the best in bed...
Hope this helps! :)
Another thing...they are not the best in bed...
Hope this helps! :)
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04-25-2026, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
A coffee date is perfect...don't listen to her lol.
it will look like a mother is taking her son out for dinner
Edit: Still love you SS :)
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04-25-2026, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
Yeah some argue that if you aren't doing everything within your power to get laid including lowering your standards then you're volcel. I don't care what the terminology is, but I don't blame guys for not jestermaxxing their asses off and spending thousands just to get a blowie from a whale. I do believe there are things that some guys who claim to be incel can do to improve their situations. Standards is definitely part of it. Shoot for the moon if you can, but nothing wrong with being with your looksmatch or simply with a girl who makes you happy. Part of it is attitude. If you talk like an incel around women or constantly complain about society or spout off fringe/extreme social/political opinions, women don't want to be around any of that. Most women just want to be treated well and have a good time. None of this applies if a guy is ugly, obese, or very short unfortunately. At least fat guys can lose weight, barring a medical condition. Ugly and/or very short guys have very poor odds.
I feel like I am but I don’t know what the bar is for involuntarily . Mine might just be like not caring enough to try
I can't speak to your situation or the female side of this in general but I imagine after enough negative experiences with certain types of men that women could lose the desire to try as well.
04-25-2026, 02:16 PM
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im gonna go to the gym and chase aesthetics and hopefully get a girlfriend one day
04-25-2026, 02:18 PM
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04-25-2026, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Almost every coffee date I've been on has been successful. Bowling dates are the reverse
A coffee date is perfect...don't listen to her lol.
Edit: Still love you SS :)
Edit: Still love you SS :)
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04-25-2026, 03:47 PM
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04-25-2026, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
I was always the one suggesting that. lol I don't want to do a dinner with someone I'm meeting for the first time. If there is no chemistry then you're stuck there for an entire dinner.
A coffee date is insulting srs
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04-25-2026, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
A coffee date is perfect...don't listen to her lol.
Edit: Still love you SS :)
Edit: Still love you SS :)
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
The funny thing is, I coulda sworn @Silence3 used to complain about going on dinner dates with older guys, and if she didn't like them and found them boring, it would be the most painful experience of her life.
I was always the one suggesting that. lol I don't want to do a dinner with someone I'm meeting for the first time. If there is no chemistry then you're stuck there for an entire dinner.
Which is exactly the point of a quick coffee date meet up. You see if you like the person first, before you waste any more time on them.
04-25-2026, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By gwg77⏩
Are we really breaking down and trying to figure out silencetroll?
The funny thing is, I coulda sworn @Silence3 used to complain about going on dinner dates with older guys, and if she didn't like them and found them boring, it would be the most painful experience of her life.
Which is exactly the point of a quick coffee date meet up. You see if you like the person first, before you waste any more time on them.
Which is exactly the point of a quick coffee date meet up. You see if you like the person first, before you waste any more time on them.
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04-25-2026, 03:59 PM
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04-25-2026, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By gwg77⏩
Yep, she did complain about it. Prob difference is she wouldn't complain about being taken out to a nice dinner by a 20 year old.
The funny thing is, I coulda sworn @Silence3 used to complain about going on dinner dates with older guys, and if she didn't like them and found them boring, it would be the most painful experience of her life.
Which is exactly the point of a quick coffee date meet up. You see if you like the person first, before you waste any more time on them.
Which is exactly the point of a quick coffee date meet up. You see if you like the person first, before you waste any more time on them.
Bolded yes, absolutely.
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04-25-2026, 04:01 PM
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04-25-2026, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Bonobo⏩
It’s a dude. How he still continues to fraud smart, normal posters, I will never understand
Are we really breaking down and trying to figure out silencetroll?
04-25-2026, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17⏩
Get revenge by posting her pics here
I'm two months incel since my messican fwb ghosted me. Srs
04-25-2026, 04:08 PM
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04-25-2026, 04:22 PM
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04-25-2026, 04:24 PM
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04-25-2026, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
I don't think they should put in much expense for a first meeting IRL. If you've met IRL then go on a date then yes, dinner is fine. But meeting for first time from online dating? Nope.
Yes that is the standard advice for coffee dates but I realized it’s a psy op it means men try to put in as little effort and expense as possible.
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04-25-2026, 04:50 PM
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Kinda but not really. I don't put myself out there or go anywhere besides the gym or work, effectively making me an incel temporarily. It's somewhat by choice. I get good results whenever I go to social events or bars, just not focused on it right now.
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04-25-2026, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
yeah there is a lot worse than misc
Miscers arent nearly as bad as the hard core Incels. Just read a few thrads on their little corner of the interwebs and you will feel much better about yourcelf.
https://incels.is/forums/inceldom-discussion.2/
https://incels.is/forums/inceldom-discussion.2/
and elliot rodgers who they always call a miscer only really started posting a few months before he did his shooting, and never made any threats that i remember in the months leading up to it, just crying that he cant get laid, i think he dropped his most direct threat video like a day before the shooting or something.
I seen this guy the other day, he makes misc look like choir boys but he had a poor understanding of the laws around freedom of speech, he made very direct terrorist threats and somehow thought that was legal
its so weird to see someone using that lingo IRL
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04-25-2026, 05:39 PM
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Only temporarily. Just started a 4 week offshore hitch, so over 3 weeks to go until I see my wife again.
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04-25-2026, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By stevebec⏩
I wouldn't mind working on an oil rig. The isolation part at least
Only temporarily. Just started a 4 week offshore hitch, so over 3 weeks to go until I see my wife again.
Do you get a few weeks off when you get back?
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04-25-2026, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
I think it became such a meme that she was a dude on old misc, that people really started to believe it, despite all the evidence she had posted proving otherwise.
It’s a dude. How he still continues to fraud smart, normal posters, I will never understand
04-25-2026, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Silence3⏩
What's the psy op? And what is the Okidoke?
That’s what I used to think when I started online dating because that is the standard advice but then I woke up to the psy op.
JUST SAY NO TO COFFEE DATES
DO NOT FALL FOR THE OKIDOKE
JUST SAY NO TO COFFEE DATES
DO NOT FALL FOR THE OKIDOKE
Then don't think of it as a date, but more like a meet-and-greet that could lead to a date.
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