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Ok.. ask a guy who officially "made it" anything if you're curious. Will delete thrd.
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
what do you invest in, he didn't make it clear "Don't follow me, but my style is just to invest outside of Roth IRA's and retirement accounts.I do have some 401k accounts but they are not my focus."wtfRead this thread.
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=148214573
Some banned user *cough cough* made this thread years ago, but the info still applies.
Invest every penny you can as young as you possibly can.
Just choose index funds. Until you have a lot of money, just buy into say... the spider, aka S&P500 using Vanguard if possible. Then, join Bogleheads forum (google it) and ask them. It's an investing forum, guys there love to help.
There. That's the main trick anyone needs to be a millionaire.
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=148214573
Some banned user *cough cough* made this thread years ago, but the info still applies.
Invest every penny you can as young as you possibly can.
Just choose index funds. Until you have a lot of money, just buy into say... the spider, aka S&P500 using Vanguard if possible. Then, join Bogleheads forum (google it) and ask them. It's an investing forum, guys there love to help.
There. That's the main trick anyone needs to be a millionaire.
Thread: **-=OFFICIAL=-** Strange posters thread (SRS)
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=168018593&p=1409977863#post1409977863
**Official MISC "dedicated car sales man"** spot him post him here (srs)
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=160043551
06-02-2016, 08:53 PM
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06-02-2016, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
Mas with Bando's name on it on a piece of paper, I can probably google a spoon pic with that carAlright I'll do it. What of, the Maserati? Will that be good enough?
Brb, give me 5 min.
Brb, give me 5 min.
Don't put that on me Ricky Bobby, don't you ever put that on me.
06-02-2016, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Bando⏩
add my name to the pic for double proofMas with Bando's name on it on a piece of paper, I can probably google a spoon pic with that car
already repped you so do it *******
Thread: **-=OFFICIAL=-** Strange posters thread (SRS)
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=168018593&p=1409977863#post1409977863
**Official MISC "dedicated car sales man"** spot him post him here (srs)
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=160043551
06-02-2016, 08:57 PM
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06-02-2016, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
Nice congrats bro, I'm 20 years old and I had a similar life, I even found a damn sales job LOL worked door to door till found a company thatd take me in. BUT I ****ed that up and they were like lol bro we were gonna make you a manager, put me incharge of ****. SO this hits me in the feels, could be similar but now I work for the city.I'm 27.
Going to delete this thread but I created it after reading that "suicide rate" thread. I'm actually hoping a few specific questions get asked. Don't want this public (even though I'm anonymous) so will delete thread at some point.
Going to be a slight brag thread, my only intention is to let you know how I made it. I've been in the "made it" phase and don't feel too much of a need to brag to the misc, mostly a genuine thread. So.. here's my life.
- Grew up poor/poverty/FA, couldn't get girls as a young teen, anxiety, cheated on, broken home, no mentor, everything.
- Very painful childhood, most odds against me. Always said and thought I'd eventually be something.
- Dropped out of high school, tried a weak community college that was basically taking advantage of people (too young and dumb to realize it) failed that also at the very end. First half of my life I failed everything, surprised I made it through life at that point.
- Been a miscer for a looong time, almost 10 years, browse multiple times per week for entertainment.
Around 19 I started working out (right after finding misc) and my face started to mature, I ended up going from not all that good looking to a pretty good looking kid. First time in my life, I started to get attention from girls from it. That changed me a lot but I still had a lot of anger/anxiety/pain and issues in my life. Still.. my looks changing was huge to me because until age 17/18, I was completely FA. More so due to anxiety I had/couldn't approach. Finally... I was pulling and getting a lot. Loved that. Still hard, still made minimum wage.
- At 23/24 I had my lucky break. I had a low/entry level sales job and was very good at it, built a good resume and networked.
- Luckily got a dream job (right place, right time, luck and prepared/ambitious) started at 120k, half salary half commission.
- Over the next 2 years worked my way asking for raises/performing to a full 200k+ income.
Fast forward to current life:
- 27
- Have a house, with a huge quarter acre back yard, 3 bedrooms (just for me) in the most desirable city in my state near all my friends/where we grew up
- Professional career position, salary just about 100k/year, full benefits, commission another 100+ for a total just under $250k/year, which I'm actually hitting this year (first year over 200k income)
- I work from home with no supervision, work however many hours per week I want. Usually around 30
- Travel the country for free, about one 2-4 day trip every 1-2 months. Suit and tie business travel.
- Have a top model Maserati for fun
- Have a nice Cadillac for daily driver
- Hot GF who's successful & loyal (lol I think) and intelligent
- Buy toys whenever, zero debt, well on my way to a million in stocks/savings excluding physical assets
- Will be a full blown millionaire liquid without counting assets
That's basically made it status. Expecting genuine questions to kill your curiosity. Please no questions about what I do, it is a professional software sales position that any ambitious, professional person can get into with a few years/decade of effort.
Cliffs:
- Was a young FA miscer, poor, rough start to life, it sucked
- Now 28 and have most everything I could ask for
- Wanted to make thread to see if anyone wonders how I feel, waiting for questions
- Hope to get the message across that it's not nearly as hard as people think it might be
Going to delete this thread but I created it after reading that "suicide rate" thread. I'm actually hoping a few specific questions get asked. Don't want this public (even though I'm anonymous) so will delete thread at some point.
Going to be a slight brag thread, my only intention is to let you know how I made it. I've been in the "made it" phase and don't feel too much of a need to brag to the misc, mostly a genuine thread. So.. here's my life.
- Grew up poor/poverty/FA, couldn't get girls as a young teen, anxiety, cheated on, broken home, no mentor, everything.
- Very painful childhood, most odds against me. Always said and thought I'd eventually be something.
- Dropped out of high school, tried a weak community college that was basically taking advantage of people (too young and dumb to realize it) failed that also at the very end. First half of my life I failed everything, surprised I made it through life at that point.
- Been a miscer for a looong time, almost 10 years, browse multiple times per week for entertainment.
Around 19 I started working out (right after finding misc) and my face started to mature, I ended up going from not all that good looking to a pretty good looking kid. First time in my life, I started to get attention from girls from it. That changed me a lot but I still had a lot of anger/anxiety/pain and issues in my life. Still.. my looks changing was huge to me because until age 17/18, I was completely FA. More so due to anxiety I had/couldn't approach. Finally... I was pulling and getting a lot. Loved that. Still hard, still made minimum wage.
- At 23/24 I had my lucky break. I had a low/entry level sales job and was very good at it, built a good resume and networked.
- Luckily got a dream job (right place, right time, luck and prepared/ambitious) started at 120k, half salary half commission.
- Over the next 2 years worked my way asking for raises/performing to a full 200k+ income.
Fast forward to current life:
- 27
- Have a house, with a huge quarter acre back yard, 3 bedrooms (just for me) in the most desirable city in my state near all my friends/where we grew up
- Professional career position, salary just about 100k/year, full benefits, commission another 100+ for a total just under $250k/year, which I'm actually hitting this year (first year over 200k income)
- I work from home with no supervision, work however many hours per week I want. Usually around 30
- Travel the country for free, about one 2-4 day trip every 1-2 months. Suit and tie business travel.
- Have a top model Maserati for fun
- Have a nice Cadillac for daily driver
- Hot GF who's successful & loyal (lol I think) and intelligent
- Buy toys whenever, zero debt, well on my way to a million in stocks/savings excluding physical assets
- Will be a full blown millionaire liquid without counting assets
That's basically made it status. Expecting genuine questions to kill your curiosity. Please no questions about what I do, it is a professional software sales position that any ambitious, professional person can get into with a few years/decade of effort.
Cliffs:
- Was a young FA miscer, poor, rough start to life, it sucked
- Now 28 and have most everything I could ask for
- Wanted to make thread to see if anyone wonders how I feel, waiting for questions
- Hope to get the message across that it's not nearly as hard as people think it might be
06-02-2016, 09:02 PM
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06-02-2016, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Nonsense916⏩
Lol, absolutely the best part.You failed to mention you have 56k rep points on a bb forum
Originally Posted By fox994⏩
NoPics of hot "loyal" gf?
Originally Posted By stevesteve12⏩
Finally some real questions.how do you deal with being so much more successful than your peers and childhood friends?
i'm having these "problems" where I have all the time and money in the world to do fun **** like spontaneous trips to Europe but most of my friends are either too busy with real life or have no $
also what are your principles when it comes to paying for **** for your friends? do you just go like "dont worry about it i gotz this guys" everytime?
i'm having these "problems" where I have all the time and money in the world to do fun **** like spontaneous trips to Europe but most of my friends are either too busy with real life or have no $
also what are your principles when it comes to paying for **** for your friends? do you just go like "dont worry about it i gotz this guys" everytime?
So, to the first, I was somewhat hoping this was asked. How do I feel compared to most my age or friends? I don't really give a sh!t that I'm more successful than them. I actually fear that they will be jealous, I don't want them to. I don't want them to think that I think I'm superior or anything. So while it's nice feeling like I can pound my chest and say look what I did.. the fear of being disliked for success is actually a bit more impacting.
Second part to that answer...and the most significant thing I can say in this thread,is that I always wonder why they don't ask me how. I'd bent over backwards (and often do) for friends if they asked for help. If they simply came up to me and said "Hey, how did you do it? Can you help me?" and actually TRIED, my mind would be blown.
I've never shown off my money or success until about 1-2 years ago. I always saved a lot and had money but only lately actually flexing it. Now... it's so weird that NOBODY asks how or for help. It's a little sad. Here's a life tip, men LOVE being mentors and helping others. So, if you have a real life person who's successful, don't be a *******. GO ASK for guidance. I simply don't understand it.
I also have my mind blown by people who accept their current jobs. If you're making less than 80k/year, you need to be looking hard for new jobs, networking yourself and making your LinkedIn look good. It's as simple as that. Wtf are people doing? Don't settle.
As for paying for friends.. do you mean like if we go to dinner? I love to do it. I don't all the time, growing up poor has like stuck in my mind, as in $10 still seems like a sh!t load to me. Lol. So I hate spending but I do like helping people out.
As far as just giving people money? Only if they have somewhat done well for themselves and are in an unfortunate situation. I've learned how true the "teach a man to fish vs giving him a fish" thing is. Simply giving money to someone struggling is often enabling them.
edit: Actually I'd be wrong to not say this one good thing about it. Being successful has made me very confident.. so that improves my social life. I've turned into the life of the party type person in the last 2-3 years, it helped me come out of my shell. I wouldn't say life of the party because I picture that being some guy at a club lol but I mean the one doing the talking and making people laugh in a crowd.
06-02-2016, 09:04 PM
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my main thing is getting good at the sales aspect of things when it's damn tough and competitive. i do well at it but not as well as i'd like to. that's the part im still learning.
06-02-2016, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By SageKing⏩
Damn this thread is attacking the feels, I was starting to do the same as yall but around december I just broke all my **** SRS and now I'm bumming have to sell rocks to make payments and still have cash....Also checked that 'suicide' thread and wanted to post something positive.
Don't have the time to post much, but I went from living on the street to having two small businesses, putting myself through school even after bombing courses hard, improved my looks, became hard working, dedicated, developed my morals and figured out how to be a man. Bought everything I ever wanted (all the Playstation games I could never get, lol, nice bike, EVO, house, clothes), have hundreds of friends, dated tons of girls, travelled all over.
When I see miscer's crying about doing nothing and becoming nothing, especially when some are like 19 or 22, and all the other depressed dudes are just self-confirming all the negativity, it is sad....
World is yours, anything is possible. It isn't easy, but hard work pays off.
Right now I am in transition because without my true dream, I am still unfulfilled, soon I will leave to go chase that, and will probably not return to the misc.
Don't have the time to post much, but I went from living on the street to having two small businesses, putting myself through school even after bombing courses hard, improved my looks, became hard working, dedicated, developed my morals and figured out how to be a man. Bought everything I ever wanted (all the Playstation games I could never get, lol, nice bike, EVO, house, clothes), have hundreds of friends, dated tons of girls, travelled all over.
When I see miscer's crying about doing nothing and becoming nothing, especially when some are like 19 or 22, and all the other depressed dudes are just self-confirming all the negativity, it is sad....
World is yours, anything is possible. It isn't easy, but hard work pays off.
Right now I am in transition because without my true dream, I am still unfulfilled, soon I will leave to go chase that, and will probably not return to the misc.
06-02-2016, 09:05 PM
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Are you happy?
What is the next thing to improve on your list?
What is the next thing to improve on your list?
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06-02-2016, 09:06 PM
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06-02-2016, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By JamaicaBrah⏩
The other question I was hoping somebody asked.Are you happy?
What is the next thing to improve on your list?
What is the next thing to improve on your list?
Am I happy? I'm average happiness level. I was hoping someone asked because I wanted to state my theory. I have a theory that everyone has this average level of happiness. You can bounce it up and down, but it ALWAYS goes back to normal. This is why there are currently starving people in 3rd world countries that are happier than me today. We all have an average. Death, hard times, bounce it down for extended periods and good things can bounce it up for extended periods but over time, you bounce back to average.
I don't like walk around smiling lol. Sure, driving the badass car gives me a rush and pushes it up for that day but after 5-6 months of ownership, it bounces it less.
The point I'm trying to get across here is don't envy people above you financially too much. We're all on the same level happy wise.
My next goal is to find another hobby. I've started some good ones but I want to get more into lifting again (haven't lifted seriously in a while like I did when I was 19/20
06-02-2016, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
holy...Second part to that answer...and the most significant thing I can say in this thread,is that I always wonder why they don't ask me how. I'd bent over backwards (and often do) for friends if they asked for help. If they simply came up to me and said "Hey, how did you do it? Can you help me?" and actually TRIED, my mind would be blown.
I've never shown off my money or success until about 1-2 years ago. I always saved a lot and had money but only lately actually flexing it. Now... it's so weird that NOBODY asks how or for help. It's a little sad. Here's a life tip, men LOVE being mentors and helping others. So, if you have a real life person who's successful, don't be a *******. GO ASK for guidance. I simply don't understand it.
I also have my mind blown by people who accept their current jobs. If you're making less than 80k/year, you need to be looking hard for new jobs, networking yourself and making your LinkedIn look good. It's as simple as that. Wtf are people doing? Don't settle.
I've never shown off my money or success until about 1-2 years ago. I always saved a lot and had money but only lately actually flexing it. Now... it's so weird that NOBODY asks how or for help. It's a little sad. Here's a life tip, men LOVE being mentors and helping others. So, if you have a real life person who's successful, don't be a *******. GO ASK for guidance. I simply don't understand it.
I also have my mind blown by people who accept their current jobs. If you're making less than 80k/year, you need to be looking hard for new jobs, networking yourself and making your LinkedIn look good. It's as simple as that. Wtf are people doing? Don't settle.
**** mane
my exact thought. I thought i was just being a unreasonably narcissistic kunt expecting ppl to show interest in my motivations/principles and finding out HOW i did what i did
the reaction i get is usually: 1. calls me a fraud 2. trying to find out exactly how much $ i have for the WoW factor and the continue back to their broke ass ways working 9-5
at the end of the day i truly believe its 90% mental. the hardest hurdle to making millions of $ is ACTUALLY believing that you can do it
06-02-2016, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
What careers do you know of that make a lot of money, that are not sales, that can be started with one year or less of education/training?I also have my mind blown by people who accept their current jobs. If you're making less than 80k/year, you need to be looking hard for new jobs, networking yourself and making your LinkedIn look good. It's as simple as that. Wtf are people doing? Don't settle.
I have a generic degree but my marketable skills are in an area I no longer want to work, so if I switch careers it'll be brand new. Still trying to find something not sales, trades or IT that can break 80k.
06-02-2016, 09:11 PM
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OP answer this for me: I know my product inside and out, and very attentive to the prospects needs, follow up when necessary, and am pretty relentless. i do everything i think I "should" be doing, however sometimes I lose out to the competing vendors. what could I do to improve based on that assessment? i'd love to make some more money but more importantly improve my value as an employee. it's just such a competitive market.
06-02-2016, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Alvarezzz⏩
Lmao. She's fine. I did her wrong a while back and she got used to following me. I'm assuming she just wants to keep some connection to me.Whys your ex stalking your misc posts?
Get lost you evil swine of a woman, you're not welcome here.
Get lost you evil swine of a woman, you're not welcome here.
Not 100% sure she is but we rarely ever talk, and as soon as I made this thread I get a call from her, and I just know her personality.
06-02-2016, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I'd say change your industry. Some markets are too saturated, it may be your industry limiting your success not you. Find some harder position and try to work your way into it.OP answer this for me: I know my product inside and out, and very attentive to the prospects needs, follow up when necessary, and am pretty relentless. i do everything i think I "should" be doing, however sometimes I lose out to the competing vendors. what could I do to improve based on that assessment? i'd love to make some more money but more importantly improve my value as an employee. it's just such a competitive market.
06-02-2016, 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
but I work in software sales as well.I'd say change your industry. Some markets are too saturated, it may be your industry limiting your success not you. Find some harder position and try to work your way into it.
06-02-2016, 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Schism45⏩
Hmmm.. I wish I knew man. I'd get in the software industry, software is the future. You could work your way into operations, project managers... although they work harder and make less, once you get in the right space they can still make 100k+. Takes time though.What careers do you know of that make a lot of money, that are not sales, that can be started with one year or less of education/training?
I have a generic degree but my marketable skills are in an area I no longer want to work, so if I switch careers it'll be brand new. Still trying to find something not sales, trades or IT that can break 80k.
I have a generic degree but my marketable skills are in an area I no longer want to work, so if I switch careers it'll be brand new. Still trying to find something not sales, trades or IT that can break 80k.
06-02-2016, 09:13 PM
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06-02-2016, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I mean change your niche. "software sales" is composed of hundreds of industries. Medical. Banking. Construction. There's software for everything inside software.but I work in software sales as well.
Pro tip, banking software is where the big bucks are at. Well they could be elsewhere also but I just can't vouch for them the way I can banking.
06-02-2016, 09:15 PM
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What would you say to an 18 year old who wants nothing more than to be in your position while still in his 20s? I've been told I'm intelligent and also a pretty personable guy, which id like to think is true. Also got into a good college I just want to get the most out of it, and I'm willing to do nothing but work hard for years to achieve this kind of success. I wouldn't normally do this but you said you liked mentoring people. Im young, I know I can go anywhere but I just wanna know the right first step to make it like this. Thanks in advance and congrats man.
06-02-2016, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Hadtodoit⏩
What do you think about CRM salesI mean change your niche. "software sales" is composed of hundreds of industries. Medical. Banking. Construction. There's software for everything inside software.
Pro tip, banking software is where the big bucks are at. Well they could be elsewhere also but I just can't vouch for them the way I can banking.
Pro tip, banking software is where the big bucks are at. Well they could be elsewhere also but I just can't vouch for them the way I can banking.
06-02-2016, 09:18 PM
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okay, thanks for the tips brah. i'm in medical currently but it's so ****ing competitive and if I had something people actually wanted i'm so confident in my actual "sales abilities." thanks again and keep up the good work.
06-02-2016, 09:18 PM
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06-02-2016, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted By southard7⏩
Honestly... and I'm hesitant to say this because the more people who do exactly what I do, the more saturated my job becomes eventually and devalues the position.What would you say to an 18 year old who wants nothing more than to be in your position while still in his 20s? I've been told I'm intelligent and also a pretty personable guy, which id like to think is true. Also got into a good college I just want to get the most out of it, and I'm willing to do nothing but work hard for years to achieve this kind of success. I wouldn't normally do this but you said you liked mentoring people. Im young, I know I can go anywhere but I just wanna know the right first step to make it like this. Thanks in advance and congrats man.
However it's just the misc, not like I'm saying it to the world and I like you guys.
So, I'd say get in sales asap. I'm also hesitant to say that because there's more to life, you could be a surgeon or business owner.. but truthfully, I'd trade my life for a surgeons any day. I'll make 250k/year much earlier, save and invest it, no debt, no delayed income, financially I'll be better off than the average surgeon making 300/350k. I'll also work probably 40% of the hours and travel more.
I'd say get in sales, and never say in one position more than 2-3 years unless it's really good. Never stop climbing. That's where people fail, they stop climbing. They hear climb and they think "Oh, get better at my job" no, it means look for better jobs. Market yourself. Save your "good job" emails, and of course, do a good job.
06-02-2016, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MoeBettuh⏩
Dammit I just sat down. Do you really think there are other spoon pics of Caddy keys and a Maserati out there? Why? Combined with this thread? Why would I waste my energy lol my fingers are tired. There's a spoon pic above. If for some reason everyone called it out I'll do the username thing but the spoon pic should be more than enough, I've been a part of this forum for almost a decade man.OP, where are the pix of the usernames on the Mas?
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