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post 1541130651 01-19-2018, 06:22 AM
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It's more depressing when you're not alone and surrounded by people that care about you, and you still feel that way.
post 1541132351 01-19-2018, 06:58 AM
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I have literally 2 people in my life but Im pretty happy with it. I hate being around other people anyways 99% of the time.

Nobody really gives a **** about anyone else, we are all just selfish *******s. Such is life.
post 1541132511 01-19-2018, 07:00 AM
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post 1541132671 01-19-2018, 07:04 AM
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yeah.
When you get a girl interested in you for a bit it feels good but they leave you for the "next best thing" (In their mind at the time) then you go back to that feeling.
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post 1541132851 01-19-2018, 07:08 AM
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Not really
post 1541132941 01-19-2018, 07:09 AM
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Yeah this is a legit feeling. It's only gonna get worse as you get older, which is why I laugh when miscers say they'll remain bachelors till they die.
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post 1541133141 01-19-2018, 07:13 AM
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post 1541133191 01-19-2018, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes marriage can resolve loneliness but only if you really love your spouse and they really love you. Otherwise it can be worse than being alone. Imagine growing old with someone you don't really love and having to deal with their ailments and crankiness etc.
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post 1541134261 01-19-2018, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA
I guess its normal to feel this but I guess if you look deeper we all have someone who cares for us.
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post 1541136101 01-19-2018, 07:56 AM
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wut? feeling completely alone is the best feels
post 1541140901 01-19-2018, 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted By dontstopmirin
wut? feeling completely alone is the best feels
alone is okay
lonely always feelsbadman
post 1541141761 01-19-2018, 09:10 AM
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post 1541141941 01-19-2018, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By RushEm
alone is okay
lonely always feelsbadman
lonliness is good too :c - u get used to it.
post 1541143651 01-19-2018, 09:28 AM
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post 1541147951 01-19-2018, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA
I guess its normal to feel this but I guess if you look deeper we all have someone who cares for us.
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA
I guess its normal to feel this but I guess if you look deeper we all have someone who cares for us.
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I sometimes feel people think I have it together all the time. It can be burdensome because I feel that I don't and sometimes I need to talk to someone about my life issues TBH.

It's flattering that people think I got it together though. It can be lonely though because outside of my mother and the women in my family very few people check up on me and even then my family comes to me with problems and stuff to do since I'm one of the few men in the family I have to facilitate a certain role as such.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
This too, it's an existential loneliness.
There are people out there that won't make you feel lonely, but you have to find them. Just being around people isn't always going to cure the loneliness. I have my family and my GF, and i'm as lonely as ever, even though i'm never actually alone. The **** hurts physically and mentally, especially when i see others making connections so effortlessly.
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Originally Posted By Kiop
give care to get one
but sadly sometime, u end up caring for ppl who doesn't feel anything toward you.
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Yes opie, it's normal. You could have tonnes of people around you and still feel alone.

The coolest individuals on earth are those who live in both worlds. The one where we're alone (thus we came and thus we leave) and the one where there's people who love and care for you.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes I know it's possible to have a real connection with someone. When I was married I was happy and not lonely anymore. Just doubt whether I'll find that connection again.
Why'd you get out of it if it was happy?

You don't have to tell me here if it's private. Just curious.

I'm always interested to know why people let good things end if it's within their means to not let it be so.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes I know it's possible to have a real connection with someone. When I was married I was happy and not lonely anymore. Just doubt whether I'll find that connection again.
You will..just don't rush it and jump from guy to guy. That doesn't solve anything.
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You need to find a balance. I'm more of an introvert, I enjoy my alone time that allows for deep thinking about my goals/life and a feeling of empowerment. I'm lucky enough to have a personality that allows me to get along with almost anyone, so I understand it's easier for some.

But that doesn't mean you can't work on improvement. Maybe you need to become busier/find social activities to fill your free time. I recently picked up a nightime second job as a bouncer while I'm in college/work during the day. Not only am I making extra money and staying busy, I'm socializing with people all the time. Feeling sorry for yourself won't help, and I can tell you from experience it makes it harder to make connections, people can sense that ****. Stay positive OP, you only get one life.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes I know it's possible to have a real connection with someone. When I was married I was happy and not lonely anymore. Just doubt whether I'll find that connection again.
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It is hitting me hard today. I have a boyfriend who keeps needing more alone time and has asked to just be left alone for a few days. Damn I just don't even feel like I have a relationship at all at this point.

I know I need to move my ass along and stop trying to make it work. I am a pretty solid girlfriend with a lot of love to give and I am just throwing it in the wind and hearing nothing back. Ugh.
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It's natural. I struggle because I know what my intentions and feelings are but I don't know what the other persons are. I understand everyone has different ways of showing their emotions and at times I don't feel loved. I'm working on it though. I just recently got together with my ex but for the time we where separated, I won a nice bet on a sportsbook, had money in my pocket but felt completely alone.
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