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Never, When I was turned down for sex I turned her down for hugs/kisses so that taught her to not turn down sex on me.
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Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
You must have a lot of soyboy friendsAlot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
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never get turned down when I'm looking for sex from the wife (3-4x a week consistently)
if someone has to beg for sex, the marriage is in a bad place
if someone has to beg for sex, the marriage is in a bad place
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
I'd never date a girl that does not satisfy my needs when needed.Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
That would just be retarded, I'm a sexually guy and I let them know this since day 1.
You're just too beta to require such thing, but your name says it all "sirBETALOT" aka Soyboy
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
Are your married friends *******s? Semi srs.Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
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My experience.
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
Strong username to post content correlation.Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
In all honesty though, I don't know a single guy in real life who has to beg his wife for sex. Probably because I wouldn't want to hang with them in the first place.
Originally Posted By Fairplay⏩
Also this.People will only talk about their success and won't be too enthusiastic to tell you that their wife doesn't put out anymore. It makes them look bad so they'd rather keep that information within the marriage. Same with this thread, you're only going to hear from the guys who are doing well with their wife and still smashing. So it's hard to tell, but i believe most marriages and ltr's atleast slow down with the sex. That is a normal, natural progression.
Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
To be blunt... you were a fool to get married in such a situation where things were already going downhill.My experience.
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
take this as a warning for your next relationship, you tolerated 6 weeks of no sex before you were even married...how much more of a sign did you need?My experience.
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
good luck brah, there's better women out there who actually like sex
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
"a lot of cope in here." LOL. I'd be willing to bet they are either BS'ing you or something has changed and theyre being *******s. As been said, yes it will fade, but if it goes from daily to once a month and you have to beg for it, would bet money there is some sort of issue.Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
Things change for a reason. Find out why. Your partner actually not being sexually compatible with you could be one of them. People can "keep up" or be different for only so long.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
jesus christ m8, where do you even find girls like thisMy experience.
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
besides, always find a girl who is hornier than you are, thats like rule number one
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
Most likely his friend's wive's are getting their dick needs from elsewhere since sirbetalot's friends are beta like him and can't satisfy their women.."a lot of cope in here." LOL. I'd be willing to bet they are either BS'ing you or something has changed and theyre being *******s. As been said, yes it will fade, but if it goes from daily to once a month and you have to beg for it, would bet money there is some sort of issue.
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Originally Posted By Andresthetic1⏩
Yep. Bet if they started hitting the gym a little and being less passive they would start getting their dinks wet more regularly.Most likely his friend's wive's are getting their dick needs from elsewhere since sirbetalot's friends are beta like him and can't satisfy their women..
Or do the manly thing and, well, you know, ask what's the scoop?
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Jesus man, was she super model status or something? That's a lot to put up with.My experience.
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.
Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."
It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."
I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.
She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.
We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
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Originally Posted By StrongVision⏩
It’s less now that she’s pregnant and getting sick, but last pregnancy was the same way. Dipped down for a few weeks because of how bad she felt, then back at it again, sometimes more. Pregnancy hormones are real tea.3-4 Times a week? Jesus maybe I am a low test *******, good for u bro srs. I don’t want to bang mine more than once every week or two.
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
Ah, the coveted “expert with no firsthand experience”. Tell your friends to get divorced if their wives are such prudes.Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
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Longest LTR I've been in was just under 2 years srs. Definitely gets less frequent but nothing to what some marriages sound like.
I imagine alot of 10+ year marriages with kids are like that scene from Knocked Up.
I imagine alot of 10+ year marriages with kids are like that scene from Knocked Up.
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Depends on the girl.
I would come onto my gf 5-6 nights a week and get rejected like once a week.
I've also dated a girl who would relentlessly flirt and flaunt herself. I would come onto her 5-6 times a night, and she would reject me almost every time. She just wanted to be wanted. Obviously, it didn't last.
As far as the reverse, last time I turned down a girl she started crying and said she should leave. Then we talked about it and fuked 5 mins later anyway. For a girl with an insatiable sex drive, it's better just to give in and fuk anyway.
I would come onto my gf 5-6 nights a week and get rejected like once a week.
I've also dated a girl who would relentlessly flirt and flaunt herself. I would come onto her 5-6 times a night, and she would reject me almost every time. She just wanted to be wanted. Obviously, it didn't last.
As far as the reverse, last time I turned down a girl she started crying and said she should leave. Then we talked about it and fuked 5 mins later anyway. For a girl with an insatiable sex drive, it's better just to give in and fuk anyway.
02-06-2018, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
Does not have to be like that, It's whatever you make it out to be.I imagine alot of 10+ year marriages with kids are like that scene from Knocked Up.
Most men / women just get fat etc when married and the other half loses interest because of that.
Or maybe they are just terrible in bed which also will result in no sex anymore.
It's how you make it out to be, this "sex dies when married" etc is just pure cope & bs.
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
his mistake is that he's too goddamn passive....women want to feel like they're still a prize worth being seduced/hunted. He should have walked up to her and started being physically affectionate, not just standing in the corner being uninteresting about the approach.Longest LTR I've been in was just under 2 years srs. Definitely gets less frequent but nothing to what some marriages sound like.
I imagine alot of 10+ year marriages with kids are like that scene from Knocked Up.
I imagine alot of 10+ year marriages with kids are like that scene from Knocked Up.
I'm as attracted to my wife as the day we met, and I sure as chit act like it. If this was us, I'm slapping that ass and grabbing some teddies, not standing across the room hoping for things to happen.
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the biggest issue with all these cucks is that they usually don't even try to communicate, and if they do they wont even stand up for their needs.
literally blows my mind seeing people stay in relationships that make them so unhappy.. only reason I could see for this would be if you genuinely think you couldn't get another person, and if that's the case, you got way bigger fukkin problems than a lack of sex
literally blows my mind seeing people stay in relationships that make them so unhappy.. only reason I could see for this would be if you genuinely think you couldn't get another person, and if that's the case, you got way bigger fukkin problems than a lack of sex
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot⏩
ur entire crew is probably lil biches.Alot of cope in here, every married friend i have in real life complains that they have to beg to get sex and even then its rare. But of course miscers are always the exception and not the rule jus like everything else in life lmao.
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Been married for 3 years now... I get it in 4-5x a week... I am still 100% attracted to my wife... the only thing that stops us at this point is a 4 month old son , which just leaves you exhausted by the time he falls asleep. But there are some weekends sex might happen 2 or 3 times a day... its a give and take I guess. I could easily see us going 7 for 7 if we actually tried...
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02-06-2018, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Andresthetic1⏩
Does not have to be like that, It's whatever you make it out to be.
Most men / women just get fat etc when married and the other half loses interest because of that.
Or maybe they are just terrible in bed which also will result in no sex anymore.
It's how you make it out to be, this "sex dies when married" etc is just pure cope & bs.
key is to LEARN TO COMMUNICATE
Most men / women just get fat etc when married and the other half loses interest because of that.
Or maybe they are just terrible in bed which also will result in no sex anymore.
It's how you make it out to be, this "sex dies when married" etc is just pure cope & bs.
key is to LEARN TO COMMUNICATE
Originally Posted By cjmadscientist⏩
I feel you bros. I know in the movie, that couple was the stereotypical passionless marriage where they bicker and are mainly together for the kids.his mistake is that he's too goddamn passive....women want to feel like they're still a prize worth being seduced/hunted. He should have walked up to her and started being physically affectionate, not just standing in the corner being uninteresting about the approach.
I'm as attracted to my wife as the day we met, and I sure as chit act like it. If this was us, I'm slapping that ass and grabbing some teddies, not standing across the room hoping for things to happen.
I'm as attracted to my wife as the day we met, and I sure as chit act like it. If this was us, I'm slapping that ass and grabbing some teddies, not standing across the room hoping for things to happen.
If I ever get married I'd like to think I wouldn't turn into that.
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Amateurs. lol
Married for 20 years.
Two young kids.
We make an EFFORT to do it once a week.
She'll get me off another day during the week if I want. Probably more if I pushed but it ain't worth even the slightest push. Pick your battles. You'll learn. lol
Getting up at 5am, both of us working full time, taking care of the kiddos, only having about an hour and a half to ourselves in the evening before having to hit the sack... doesn't leave much time or put you in the mood. Especially when you want to catch up on your Netflix. lol
That's fine though because we are both happy with the way things are.
If you're not, you have a problem.
It's just getting hard (no pun intended) to find the time on the weekends to sneak away now that the kids are more aware.
Married for 20 years.
Two young kids.
We make an EFFORT to do it once a week.
She'll get me off another day during the week if I want. Probably more if I pushed but it ain't worth even the slightest push. Pick your battles. You'll learn. lol
Getting up at 5am, both of us working full time, taking care of the kiddos, only having about an hour and a half to ourselves in the evening before having to hit the sack... doesn't leave much time or put you in the mood. Especially when you want to catch up on your Netflix. lol
That's fine though because we are both happy with the way things are.
If you're not, you have a problem.
It's just getting hard (no pun intended) to find the time on the weekends to sneak away now that the kids are more aware.
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What a nightmare, i'll only marry someone if i know the sex is gonna be off the chain for at least the next 30 years. Once I'm 55+ I won't care as much im sure, but i'll probably be on therapy so who knows
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Originally Posted By d2mini⏩
my friend has this problem, him and his wife live with her parents in a full hardwood floor house with a creaky bed and 2 toddlers. lol rip. He complains about it to us.It's just getting hard (no pun intended) to find the time on the weekends to sneak away now that the kids are more aware.
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02-06-2018, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
LOL, yeah that's a rough spot to be in. Damn.my friend has this problem, him and his wife live with her parents in a full hardwood floor house with a creaky bed and 2 toddlers. lol rip. He complains about it to us.
We just need to get creative. Like this weekend.... "Kids, daddy's going to take a shower". 1 min later mom walks in and locks the door. lol
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Originally Posted By Andresthetic1⏩
On spread.Does not have to be like that, It's whatever you make it out to be.
Most men / women just get fat etc when married and the other half loses interest because of that.
Or maybe they are just terrible in bed which also will result in no sex anymore.
It's how you make it out to be, this "sex dies when married" etc is just pure cope & bs.
key is to LEARN TO COMMUNICATE
Most men / women just get fat etc when married and the other half loses interest because of that.
Or maybe they are just terrible in bed which also will result in no sex anymore.
It's how you make it out to be, this "sex dies when married" etc is just pure cope & bs.
key is to LEARN TO COMMUNICATE
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