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post 1541103861 01-18-2018, 08:31 PM
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Does everyone occasionally feel completely alone / uncared for?

I guess its normal to feel this but I guess if you look deeper we all have someone who cares for us.
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post 1541103911 01-18-2018, 08:32 PM
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post 1541106371 01-18-2018, 08:59 PM
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post 1541106671 01-18-2018, 09:02 PM
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Dude, that my life.
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post 1541106911 01-18-2018, 09:05 PM
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post 1541108621 01-18-2018, 09:22 PM
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i mean i can type a bunch of stuff to ensure you that people do care about you but nothing will make u feel better if you dont do anything about it. yes its easier said than done but even just going outside and walking around (alone) is better than feeling bad about it inside and surfing the internet/tv... etc.

remember that communication is a two way street. dont expect others to hit u up and hang out.... they might be feeling the same way. intiate contact. and dont let it be forgotten either. humans are so bad about this stuff... they take things for granted and dont really appreciate things. if someone takes effort to care about u... show ur appreciation. dont dump them later on if u get more people who care about u later on... always be grounded, humble, and appreciative.
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post 1541108941 01-18-2018, 09:26 PM
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post 1541109721 01-18-2018, 09:35 PM
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I do sometimes. I have family that cares about me and close friends that care about me to some extent. But I've never had a woman care about me in a romantic sense, and that's what I've always longed for.
post 1541119881 01-19-2018, 12:05 AM
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Yeah, I have been working on my phd for 3.5 years now in a computational area of physics. It can be a hard slog and hard to find genuine friendship. I am female and in a really male dominated field. I can *try* to be friends with guys I meet but it keeps not working out when they get feelings (no, I don't hook up, lead on, literally nothing). Rinse and repeat.

I am trying to work on it and putting more attention onto the few women I know for friendship. PhD can be a long road they say. I get it now.
post 1541120111 01-19-2018, 12:11 AM
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You should feel alone sometimes. You come into the world alone. You die alone. Most people care only about themselves. Even your spouse sometimes. You are alone. Embrace it.
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post 1541120171 01-19-2018, 12:13 AM
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it's called ego death

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post 1541120181 01-19-2018, 12:14 AM
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post 1541120231 01-19-2018, 12:15 AM
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occasionally?
post 1541120341 01-19-2018, 12:17 AM
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post 1541120591 01-19-2018, 12:23 AM
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No, I got 4 of my homies: NADH (3) and FADH2 (1)
post 1541120671 01-19-2018, 12:25 AM
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Originally Posted By 300BLK⏩
Welcome to adulthood
Pretty much.

Sounds cliche but play the guitar or something. Cathartic. Also read into and grasp stoicism and descartes work, found it useful.
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post 1541120761 01-19-2018, 12:28 AM
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Yes recently. I work 40 hours of retail and have a great time when I'm at the store. Besides that no one to hang out with or even talk to
post 1541121051 01-19-2018, 12:36 AM
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post 1541121071 01-19-2018, 12:37 AM
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nope, never think about stuff like that
post 1541123381 01-19-2018, 02:02 AM
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post 1541123411 01-19-2018, 02:04 AM
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Yep sinvcce about 13 and a half but hey thus is life . can't tarry in that place. Got to pack it in and move forward
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Everyday.


But I know I have my family and they always got my back, but its just lonely a lot of the times without a core group of buddies, everyone is just an aquaintance.
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Originally Posted By dulcis⏩
Yeah, I have been working on my phd for 3.5 years now in a computational area of physics. It can be a hard slog and hard to find genuine friendship. I am female and in a really male dominated field. I can *try* to be friends with guys I meet but it keeps not working out when they get feelings (no, I don't hook up, lead on, literally nothing). Rinse and repeat.

I am trying to work on it and putting more attention onto the few women I know for friendship. PhD can be a long road they say. I get it now.
Yes, ease caution there may bE an Einstein-Rosenbridge to consider
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Thinking about it, I would honestly say I'm more concerned about not having a partnerI can care about, rather than not being cared about. I'm used to people not caring about me but I miss caring about somebody and wanting to protect them.
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There are lots of us out there whom people give 0 chits about
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give care to get one
but sadly sometime, u end up caring for ppl who doesn't feel anything toward you.
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I always feel alone because I lack a social life and a real connection. Life is all about connecting with ppl at work and having ppl you can relate to and experience things with.
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