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post 1547994551 04-01-2018, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
So you're telling me my parents should have had children? The people who dragged me by my hair over the floor ate age 10 because I didn't want to go to the car. The people who made me wear the same clothes throughout high school. The people who were drunk every night on the couch... Some, and by some I mean A LOT of people should definitely NOT have kids. But unfortunately, it is the default.
"how all life keeps moving forward". That's just a great ideology you have there, but the human race should not "keep moving forward" the way we are currently. The world is already pretty overpopulated, and it's only going to get worse.

I know all this is beside the point here and I should not let that influence my decision on whether to have kids or not. But I definitely don't agree that having children should be the default. That's just dumb roastie talk.
Don't be mad op, most of the negative replies are from miscers who are mad you have a girlfriend and they are forever alone on the misc.

The misc isn't the best place to get advice.
post 1547994731 04-01-2018, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
Yeah because at 27 years old, her eggs are already dried up. You're dumb, gtfo back to kitchen where you belong. Stupid ass enforcer of stereotypes.

Wanting kids is the default because PEOPLE ARE SHEEP. They don't know any better and just do whatever the fuk everyone else is doing. Wanting kids should NOT be the default. One reason is because a large part of parents should not be parents. But it's the way the world works, unfortunately.
Now I am 100% sure she is too good for you. I hope she dumps you and finds a grown man to date and not a whiny, petulant child. Then when she is getting plowed proper by her new husband and you are fapping and playing video games, you may get it.
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post 1547994811 04-01-2018, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
So you're telling me my parents should have had children? The people who dragged me by my hair over the floor ate age 10 because I didn't want to go to the car. The people who made me wear the same clothes throughout high school. The people who were drunk every night on the couch... Some, and by some I mean A LOT of people should definitely NOT have kids. But unfortunately, it is the default.
"how all life keeps moving forward". That's just a great ideology you have there, but the human race should not "keep moving forward" the way we are currently. The world is already pretty overpopulated, and it's only going to get worse.

I know all this is beside the point here and I should not let that influence my decision on whether to have kids or not. But I definitely don't agree that having children should be the default. That's just dumb roastie talk.
So what's the point of harboring all that pain now? It's doing nothing but hindering you from living your own life. Everyone has problems. You think you are the only person who had an unhappy childhood?

I hate to break it to you but most people were unhappy growing up and experienced worse trauma. But life moves on, whether or not you do. Sounds like you will lose your gf soon enough anyway so this problem of yours will only be temporary.
post 1547994901 04-01-2018, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
So you're telling me my parents should have had children? The people who dragged me by my hair over the floor ate age 10 because I didn't want to go to the car. The people who made me wear the same clothes throughout high school. The people who were drunk every night on the couch... Some, and by some I mean A LOT of people should definitely NOT have kids. But unfortunately, it is the default.
"how all life keeps moving forward". That's just a great ideology you have there, but the human race should not "keep moving forward" the way we are currently. The world is already pretty overpopulated, and it's only going to get worse.

I know all this is beside the point here and I should not let that influence my decision on whether to have kids or not. But I definitely don't agree that having children should be the default. That's just dumb roastie talk.
So you'd rather just not exist?

We all have problems. Be a man and get over it FFS.
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post 1547995141 04-01-2018, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By likeawashboard⏩
After 29 the chances of birth defects rise exponentially year after year for women, and likewise fertility drops exponentially. It takes time to get to know someone well enough to know you want kids with them, so if it takes her another 3 years she'll be cutting it short if she plans on having multiple kids.
Multiple resources say 32. And nowadays there's like a gazillion ways to get your own kids. IVF, adoption,...
Originally Posted By likeawashboard⏩
Wanting kids doesn't make you a sheep. Humans are programmed to procreate and women are especially sensitive to this fact.
You basically gave the definition of a sheep right there. Women let hormones decide over rational thought. Some people have the capacity to rise above those hormones, but not everyone is gifted with the ability to think rationally about their choices.
Originally Posted By likeawashboard⏩
It's a natural part of life for many people who appreciate family and a core unit of people who will look out for each other, especially as one gets older.
Wrong. Walk into a nursing home and ask the people there if they see their kids often. Having kids is not a guarantee of being taken care of later. For all you know, your kids will move to the other side of the world when you're old. Or they don't want to see you anymore. Or they just don't have time to wipe your ass since they're wiping their own kids asses. No guarantee and not an argument to have kids, at all.
post 1547995271 04-01-2018, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
Wrong. Walk into a nursing home and ask the people there if they see their kids often. Having kids is not a guarantee of being taken care of later. For all you know, your kids will move to the other side of the world when you're old. Or they don't want to see you anymore. Or they just don't have time to wipe your ass since they're wiping their own kids asses. No guarantee and not an argument to have kids, at all.
Just because you hate your parents doesnt mean everyone does.
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post 1547995341 04-01-2018, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
So you're telling me my parents should have had children? The people who dragged me by my hair over the floor ate age 10 because I didn't want to go to the car. The people who made me wear the same clothes throughout high school. The people who were drunk every night on the couch... Some, and by some I mean A LOT of people should definitely NOT have kids. But unfortunately, it is the default.
"how all life keeps moving forward". That's just a great ideology you have there, but the human race should not "keep moving forward" the way we are currently. The world is already pretty overpopulated, and it's only going to get worse.

I know all this is beside the point here and I should not let that influence my decision on whether to have kids or not. But I definitely don't agree that having children should be the default. That's just dumb roastie talk.
You sound like a real catch--if you let your gf go, I'm sure that you won't die alone and be discovered in the basement covered in cheeto powder.

I had an abusive childhood but I don't whine like a goddamn bitch and let it handicap me for life and I'm seven years younger than you. Grow the **** up twinkle toes.
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post 1547995511 04-01-2018, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted By yochrisss⏩
Just because you hate your parents doesnt mean everyone does.
Well that's the American culture. Parents kicking out their kids when they turn 18 and kids abandoning their parents in nursing homes later on.

Yet families from South America, Asia, Eastern Europe live together and support each other financially. I think our culture devalues the family structure and it has become perverse in recent years.

Just look at how spiteful and self centered OP is.
post 1547995561 04-01-2018, 05:45 PM
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post 1547995631 04-01-2018, 05:46 PM
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Don't give a chit about your past. You are a lazy, poor excuse of a man. Leave and let her find someone who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated and stop wasting her damn time.
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post 1547995801 04-01-2018, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By jesteraq⏩
Don't give a chit about your past. You are a lazy, poor excuse of a man. Leave and let her find someone who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated.
I don't know why misc has so many 30+ year olds who still act and think like a kid. I realize some people mature mentally at different ages but people like OP appear to have stopped at age 13.

Just wants to play video games, ignores his gf and doesn't even clean up after himself. I think it is a good thing he doesn't want kids, because he will make a chitty parent.
post 1547995901 04-01-2018, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Now I am 100% sure she is too good for you. I hope she dumps you and finds a grown man to date and not a whiny, petulant child. Then when she is getting plowed proper by her new husband and you are fapping and playing video games, you may get it.
I think it's you who needs to do some growing up. Just because one does not have children does not mean his/her life consists of fapping/playing video games. If you think that's the case, you need to stop being a dumb roastie who doesn't know any better than to parrot stereotypes she saw in Disney movies.
post 1547996051 04-01-2018, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
I think it's you who needs to do some growing up. Just because one does not have children does not mean his/her life consists of fapping/playing video games. If you think that's the case, you need to stop being a dumb roastie who doesn't know any better than to parrot stereotypes she saw in Disney movies.
Christ I hope this woman runs like the wind. You are a ****ing loser.

Roastie. ****ing LMFAO.
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post 1547996081 04-01-2018, 05:52 PM
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What do you do for work?

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post 1547996331 04-01-2018, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
Multiple resources say 32. And nowadays there's like a gazillion ways to get your own kids. IVF, adoption,...

Most people want their own children. IVF can increase the chances of twins/triplets because of multiple embryos being transferred. My cousin literally had triplets because of this.

You basically gave the definition of a sheep right there. Women let hormones decide over rational thought. Some people have the capacity to rise above those hormones, but not everyone is gifted with the ability to think rationally about their choices.

Following your own body's desires doesn't make you a sheep. Doing something ONLY BECAUSE other people do it would make you a sheep.


Wrong. Walk into a nursing home and ask the people there if they see their kids often. Having kids is not a guarantee of being taken care of later. For all you know, your kids will move to the other side of the world when you're old. Or they don't want to see you anymore. Or they just don't have time to wipe your ass since they're wiping their own kids asses. No guarantee and not an argument to have kids, at all.
There are a lot of chitty people out there I'll give you that. So maybe you're right, you should break up with her to save her and your child the hassle of being a chitty father and creating another degenerate.
post 1547996761 04-01-2018, 06:00 PM
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Yep brah sounds like you need to stop dinking around with this one. Chit or get off the pot.
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post 1547997061 04-01-2018, 06:05 PM
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Good news OP: everyone agrees that you should never have children

Bad news OP: you're a hateful, lazy, selfish, pathetic man-child

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post 1547997271 04-01-2018, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Psychotropic⏩
Good news OP: everyone agrees that you should never have children

Bad news OP: you're a hateful, lazy, selfish, pathetic man-child

choo choo
This. Gets called out and turns into a woman hating racist twat.

Even the misc thinks he's a kunt...fukkin lmfao.
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post 1547997291 04-01-2018, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted By likeawashboard⏩
Lol you are so mad. You're getting mad at people calling you out for being lazy piece of chit when you literally said in the OP how much of a lazy fuk you are. And now this, what an utter kunt.
No, I'm getting mad at *******s and 1 roastie telling me i'm a kid for not wanting kids. People are judging me while they don't know chit about me. For all you know they are sitting in baby chit paying off their humongous student loans in a tiny apartment while i'm typing this from a 2000$ Dell XPS 15 sitting on my leather couch in MY 3200 square foot house with a paid off car outside. Who would have the better life in that case?
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Originally Posted By BeigeJumang⏩
breaking news: numale manchild doesn't want to sacrifice videogame time to raise a child, more on the collapse of western civilization at 10
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
No, I'm getting mad at *******s and 1 roastie telling me i'm a kid for not wanting kids. People are judging me while they don't know chit about me. For all you know they are sitting in baby chit paying off their humongous student loans in a tiny apartment while i'm typing this from a 2000$ Dell XPS 15 sitting on my leather couch in MY 3200 square foot house with a paid off car outside. Who would have the better life in that case?
We know things about you because you have told us things about you. Just because you can't see it Sir Victimhood, it doesn't mean the rest of us can't see that you are whiny, childish, selfish kunt.

****ing LMFAO at your try hard bragging.
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
No, I'm getting mad at *******s and 1 roastie telling me i'm a kid for not wanting kids. People are judging me while they don't know chit about me. For all you know they are sitting in baby chit paying off their humongous student loans in a tiny apartment while i'm typing this from a 2000$ Dell XPS 15 sitting on my leather couch in MY 3200 square foot house with a paid off car outside. Who would have the better life in that case?
They're calling you a kid because you play video games, don't clean up after yourself and are selfish. All your own words. You prioritise your own short term wants over your partnership with your gf and any sort of responsibility for anyone other than yourself. That's fine OP, you have every right to live your life that way, and if you don't want kids then don't; nothing wrong with that. Your money focus is commendable. But do your gf a favour and end it as she obviously values relationships and people more than you do.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
We know things about you because you have told us things about you. Just because you can't see it Sir Victimhood, it doesn't mean the rest of us can't see that you are whiny, childish, selfish kunt.

****ing LMFAO at your try hard bragging.
You sound like a nightmare of a woman. I pity the man who will spill his semen inside of you, making him your alimony slave for the next 20 years (because obviously, this man was only out to get his nutsack emptied, not spend his life with an abomination like you)
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****giest OP in a long time. Go to 4chan if you wanna post like a miserable edgelord.
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Originally Posted By darkeminence⏩
You sound like a nightmare of a woman. I pity the man who will spill his semen inside of you, making him your alimony slave for the next 20 years (because obviously, this man was only out to get his nutsack emptied, not spend his life with an abomination like you)
I'll be sure to to clear some time in my schedule to give a **** what you think, you stupid little boy.

Strong misuse of the world alimony also. Most retarded OP in recent memory. Just lmfao.
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30 years old and is lazy about household chores...no wonder you don't want a kid. There seems to be issues you could both work on.

Edit: "basically gave the definition of a sheep right there. Women let hormones decide over rational thought. Some people have the capacity to rise above those hormones, but not everyone is gifted with the ability to think rationally about their choices."

One of the biggest mistakes of modern man is thinking you can rationalize yourself out of basic human instinct. OP is retarded.
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Originally Posted By BeigeJumang⏩
breaking news: numale manchild doesn't want to sacrifice videogame time to raise a child, more on the collapse of western civilization at 10
Lmao I was like lmao

Mind blown that so many miscers are single when the competition is people like op
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Go get a vasectomy and dont tell her about it.

You can probably keep her around another 3-4 years by pretending you agree to have a child but not letting her know you are now firing blanks.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
You sound like a real catch--if you let your gf go, I'm sure that you won't die alone and be discovered in the basement covered in cheeto powder.

I had an abusive childhood but I don't whine like a goddamn bitch and let it handicap me for life and I'm seven years younger than you. Grow the **** up twinkle toes.
Originally Posted By doughnutking⏩
Don't be mad op, most of the negative replies are from miscers who are mad you have a girlfriend and they are forever alone on the misc.

The misc isn't the best place to get advice.
You trolling or what?
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
You both never talked about this chit in all these 3 years? I think you've been leading her on and wasting her (and your) time


Here.

My girlfriend brought it up within 3-4 months. I never wanted kids until recently, might be nice to have someone give a fuk about you when you’re old.

Give up the fuking video games, I’d rather my kid do drugs than get addicted to video games. Srs.
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