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02-10-2020, 07:46 PM
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Don't have kids yet. My family keeps pressing me that I have to get kids since I am not that young anymore lulz
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
stfu sloot if you read her posts you'd know her main dilemma is that she's scared she'll get pregnant then her husband will die from cancer and she'll be a single mom and you know very well that IUDs are pretty much 100% effective so first off stop looking to be a bish without reading a thread and also stop coping slootWhat are you even talking about? First, that's not what anyone is talking about, second, why do doctors have to remove IUDs from pregnant people then? Even tubes tied is not 100%
02-10-2020, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By SkinnyKappa⏩
Your reading comprehension sucks. She's not worried that she'll get pregnant on the iud. She's worried about the what ifs if they choose to get pregnant intentionallystfu sloot if you read her posts you'd know her main dilemma is that she's scared she'll get pregnant then her husband will die from cancer and she'll be a single mom and you know very well that IUDs are pretty much 100% effective so first off stop looking to be a bish without reading a thread and also stop coping sloot
02-10-2020, 07:49 PM
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02-10-2020, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By BeerStein⏩
idk bout that some days it’s like a chicken with its head cut off, three different sports practices, the 16 can’t drive yet, lunches, laundry, grocery shopping, kiddos homework, dinner, briefs for work to review for trial the next day, then aa and sponsees (4 years sober) some times I just lock myself in the gym or run outside and cope lol 😂I'm still chasing down dinner. Y'all must have your isht together way more than I do.
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02-10-2020, 08:08 PM
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We knew it was time to have a kid when my wife's boyfriend got tired of using condoms and threatened to leave if we didnt let him raw dog.
02-10-2020, 08:13 PM
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I was just told people are pregnant and figured, cool.
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02-10-2020, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
It really is good to get that gym time in though, huh? I love being able to do that for myself. It's a great skill to teach kids.idk bout that some days it’s like a chicken with its head cut off, three different sports practices, the 16 can’t drive yet, lunches, laundry, grocery shopping, kiddos homework, dinner, briefs for work to review for trial the next day, then aa and sponsees (4 years sober) some times I just lock myself in the gym or run outside and cope lol
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OP dont tie your tubes, you never know if you might change your mind. Having a baby was the best decision of our life. Here we are with our little bundle of joy:
02-10-2020, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Forgot about that. How far along now?I was just told people are pregnant and figured, cool.
02-10-2020, 08:28 PM
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When you are with the right person you'll know. IMO if you don't quite feel ready yet just skip the bc and play the pullout game and if it happens it happens, if not then you can intentionally have one later.
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02-10-2020, 08:29 PM
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02-10-2020, 08:41 PM
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I do want something that is truly my own and I can love unconditionally and will be loved in the same way back. I am still very close to my mum and dad - went for a swim and sauna with the old man yesterday and gossiped the only way old men can. My sister's youngest son is my spitting image - uncanny, people saying to her - it made me want one. Money doesn't matter; my family have been both dirt poor and lower middle class (economically, not ethnically) and I was happier when we were poor. No cope.
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Don't make yourself barren.
I'm lucky men stay fertile though; been single since my last relationship fell apart a couple of years back.
Don't make yourself barren.
02-10-2020, 08:41 PM
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I recommend you take more time to consider what you would like to do. You don't have to make a final decision at this time, so getting another IUD now will give you the time you need to figure things out.
02-10-2020, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Like, waddles when she walks far along.Forgot about that. How far along now?
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More than oneHow many people u knocked up?
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02-10-2020, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
OP dont tie your tubes, you never know if you might change your mind. Having a baby was the best decision of our life. Here we are with our little bundle of joy:
02-10-2020, 10:20 PM
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I’ve moved from the no kids crew to the maybe someday crew
The wife wants kids. Came home Friday like I want a baby
Had to shut that down real quick. I’ll be 30 in June and she’s only 23 so there’s time
Idk though
Having a sloot daughter would suck. Woulddisown/10
Having a son could be ok but he’d be a manlet for sure. Don’t wanna put someone through that
Only other cousin with the same last name had a girl and all we have are sisters so I’m the last chance for this line
Too many people already though right?
Lol idfk
Moral of the story is it’s your life. Fukk what anyone else says or thinks. You’d be saddled with that commitment 18 years minimum, likely much longer these days
Either way what’s meant to be will be.
The wife wants kids. Came home Friday like I want a baby
Had to shut that down real quick. I’ll be 30 in June and she’s only 23 so there’s time
Idk though
Having a sloot daughter would suck. Woulddisown/10
Having a son could be ok but he’d be a manlet for sure. Don’t wanna put someone through that
Only other cousin with the same last name had a girl and all we have are sisters so I’m the last chance for this line
Too many people already though right?
Lol idfk
Moral of the story is it’s your life. Fukk what anyone else says or thinks. You’d be saddled with that commitment 18 years minimum, likely much longer these days
Either way what’s meant to be will be.
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02-10-2020, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
Yeah but you went bald.I was 29 and she was 30 when we married and always wanted to have our children. Tried but no success during the first year. My wife was worried about getting too old for having a baby if she couldn't have in next few years. And voila! She got pregnant!
I thought we are ready, but when it actually happened I kinda panicked. Suddenly realized.....I wasn't ready yet. The next 10 months was the most emotionally conflicted period in my life. I didn't think I could become a good father because I was.........just simply not father material.
Then finally the day arrived and saw our little angel in her mother's arms.......my heart melted instantly.
It's a baby girl. In those days, we didn't have a way to know whether it was a boy or girl. Somehow I strongly believed it would be a boy so I only prepared a name for a boy. My wife asked, "well, so what is her name DADDY?"
A name came up with, "Akari". It means "Light" in Japanese. Since then I've been a father of the most beautiful girl in the world.
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The photos below were of Shichi-Go-San (lit. "Seven-Five-Three"), that is a traditional rite of passage and festival day here in Japan for three- and seven-year-old girls and five-year-old boys.
Me (31), my wife(32) and our daughterAkari(3)*
*meaning "brilliance" in Japanese. I named her after Aglaea, the youngest of the Charites, one of the three daughters of Zeus in the Greek Myth.
Our daughter when she was 7.
*Sorry about the quality of these photos. Those days, we don't have digital cameras, so there's no digital data. I took pictures of old non-digital photos.
I thought we are ready, but when it actually happened I kinda panicked. Suddenly realized.....I wasn't ready yet. The next 10 months was the most emotionally conflicted period in my life. I didn't think I could become a good father because I was.........just simply not father material.
Then finally the day arrived and saw our little angel in her mother's arms.......my heart melted instantly.
It's a baby girl. In those days, we didn't have a way to know whether it was a boy or girl. Somehow I strongly believed it would be a boy so I only prepared a name for a boy. My wife asked, "well, so what is her name DADDY?"
A name came up with, "Akari". It means "Light" in Japanese. Since then I've been a father of the most beautiful girl in the world.
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The photos below were of Shichi-Go-San (lit. "Seven-Five-Three"), that is a traditional rite of passage and festival day here in Japan for three- and seven-year-old girls and five-year-old boys.
Me (31), my wife(32) and our daughterAkari(3)*
*meaning "brilliance" in Japanese. I named her after Aglaea, the youngest of the Charites, one of the three daughters of Zeus in the Greek Myth.
Our daughter when she was 7.
*Sorry about the quality of these photos. Those days, we don't have digital cameras, so there's no digital data. I took pictures of old non-digital photos.
02-10-2020, 10:31 PM
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02-10-2020, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Suit3⏩
why is it all whiteIn on all white thread.
Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
awe well that gives me hope and I totally understand that feeling. The only thing I do know if I decide to have a child, my body would be the child’s and keeping it healthy and nourished would be the most important thing and once the child was born my life’s goal is to raise it the best that I can, living for her or him. Although girls scare me more than boys.I was 29 and she was 30 when we married and always wanted to have our children. Tried but no success during the first year. My wife was worried about getting too old for having a baby if she couldn't have in next few years. And voila! She got pregnant!
I thought we are ready, but when it actually happened I kinda panicked. Suddenly realized.....I wasn't ready yet. The next 10 months was the most emotionally conflicted period in my life. I didn't think I could become a good father because I was.........just simply not father material.
Then finally the day arrived and saw our little angel in her mother's arms.......my heart melted instantly.
It's a baby girl. In those days, we didn't have a way to know whether it was a boy or girl. Somehow I strongly believed it would be a boy so I only prepared a name for a boy. My wife asked, "well, so what is her name DADDY?"
A name came up with, "Akari". It means "Light" in Japanese. Since then I've been a father of the most beautiful girl in the world.
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The photos below were of Shichi-Go-San (lit. "Seven-Five-Three"), that is a traditional rite of passage and festival day here in Japan for three- and seven-year-old girls and five-year-old boys.
Me (31), my wife(32) and our daughterAkari(3)*
*meaning "brilliance" in Japanese. I named her after Aglaea, the youngest of the Charites, one of the three daughters of Zeus in the Greek Myth.
Our daughter when she was 7.
*Sorry about the quality of these photos. Those days, we don't have digital cameras, so there's no digital data. I took pictures of old non-digital photos.
I thought we are ready, but when it actually happened I kinda panicked. Suddenly realized.....I wasn't ready yet. The next 10 months was the most emotionally conflicted period in my life. I didn't think I could become a good father because I was.........just simply not father material.
Then finally the day arrived and saw our little angel in her mother's arms.......my heart melted instantly.
It's a baby girl. In those days, we didn't have a way to know whether it was a boy or girl. Somehow I strongly believed it would be a boy so I only prepared a name for a boy. My wife asked, "well, so what is her name DADDY?"
A name came up with, "Akari". It means "Light" in Japanese. Since then I've been a father of the most beautiful girl in the world.
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The photos below were of Shichi-Go-San (lit. "Seven-Five-Three"), that is a traditional rite of passage and festival day here in Japan for three- and seven-year-old girls and five-year-old boys.
Me (31), my wife(32) and our daughterAkari(3)*
*meaning "brilliance" in Japanese. I named her after Aglaea, the youngest of the Charites, one of the three daughters of Zeus in the Greek Myth.
Our daughter when she was 7.
*Sorry about the quality of these photos. Those days, we don't have digital cameras, so there's no digital data. I took pictures of old non-digital photos.
Your daughters are beautiful, and the pictures are lovely. <3
Originally Posted By MilkforBrains⏩
i mean financially we would be ok, I just worry about the cost of collegeI do want something that is truly my own and I can love unconditionally and will be loved in the same way back. I am still very close to my mum and dad - went for a swim and sauna with the old man yesterday and gossiped the only way old men can. My sister's youngest son is my spitting image - uncanny, people saying to her - it made me want one. Money doesn't matter; my family have been both dirt poor and lower middle class (economically, not ethnically) and I was happier when we were poor. No cope.
I'm lucky men stay fertile though; been single since my last relationship fell apart a couple of years back.
Don't make yourself barren.
I'm lucky men stay fertile though; been single since my last relationship fell apart a couple of years back.
Don't make yourself barren.
Originally Posted By Peacening⏩
ive never used the pull out method, my husband would probably go for that idea, my best friend did that, now she has 2 kids and after her last birth got her tubes tiedWhen you are with the right person you'll know. IMO if you don't quite feel ready yet just skip the bc and play the pullout game and if it happens it happens, if not then you can intentionally have one later.
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Originally Posted By BeerStein⏩
ya his kids have zero interest in lifting, but love soccer, hiking/swimming/camping/dirt biking so they are activeIt really is good to get that gym time in though, huh? I love being able to do that for myself. It's a great skill to teach kids.
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Would have to be financially ready and be with a girl for YEARS who had never betrayed me or shown she was disloyal.
Btw, how is it having an iud for a woman? if I was in a relationship with a girl.. I would never want to use a condom..
I got with a girl before and she took the pill after and she said it makes her sick. I dont think its fair to make a girl go through that but unwanted babies are worse.
Btw, how is it having an iud for a woman? if I was in a relationship with a girl.. I would never want to use a condom..
I got with a girl before and she took the pill after and she said it makes her sick. I dont think its fair to make a girl go through that but unwanted babies are worse.
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02-11-2020, 12:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
I have paragard. It’s non hormonal and doesn’t make you sick. The first year or so cramps and periods were worse but not bad and your sore a couple days after getting. It lasts 10-12 years for the one have which is copper, they are 99.3% effective and the iud was invented in 1902.Would have to be financially ready and be with a girl for YEARS who had never betrayed me or shown she was disloyal.
Btw, how is it having an iud for a woman? if I was in a relationship with a girl.. I would never want to use a condom..
I got with a girl before and she took the pill after and she said it makes her sick. I dont think its fair to make a girl go through that but unwanted babies are worse.
Btw, how is it having an iud for a woman? if I was in a relationship with a girl.. I would never want to use a condom..
I got with a girl before and she took the pill after and she said it makes her sick. I dont think its fair to make a girl go through that but unwanted babies are worse.
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If you're responsible just for for it. I was worried but if was silly since I had my chit together.
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Have heard legends of cass40's ass. Still waiting for confirmation.Cass40
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JFL at this attention-whoring thread. Ask your husband and his kids, not some twenty-year-old message board populated by closet homosexuals.
02-11-2020, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Dimethylpentane⏩
ive asked him. He says he wants a daughter but it’s up to me to have my own kid. If I don’t he wants to adopt. Asking the kids he wouldn’t be ok with.JFL at this attention-whoring thread. Ask your husband and his kids, not some twenty-year-old message board populated by closet homosexuals.
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I never wanted children. It's not that I was vehemently against it, it just felt living that non parent life was a superior path.
When I got with my wife, I knew she was the type of woman that would want kids, so I told myself I'd give the relationship a solid year. If after that year I did not see in her what I would want from a partner/potential mother of my child, or see the possibility of us being together forever etc, I told myself I would break it off with her, even if the relationship was still "Good", because I think trying to force a woman who wants children into not having them is going to end poorly 99% of the time.
Year went by and she was a fantastic partner, and I felt she'd be a great mother. So I accepted the fact that one day I would give her a kid. Though i was smart enough to know that I'd never do it before age 30. I had too much partying/drugs/drinking type of chit to do and Knew damn well I wasn't ready to be a father, or at least a good one.
She patiently waited 10 years for me to propose, never once doing any of that cliche **** you hear about chicks doing, like wedding magazines, or having friends mention chit around me. We considered each other husband and wife well before I proposed, we already referred to each other as such, and we still do. Our wedding isn't until March 15th of this year, so yeah.
A year after I prorposed, she went off birth control and was preggers within 3 months. (as a side note, she was on the daily pill for the entire 10 years, and I never pulled out a single time. She took that pill like clock work every day for 10 years).
I raised my dog from a small puppy with it's eyes closed. Love my pupper so much, so I had no doubt that I'd love my child even more. But my god have I fallen in love with my kid. It's a love like nothing I'veeverfelt and this little **** is absolutely my world.
He's turning three next month, and he's legit the greatest thing to ever happen to me, and I don't care how cliche that chit sounds it's the truth. I am SO fuking happy I have him. Walking into my house after work, and hearing "DAAADDYYYYY" followed by the stomping of feet against tile as he rushes from the living room to greet me... holy fuk it's better than cooming.
Seriously the best thing in my life, nothing is even close. And I loved my life before I had him.
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When I got with my wife, I knew she was the type of woman that would want kids, so I told myself I'd give the relationship a solid year. If after that year I did not see in her what I would want from a partner/potential mother of my child, or see the possibility of us being together forever etc, I told myself I would break it off with her, even if the relationship was still "Good", because I think trying to force a woman who wants children into not having them is going to end poorly 99% of the time.
Year went by and she was a fantastic partner, and I felt she'd be a great mother. So I accepted the fact that one day I would give her a kid. Though i was smart enough to know that I'd never do it before age 30. I had too much partying/drugs/drinking type of chit to do and Knew damn well I wasn't ready to be a father, or at least a good one.
She patiently waited 10 years for me to propose, never once doing any of that cliche **** you hear about chicks doing, like wedding magazines, or having friends mention chit around me. We considered each other husband and wife well before I proposed, we already referred to each other as such, and we still do. Our wedding isn't until March 15th of this year, so yeah.
A year after I prorposed, she went off birth control and was preggers within 3 months. (as a side note, she was on the daily pill for the entire 10 years, and I never pulled out a single time. She took that pill like clock work every day for 10 years).
I raised my dog from a small puppy with it's eyes closed. Love my pupper so much, so I had no doubt that I'd love my child even more. But my god have I fallen in love with my kid. It's a love like nothing I'veeverfelt and this little **** is absolutely my world.
He's turning three next month, and he's legit the greatest thing to ever happen to me, and I don't care how cliche that chit sounds it's the truth. I am SO fuking happy I have him. Walking into my house after work, and hearing "DAAADDYYYYY" followed by the stomping of feet against tile as he rushes from the living room to greet me... holy fuk it's better than cooming.
Seriously the best thing in my life, nothing is even close. And I loved my life before I had him.
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