Choose your partner carefully. Make sure you also enjoy hanging out together like you would with a friend

Also don't marry down too far financially. If you know someone is a gold digger and you're into them, just have fun and never formalize anything

I'm still traditional and think a solid marriage and family is the best way to maximize happiness and life satisfaction.

I was careful who I married, but there's luck involved, too, and I got lucky. My wife is great and we'll have been married for 23 years this summer. There's plenty I'd change about my life, but getting married isn't one of them - I'd do it all again.

We'll see when the time comes. Some Married men say once the kids are out, her libido returns. Not holding my breath, but I'll also be close to 60 at that point.

Single people are losers in life.

Period dot.

All life is a gamble but I enjoy being married...

Has she ever gotten her hormones checked?

i think marriage if both parties honor the sanctity of it; is a wise choice if you want a family

however, i don't think women nowadays actually want to be wives.. they just want the wedding so they can post it on social media and check a box off their list.. which comes with obvious issues

47 and have never been married.  When I was 22, I almost got married.  Thought it was perfect, but I guess it wasn’t, and that really wrecked me.  It's really amazing how someone just changes their mind and can totally wreck your life.  From there, I never really met a girl that could make me want to marry someone.  Noticed how many good dudes had their whole lives ruined by a divorce.  Now I’ve met a good woman that is making me change my mind but haven’t pulled the trigger.

Yes, there's nothing wrong with her. She has multiple O's when she grants access. It's just all on her terms when the rare whim strikes.

From talking to many Husbands, women get this way in long term relationships. The only thing to re-ignite their libido is new relationship energy, chaos and emotional roller-coaster rides. A Husband providing a comfortable life cannot provide what she craves.


That's why so many Wives step out. Hubby will most likely never find out either.

Don't get Married, brahs.

Is your wife not OK with arrangements?

My Hispanic friends specifically, their wives let them go to massage parlors on the side or having fun on boys trips. They just don’t want to know about it so he has to be discreet. TBH she’d probably divorce him anyways if she found out despite giving him the OK. Kind of like a chit test. So idk

If she’s not being manipulative, I feel like this is a pragmatic solution to the intimacy issue srs. It’s a given both husband and wife will lose sexual interest in each other. It’s just part of human nature. We can’t fuk the same person for decades.

And women know men are wired to fuk. And instead of fighting it, they can live with it for the harmony of the household.

Regardless this isn’t my problem with marriage. My GF told me she doesn’t expect me to just fuk her the rest of our lives if we stay together. I’m more worried about divorce and losing most of my chit. To put it bluntly, I make far more than she does. We have different views on money when it comes to saving and spending. I’m more frivolous, she’s more frugal.

Barring the financial picture, I can’t find a girl I like as much as her. I can find girls who I’m more financially compatible with but they’re boring. My heart tells me if I compromise on this though it won’t end up well long term.

Thats just one example, I feel like there are issues in general with every girl I date. Maybe it’s a me thing and not a them thing. Regardless, the traditional American culture of our parents’s days isn’t a thing anymore. Either they’ll leave or I’ll leave, and society won’t cast stigma, which makes it more likely for couples to choose to split instead of trying to undergo hardship together. And tbh I don’t trust myself or them to go that difficult route when divorce is like a get out of jail free card, more so for them.

I guess at this point you can always cheat on her without having to worry about breaking up the family as well....

I'm not saying I am cheating now, but I'm not saying I'm faithful, either.

To the doxxer's: I am not cheating.

And those Hispanic wives are going and getting dink on the side while their husbands are at the parlor. The cheating by Hispanics is YUGE, for both husbands and wives.

Wife would divorce me if I even spoke of having arrangements. It's one of those situations where "I don't want to sleep with you, but you can't sleep with anyone else either". Sounds retarded, because it is.

Luckily for me she makes close to what I do, but I did provide the majority of the marital home, cars, and have a fairly large retirement savings she would be entitled to half of.

Every woman I've dated or had long term relationships with have had one issue or another. The way their brains are wired, are not conducive to a peaceful, stress-free, harmonious existence. The chaos and drama a beautiful woman brings usually shows up once the honeymoon period is over.

Don't get Married.

Date, maintain separate residences, and as soon as the excitement, intimacy and butterflies dissipate, move on to the next girl.

The real answer is a lot of otherwise rational men just become completely retarded when it comes to women dfs.

Do you ever publically shame her for not putting out? Like jerking off openly on the bed while she's in it?

Honestly, once you've been denied so many times, you stop asking and don't even want it from her anymore. Rejection makes the heart go yonder...

How is she outside of the sex life? Is she otherwise caring and providing for you and being a good mom to the kids?

I'd stop the shit buddy. Take it from one who knows. The personal and professional consequences are not worth it. Leave her if you have to but be honest with her.

you going to suck off murroway some more you little ******

Even when I was 11 or so I knew I would never marry. It was never on my horizon and just doesn't fit with the nature of my existence.

I enjoy the liberty of being totally single and childless.

She's generally a great Mom and does a lot of Mom stuff. Usually pleasant to me, but has her moments like anyone.

I'm not saying I step out, but I understand those who do now. Sometimes life isn't black and white.

I think of all the celebrities who have to make these big apologies for having sex with someone else (which is completely normal). People like Mike Vrabel have to go through all this crap simply because he was dumb enough to get married in the first place.

Married 7 years crew. Parents still married as well.

Divorce hurts kids the most and brings generational misery, which explains this society being bitter and selfish.

it's called the honeymoon phase for a reason, give it 7 years dude

Taylor swift is your example of someone exceptionally beautiful? pls go