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post 1612091521 07-30-2020, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By exxtracool
Not all homos act/talk like ****s.


Look at Tom Ford:








Doesn’t have a gay voice and doesn’t look like a gay.. but he is.
Kinda mirin this ******* srs, no homo
post 1612091561 07-30-2020, 10:18 AM
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post 1612091641 07-30-2020, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
If a gay guy is attracted to men - you'd think the gay community would be trying to be as masculine as possible. Instead they model themselves essentially after women with clothing/grooming/skincare/mannerisms. You'd think they'd all try and look and act like Jon Hamm or Liam Hemmsworth. Some gay men are barely indistinguishable from girls - you might as well date women then.

Same with lesbians. They are attracted to women, yet the whole lesbian community dresses like men (short hair, manly clothes). Why not just date REAL men at that point? You'd think lesbians would be the hottest women possible if they were trying to attract one another.


Not trying to hate - always wondered this and I refuse to ask reddit since this will get shut down in 5 seconds there. (plus most of the misc is gay so good audience to address).
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post 1612091671 07-30-2020, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
but apparently the majority of the lesbian community prefers short hair women that dress like men (go observe a lesbian bar).

weird choice if you like women as a sexual preference.
You seem really wrapped up in ideas about things other than sex that make a woman. I've answered your question. Clothing choices do not make a woman a woman.
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post 1612091871 07-30-2020, 10:21 AM
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I've also thought about this and maybe it was mentioned in comments, didn't read all of them.

1) I don't believe you're born gay

2) For argument sake, let's say you were. That would just mean you're attracted to men sexually. It doesn't explain the flamboyant behavior and acting like a woman. You're not.
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post 1612091951 07-30-2020, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By MN88
I’ve always wondered why lesbians like to dress like Rob Dyrdek. It’s like they got all their knowledge of how to be manly from a 12 year old...
but why be manly at all - you are trying to attract women that like women - why not try and dress like women

they should all be dressing like this

post 1612092041 07-30-2020, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
but apparently the majority of the lesbian community prefers short hair women that dress like men (go observe a lesbian bar).

weird choice if you like women as a sexual preference.
The ones I know don't prefer them, but the femme types instead. It's some weird dynamic where many seems to dress the part for inclusion. Long hair and femininity is some kind of weakness, like "you're dressing up for men"

That said, lesbians are pretty cool for the most part(outside of politics), and not much drama to hang with. So whatever floats their boat.
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post 1612092291 07-30-2020, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja
Dude sounds gay and his hands are all over the place boyo. Strong gayface/10
well.. he is gay lol, so inevitably when he starts talking about his passions and interests, hes going to come across as gay. he has a deeper voice than most straight dudes though.

Also, i talk with my hands too bro, that isnt a gay thing. if that were the case all of southern europe would be gay.


also also, hes 50 years old.. if i look like that at 50, i dont give a fuk if i look like the biggest homo in the world.. ill be happy.
Originally Posted By climberbrah
ok sure - but he is not the norm. He's smart actually, bet he pulls more quality gay men than anyone because he actually presents himself as a somewhat masculine man (still looks sort of gay, but hes' not totally feminine). Why isnt this the norm?
tbh i dont know enough gay guys to answer this but based on the gays ive known personally, the majority arent those twink looking homos.

keep in mind though, this guy designs mens fashion.. and most of the guys that design mens fashion in general are gay. unless youre wearing cargoshorts and baggy graphic tshirts, youre wearing **** that a gay dude designed with his own gay tastes in mind lol.

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Kinda mirin this ******* srs, no homo
ya bro tom ford is a fuking legend
post 1612092911 07-30-2020, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By exxtracool
well.. he is gay lol, so inevitably when he starts talking about his passions and interests, hes going to come across as gay. he has a deeper voice than most straight dudes though.

Also, i talk with my hands too bro, that isnt a gay thing. if that were the case all of southern europe would be gay.
I mean, dude looks pretty obviously gay.
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wheres all the misc gays at to answer this?
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To a straight man, it looks ridiculous, exaggerated, labored and stereotypical. Like why do you have a lisp, how big are the d!cks you're sucking? The T-Rex arms pose or the prissy attitude, how connected are they to your sexuality? Future generations might look funny at us when they see how these groups portrayed themselves instead of living an uneventful life, they had the pressing need to be noticed and stand out, or follow a single mold.

Doesn't make sense to me either how butches are unattracted to men, yet strive to look and act like'em. Are disgusted by a penis, yet use its replicas all the time for intercourse; genes at play I guess.

Maybe I don't understand it, but I definitely get along better with people behaving like me in public, regardless of what sexual acts they have fun doing in private
post 1612099521 07-30-2020, 11:46 AM
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Literally no idea op. One guess is because gay men love the idea of banging straight dudes, and lesbian women love the idea of banging straight women, so they try to appeal to them? maybe? Like I said, no clue op
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
If a gay guy is attracted to men - you'd think the gay community would be trying to be as masculine as possible.
Being attracted to men =/= being attracted to masculine men.

They are attracted to male bodies.
Some gay men are barely indistinguishable from girls - you might as well date women then.
The physical appearance of gender (or genders) you are physically attracted to, pretty much defines your sexuality.

Gay men are not sexually attracted to the physical appearance of women.

For example;

This person is aFemale to Maletransgender person.

According to the misc's understanding of gender and sexuality... If a man was exclusively only attracted to 'women' that looked like Buck Angel they would still be 100% straight.



Same with lesbians. They are attracted to women,yet the whole lesbian communitydresses like men (short hair, manly clothes).
That is definitely not true.
Why not just date REAL men at that point? You'd think lesbians would be the hottest women possible if they were trying to attract one another.
A woman who has short hair, and dressing in masculine clothes, is still woman with short hair and dressing in masculine clothes.

When they are naked, they are a naked woman.
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post 1612100971 07-30-2020, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
but why be manly at all - you are trying to attract women that like women - why not try and dress like women

they should all be dressing like this
Female sexuality is likely more mental than mens.

Male sexuality is heavily based on appearance. Hence the high heels to make legs look better, skirt to show off legs, cut off top to show stomach, etc. (I know that introvert incels talk all the time about Looks being the key to success with women, but they are biased and bitter to be honest.)

So, on that basis a woman trying to appeal to a woman would not focus on their physical appearance like a straight woman would.

The female psyche is not the male psyche.

Here is Lesbian woman talking about going undercover as a man for 18 months. One of the key things she said is that male sexuality is different to female sexuality.

Skip to 8:45 for where she talks about the difference between male and female sexuality.

(About a strip club...)

"But you're attracted to women, were you ever aroused?"

"No. I really ran smack up against the difference between male and female sexuality. Female sexuality is mental... "





(Her book goes into more depth. She definitely comes to the conclusion that there are 'innate' differences to men and women. Not as extreme as religious traditionalists claim, but there are differences.)
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Hmm. So the feminine guys are usually at most versatile (top and bottom) you'd be hard pressed to find someone who acts feminine that would rather top than bottom.

The male side of this argument makes a lot of sense actually. The feminine guys mimic females because it's more submissive and yes also some of the getting straight dudes to do something DL. It's pretty few and far in between to see two guys at the same level of femininity together. You may have both that are sort of feminine but one will likely only start acting like that around real masculine guys (gay or straight).

If they are both feminine one is a pure bottom and the other is a versatile who tops because he like's the other guy and they can both get their jollies that way.

Women on the other hand, have had butch lesbian roomates and I don't understand anything about them. I'm assuming it's an aggressor stance but I can only come to that conclusion because they ALWAYS try to turn straight girls.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
Female sexuality is likely more mental than mens.

Male sexuality is heavily based on appearance. Hence the high heels to make legs look better, skirt to show off legs, cut off top to show stomach, etc. (I know that introvert incels talk all the time about Looks being the key to success with women, but they are biased and bitter to be honest.)

So, on that basis a woman trying to appeal to a woman would not focus on their physical appearance like a straight woman would.

The female psyche is not the male psyche.

Here is Lesbian woman talking about going undercover as a man for 18 months. One of the key things she said is that male sexuality is different to female sexuality.

Skip to 8:45 for where she talks about the difference between male and female sexuality.

(About a strip club...)

"But you're attracted to women, were you ever aroused?"

"No. I really ran smack up against the difference between male and female sexuality. Female sexuality is mental... "





(Her book goes into more depth. She definitely comes to the conclusion that there are 'innate' differences to men and women. Not as extreme as religious traditionalists claim, but there are differences.)
No offense to any lesbians, but this 100% sounds like a mental illness
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Originally Posted By SiegeMT
It's pretty few and far in between to see two guys at the same level of femininity together.
This is not true at all. Have you ever been in a gay part of town, seen a real gay couple.
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
No offense to any lesbians, but this 100% sounds like a mental illness
What are you talking about?
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
This is not true at all. Have you ever been in a gay part of town, seen a real gay couple.
Yes and I still stand by in my experience it's always been a rarity, I'm talking together like dating or longer term not just being out together or whatever.
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No one has explained this in logical terms yet by the way.
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Originally Posted By LordBroly
I don't know but this video talks about the "gay" voice. Basically it has to do with how you're raised/who you're raised around. Gay people might spend more time around women as they're growing up due to their interests, etc. so maybe that's where it comes from.

Didn't watch, and no hate, but if gay voice comes from being raised by women wouldn't that mean a majority of black guys turn into Rupaul?
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
No one has explained this in logical terms yet by the way.
Homosexuals are attracted to physiology first and psychology second.

An effeminate man is still a man.

A masculine dressed woman is still a woman.


You can honestly understand this for yourself...

Are you sexually attracted to men who have 'the brain of a woman', simply because they have 'the brain of a woman'?

If not, why?

If you are, then you are bisexual or in the closet.
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Originally Posted By climberbrah
No one has explained this in logical terms yet by the way.
Ya they have. You're just playing dumb.
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Originally Posted By Havok69
Didn't watch, and no hate, but if gay voice comes from being raised by women wouldn't that mean a majority of black guys turn into Rupaul?
No because even in the fatherless households you're referring to, the kids predominantly socialize with boys, have male sports coaches, uncles, older brothers, cousins, etc. The guy in the video says he was raised in a commune that was ~80% female.
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I think most of it's down to hormones and how hormones are expressed, in terms of whether someone behaves masculine or feminine. Plenty of straight men are quite effeminate and plenty of gay men are butch. It's a question of hormones and how / whether they're expressed.
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Originally Posted By ukr1410
I think most of it's down to hormones and how hormones are expressed, in terms of whether someone behaves masculine or feminine. Plenty of straight men are quite effeminate and plenty of gay men are butch. It's a question of hormones and how / whether they're expressed.
thanks for the response.
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Why I stick to lipstick lesbians and love gay men who act like men. No homo

Some of the stereotypical lesbians look more like me than they do beautiful women.
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