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post 1566157911 11-13-2018, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
absolutely hilarious..
apparently having 1000 matches a week is hard.

I have a six pack,nice eyes and am a good guy and I get zero matches lately. Even fat pigs think they are too good for me.
youre just picky beyond belief if you are a woman and have trouble on online dating
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Online dating is hard for ugly people

Thats about it




post 1566158021 11-13-2018, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Wtf? How?
bruh you a retard or something?
look at silecespeaks for example, she thinks she deserves a chad. you think a chad will date her? if he does he will lose interest in a couple days maybe even hours.

she on the other hand would have caught feels and blow up his phone
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post 1566158651 11-13-2018, 06:02 PM
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post 1566159221 11-13-2018, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Well most women want a relationship, not just sex. As a woman you can have sex with pretty much anyone you want, but finding someone good for a relationship is really hard.
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post 1566160241 11-13-2018, 06:21 PM
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Its prob equal as hard for women and men
Its all relative you see, women can get dates easy enough but they're hardwired for hypergamy and looking for more than sex, so its actually slim pickings for them too in its own way
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Well most women want a relationship, not just sex. As a woman you can have sex with pretty much anyone you want, but finding someone good for a relationship is really hard.
Exactly
post 1566161011 11-13-2018, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Jessejame5
Its prob equal as hard for women and men
Its all relative you see,women can get dates easy enough but they're hardwired for hypergamyand looking for more than sex, so its actually slim pickings for them too in its own way








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post 1566161401 11-13-2018, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Well most women want a relationship, not just sex. As a woman you can have sex with pretty much anyone you want, but finding someone good for a relationship is really hard.
So you can't find any guys "worthy" of a relationship out of 1000 matches/day? You think they're the problem?
post 1566161901 11-13-2018, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Jessejame5
Its prob equal as hard for women and men
Its all relative you see, women can get dates easy enough but they're hardwired for hypergamy and looking for more than sex, so its actually slim pickings for them too in its own way


Exactly
Same can be said for most men tbh. Don't know too many dudes who don't want a relationship with a girl that is hot af and they can relate to tbh.
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post 1566161911 11-13-2018, 06:42 PM
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Tinder is such a wastepool

The same girls swiping left on you will give you IOIs in real life
post 1566162361 11-13-2018, 06:46 PM
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I just tried online dating again after I gave up on it a few years ago and now I remember why I did. I had one girl I thought was attractive message me back and we went back and forth for a day then she deleted her profile out of no where. All the other girls either don't read my messages or don't message me back. And then I'm getting a **** load of messages from fake profiles trying to get me to sign up on other sites. **** is so frustrating I feel like throwing my phone against the wall.
post 1566163051 11-13-2018, 06:53 PM
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it's almost as if "dating" as commodity was a bad idea to start with
post 1566163441 11-13-2018, 06:56 PM
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post 1566163701 11-13-2018, 06:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Oh yeah of course I can. The point is that it’s hard to find someone with mutual attraction AND mutual interest in a relationship.
So you're only attracted to the top 20% alphas but they just want sex?
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Once heard a girl say "It's not that hard. Just message a girl 'Want to go out for coffee or lunch some time?'. I did so and it worked."

The girl ended up going on many dates and is now in a relationship just like that. She's prob a 6 max.
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post 1566164721 11-13-2018, 07:14 PM
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I worked at Eharmony for 2 years.

What would usually happen is they would get messaged by manlets and ugly bald guys. srs. They would call me to complain about it.

Funny that I could see all their matches and their profiles and such and every once in a while they were hot but usually they were matched with equal type people.

I would have to talk them off the ledge, I got hit on all the time by the callers.
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post 1566165031 11-13-2018, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted By crupiea
I worked at Eharmony for 2 years.

What would usually happen is they would get messaged by manlets and ugly bald guys. srs. They would call me to complain about it.

Funny that I could see all their matches and their profiles and such and every once in a while they were hot but usually they were matched with equal type people.

I would have to talk them off the ledge, I got hit on all the time by the callers.
They actually called up and complained? LMAO.

Just kill yourself if you're an ugly male in 2018 hahahaha...
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Do you mean she asked guys out herself? Like guys from her social circle or where did she meet them? Because if you’re in a social circle with many single attractive people it’s much easier of course.
Nope. Off online dating.
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Depends what they're looking for. Somebody to fill their hole? Easy. Somebody worth dating, who is actually looking for a relationship? Eh...probably about equal.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Idk where misc gets that 20% number from. Do you really think that women are attracted to 1 out of every 5 random men in public??

For me it’s probably closer to 1 out of 100 if you are talking just the general public of all ages walking through a busy street or something. And it’s NOT necessarily the best looking guys objectively, but the guys that are my type.

And on tinder I swipe on the guys that have my type of look, not the top percentage or the best looking guys or male models. I’m sure I’ve swiped left on plenty of 9/10 guys that misc would find very attractive, because they’re just not my type. And I swipe right on some guys that misc would probably just find average or fat because they have the type of look that I like.
Then why do all the females go after the same guy?

Haha nice try sweatheart.
post 1566165271 11-13-2018, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By wagtail
Honestly, it depends on what you mean by "harder". Dating in general is hard.

Yeah, it might beharderfor a guy to get a match. Ok.

But for girls, just because they get 100 matches doesn't mean they get to fall in love 100 times.
Who’s going to have an easier time? Someone who has to sort through hundreds of matches or someone who doesn’t get matches?
It’s not even a debate who has it harder.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Idk where misc gets that 20% number from. Do you really think that women are attracted to 1 out of every 5 random men in public??

For me it’s probably closer to 1 out of 100 if you are talking just the general public of all ages walking through a busy street or something. And it’s NOT necessarily the best looking guys objectively, but the guys that are my type.

And on tinder I swipe on the guys that have my type of look, not the top percentage or the best looking guys or male models. I’m sure I’ve swiped left on plenty of 9/10 guys that misc would find very attractive, because they’re just not my type. And I swipe right on some guys that misc would probably just find average or fat because they have the type of look that I like.
So you want a particular 1/100 dude bro? Can you imagine how difficult that would be for your male equivalent who gets maybe 1-2 matches/month? How do women have so much cognitive dissonance? What is there to lose by acknowledging the gigantic advantage you have in the relationship market?
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Men and women deal with different problems in dating.

The fact that women are hyper selective in nature makes it "hard" for them. Plus giving themselves up for a guy and they don't want anything serious.

I think many women would off themselves dealing with the sheer level of playing the numbers the average man has to play tho lol.
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The keywords: ONLINE DATING
When it comes to ONLINE dating, to anyone with a brain women have it easier.

Anyone who disagrees is absolutely delusional or being purposely dishonest.
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Originally Posted By BroImNigerian
The keywords: ONLINE DATING
When it comes to ONLINE dating, to anyone with a brain women have it easier.

Anyone who disagrees is absolutely delusional or being purposely dishonest.
But their fingers get tired from swiping!
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dating is easy for me. have you guys tried being bald?
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
dating is easy for me. have you guys tried being bald?
What's your secret? No insult, you seem to be punching above your weight on the regular. Bald and not particularly jacked brahs are supposed to be incel.
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Originally Posted By BroImNigerian
The keywords: ONLINE DATING
When it comes to ONLINE dating, to anyone with a brain women have it easier.

Anyone who disagrees is absolutely delusional or being purposely dishonest.
No ones saying women dont have it easier. What we are saying is if as a guy you cant get laid youre ugly or not trying hard enough. Gyms and plastic surgery are huge industries for the physical. Self help books are also a huge industry to get you past the difficulty in approaching, knowing what to say etc.

The truth is what you say barely matters. She will decide in the first ten seconds

I might fuk this dude
I wouldnt fuk this dude
Ill probably fuk this dude

Thats why i do ten approaches a night. Thats ten times a woman makes this decision about me.
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