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Thread: How Do Married Couples Not Get Bored with Eachother Sexually?

post 1540743731 01-15-2018, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By YUL⏩
I’ve slept with many women while their husbands watched. They were watching tv or playing with their phones lol


Im not active in the lifestyle anymore though
Done the same, except the husbands werent aware lol. Kunts gonna kunt
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I think married couples eventually start thinking of ****ing each other as "doing a solid" for them.
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post 1540744711 01-15-2018, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1⏩
I've been with my wife for 29 years and we are going strong. If you really like the person, find them attractive, and enjoy being with them, then you don't have to worry.
This is the correct answer. And congrats on 29 years!
post 1540745241 01-15-2018, 05:21 PM
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I don’t know if it’s as much about loving each other as it is just putting in the effort. Long term relationships take legitimate work, otherwise you’re hopping from one person to the next every time you inevitably hit that wall.

Anyone can keep a relationship going when things are new and exciting. Not everyone can put in the work after 10 years of familiarity and all the accompanying crap you go through together
post 1540745921 01-15-2018, 05:29 PM
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post 1540746011 01-15-2018, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
She overcomes it by banging Jamal and forcing you to raise his child.

If you're a male in marriage all you can do is cope
gotta keep that marriage alive nomsayin boyo

no cucking too cuckening if it's for my baby
Originally Posted By YUL⏩
I’ve slept with many women while their husbands watched. They were watching tv or playing with their phones lol
-watching
-watching TV or playing with their phones

pick one.

must beone riveting performanceyou deliver,fukn lol
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post 1540747261 01-15-2018, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
that's why you gotta start trying new things


like peeing in each other's butts n chit
Or mouth.

I’d full on let grandchads gimme a golden shower.








Srs.
They said she's gone too far this time

¯\_(ツ)_/¯
post 1540747781 01-15-2018, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
Or mouth.

I’d full on let grandchads gimme a golden shower.








Srs.
They said she's gone too far this time
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post 1540748291 01-15-2018, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
-watching
-watching TV or playing with their phones

pick one.

must beone riveting performanceyou deliver,fukn lol
Sometimes the dude would be watching football or keeping quiet and be texting. didn’t seem too concerned about what was going on. Very rarely would he join in.

But hotel parties were more fun.
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post 1540749551 01-15-2018, 06:01 PM
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its a really sad thought but I personally would just deal with it. There are ways to make things more exciting.
I doubt a woman can stay loyal these days though. With social media, dating apps etc
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post 1540760371 01-15-2018, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I have a hard time believing that. Everything loses it's flame after a few years. Everything.
Then you've got the wrong girl... or maybe you aren't good in bed? In my experience both my long term relationships continually get better. Sex now with my wife is far better than it was 5 years ago and that's with a 2 year old we have to work around.

I will note she occasionally brings a friend to bed with us.. not often but occasionally so that def spices things up. But even one on one its fantastic.
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post 1540760591 01-15-2018, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I have a hard time believing that. Everything loses it's flame after a few years. Everything.
The flame continues if you keep it going. You have to maintain the relationship every day. It's not hard. Stay in shape. Work on yourself. Be attentive to the little things. Kiss her like you mean it.
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post 1540760611 01-15-2018, 07:49 PM
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This is one of the reasons ill probably never marry srs

I could carry my end of the bargain but once the honeymoon phase is over most women are not very sexual creatures. Some of them believe the purpose of sex is to trap you (srs)
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1⏩
I've been with my wife for 29 years and we are going strong. If you really like the person, find them attractive, and enjoy being with them, then you don't have to worry.
Legit.
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post 1540761721 01-15-2018, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
She overcomes it by banging Jamal and forcing you to raise his child.

If you're a male in marriage all you can do is cope
Is that what happened to you
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post 1540762141 01-15-2018, 08:06 PM
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I married a woman I am VERY attracted to. Been married almost 14 years with no boredom. Don’t get married unless she is right in every department, including she could get you hard just by walking past in grubby clothes. Too much trouble any other way boyos.
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
This is one of the reasons ill probably never marry srs

I could carry my end of the bargain but once the honeymoon phase is over most women are not very sexual creatures. Some of them believe the purpose of sex is to trap you (srs)
women are sexual i was with one who wanted it 5 times a day
post 1540762901 01-15-2018, 08:14 PM
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Your experiences can be broad, or they can be deep. Having one-night stands with many women is broad experience, being married to one woman for life is a deep experience. It's more fulfilling.

You have many shared experiences and memories, you understand each-other well. She's the woman who gave me my children. I don't think many of you understand what that means.

That is, of course, assuming you make an effort to make the marriage a good one. If you just go with the flow then things turn shtty, just as at work or uni or anything else.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
This has always been a worry of mine. Want to have a family one day but not sure how could i put up with fukin the same woman for decades.

Current GF seems like a good way to achieve it tho, she is incredibly hot, 8.5/10 levels, she is kinky as fuk when horny (as in she lets me do whatever i can to her), blowjobs once in a while outdoors, and **** like that.

On top of that, she wants to get her tits even bigger and get her waist and ****ch done after she has had a couple of kids, would make her a 9.5/10 in my eyes, and would give me an extra 5 years or so of good fuking without getting bored.


After that im bringing the big guns, threesomes (FFM and eventually,if confident and in love enough, MMF), toys, probably involve sex robots or something like that by that time.
Mind seriously blown by this. Is this really where we are at today? I may be old fashioned or just old but wtf at having another man bang your wife (one you love too), with you or not. The fuq is wrong with your kids today?
post 1540763601 01-15-2018, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Duckliver⏩
We had a camp out with 3 1/2 year old last night. I set up the blowup mattress next to the couch for her and little dude to sleep, I sleep on couch. She moves to cuddle on and we started playing with each other in the middle of megamind. She goes under the covers but when it my turn to go down, movie ends and little dude starts yelling at me to leave mom alone “he thinks we’re wrestling or somthing.” Little cockblock threw a big fit and jumped on us instead of going to sleep so we get clothes on and go to sleep. 45 mins later she’s escaping his cuddling of death and crawling into couch for more. Could never ever get tired of it, 10/10 sex session even trying to be quiet and not wake up little dude just made me feel like I’m trying to be sneaky like when I was a kid. would do again every night for rest of my life.As a matter of fact only way I could picture Somone getting tired of sex with an attractive female they wifed up would be if they turned *******.
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Originally Posted By goingcia⏩
Mind seriously blown by this. Is this really where we are at today? I may be old fashioned or just old but wtf at having another man bang your wife (one you love too), with you or not. The fuq is wrong with your kids today?
No no no, he said MMF. He'd be the one getting banged by his wife and another dude. Get it right before Leo comes in and schools you bro.
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I'll leave this here

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Originally Posted By Amp30⏩
I wonder how common threesomes are for married couples who are bored and want to try new things. I'd be cool with a FFM threesome, but I can't imagine ever being comfortable enough letting another guy fuk my wife/girlfriend so I wouldn't compromise
Well I can I say that I have done that. No issues whatsoever. I have too much respect for my friend, his wife and the family they have brought up.
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Originally Posted By StrawHat94⏩
That's when the weird fetishes come to light
Yup, that’s when it gets fun =D
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Been with my wife for 10 years (since I was 18). Sex life has only gotten better. We usually smash 3-4 times a week. Still get blowjobs and handjobs. Bought toys and sex gimmick stuff like handcuffs and that wedge pillow thing. We both make it a point to prioritize it because it’s important to a healthy relationship. The better the sex... the closer we get lol. It is rare though... most people cannot achieve this for some reason. I think it has a lot to do with the lack of compromising. For example... she blows me and I make sure I do the dishes without her asking occasionally. Stuff like that.
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Originally Posted By ChristmasFnatic⏩
I mean, married for more than 10 years, dont they get bored? Or they fantasize of eachother's hot friends? Use sex toys? Swapping?

Or if you truly love eachother, you can overcome sex boredom?
This is why your girlfriend wants to leave you.
Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
Wrong. I was married for 18 years and we had sex nonstop—we were both highly sexual people and were incredibly sexually attracted to one another. There are way more couples out there like us than you think
lol...I believe you.
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Originally Posted By Invictus⏩
i think if they have kids together their sex life just sort of diminishes and they stay together for the kids, and if they don't have kids they separate if they are sexually bored with each other.
Wrong. I was married for 18 years and we had sex nonstop—we were both highly sexual people and were incredibly sexually attracted to one another. There are way more couples out there like us than you think
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Originally Posted By KyleAaron⏩
Your experiences can be broad, or they can be deep. Having one-night stands with many women is broad experience, being married to one woman for life is a deep experience. It's more fulfilling.

You have many shared experiences and memories, you understand each-other well. She's the woman who gave me my children. I don't think many of you understand what that means.

That is, of course, assuming you make an effort to make the marriage a good one. If you just go with the flow then things turn shtty, just as at work or uni or anything else.
Exactly... The whole child thing is really huge in our marriage.. Literally changed who we were as people and as a couple. It takes effort from both sides and willingness to sacrifice.
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Originally Posted By IIIWolverineIII⏩
You just turn the dial up on the kinkometer.
This. Not much my wife won't let me do
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