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post 1618404351 10-04-2020, 01:29 PM
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As a father, I can 100% say that if I found out my daughter wasn't mine, my relationship with my daughter would not change one bit. She loves me and I love her. My relationship with my wife would be done though LOL
post 1618405581 10-04-2020, 01:47 PM
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Nope. Wouldn't say a single word to the exwife and her baby. Straight deuces. On to 18-25 back breaking.

Also. I'd file for alimony. Srs
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post 1618406051 10-04-2020, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Nope. Wouldn't say a single word to the exwife and her baby. Straight deuces. On to 18-25 back breaking.

Also. I'd file for alimony. Srs
Jake's on you. If you "assume a fatherly role," you are still on the hook for alimony and child support lmao. I used to work with a guy who was paying $2k/mo support for a kid he raised to 3 years old thinking it was his. Whoops.
post 1618406511 10-04-2020, 02:02 PM
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Yeah idk it's kinda hard since what if you raised the kid for sometime before knowing?
Then what? You've developed that attachment and it's not the kids fault...tbh it's a hard one to answer.
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lol looks like another black baby gonna grow up without a father then
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post 1618406881 10-04-2020, 02:06 PM
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Do a secret paternity test

If not yours, nut in the wife then divorce to spite her, who cares about child support, you should have a good career at that point anyways
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post 1618406981 10-04-2020, 02:08 PM
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Somebody's gotta take responsibility for the child

It ain't gon b me tho
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post 1618407141 10-04-2020, 02:10 PM
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If the baby or kid knew me as dad, I would still play that role. It's not the kids fault. What I do with her is different story.
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post 1618407391 10-04-2020, 02:13 PM
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Yes, I would raise it...



Over my head and spike it like a football (notsrs)

Would divorce wife for sure but no idea what the right thing to do with the kid would be.
Would kick em in the nuts
post 1618407501 10-04-2020, 02:15 PM
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Chad wouldn't accept that. But a beta Timothy probably would still stick around and raise it because it's not like he could just go out and get another girl like Chad can. Beta Timothy is lucky to even have a wife in the first place.
post 1618407771 10-04-2020, 02:19 PM
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post 1618408451 10-04-2020, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Twist: T529 is the baby daddy
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post 1618410121 10-04-2020, 02:48 PM
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No unless it is Tom Brady's son and has a multimillion dollar return investment for me.
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post 1618410411 10-04-2020, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By WABeast⏩
No unless it is Tom Brady's son and has a multimillion dollar return investment for me.
That is a good point. What if your bastard son had top tier genetics, e.g. Arnoldo, Gronkowski, Dolph, Jason Blaha, etc.?
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Originally Posted By Coal
Does a baby only turn black after a year or how does that work? Educate me opie
darkskin babies are born pale
my friends kid didn't look black at all when he was just born
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post 1618410851 10-04-2020, 02:57 PM
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Nah Im good bro miss me with having kids, miss me with taking single moms seriously too
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So my buddy is going through this exact scenario right now. He's an army dude who got married to an army girl after she got pregnant with his first kid. She's a crazy sloot and they've had a really rocky relationship since they got together. So he was in the field last year and when he gets back she bangs him the night he gets back (they **** like twice a year) and tells him a month later that she's pregnant. He's not sure what to think about the timing until they get in a fight a few weeks later and she starts telling people she was banging one of her ncos, a light skinned black dude. So my buddy calls my other friend at like three in the morning balling his eyes out after word got back out to him that she cheated but he stayed with her. The baby was born 2-3 months ago and looks nothing like him. Super tan but not obviously black and he's stuck in denial I think because he wants his other kid to grow up in a two parent home. I lol every time I think about him but feel horrible at the same time.
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Originally Posted By tbonestake⏩
So my buddy is going through this exact scenario right now. He's an army dude who got married to an army girl after she got pregnant with his first kid. She's a crazy sloot and they've had a really rocky relationship since they got together. So he was in the field last year and when he gets back she bangs him the night he gets back (they **** like twice a year) and tells him a month later that she's pregnant. He's not sure what to think about the timing until they get in a fight a few weeks later and she starts telling people she was banging one of her ncos, a light skinned black dude. So my buddy calls my other friend at like three in the morning balling his eyes out after word got back out to him that she cheated but he stayed with her. The baby was born 2-3 months ago and looks nothing like him. Super tan but not obviously black and he's stuck in denial I think because he wants his other kid to grow up in a two parent home. I lol every time I think about him but feel horrible at the same time.
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post 1618413091 10-04-2020, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Jake's on you. If you "assume a fatherly role," you are still on the hook for alimony and child support lmao. I used to work with a guy who was paying $2k/mo support for a kid he raised to 3 years old thinking it was his. Whoops.
If anyone claims to have a kid with me... No name on birth certificate until paternity test the week of birth.

Jake's on you and your friend for being dumbasses. Never trust a woman. Period.

Plus I punch higher. I'd be getting alimony because I'm accustomed to my lifestyle and my other half makes much more than I do.

Stop playing checkers.
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post 1618416241 10-04-2020, 04:09 PM
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I can tell most of you don’t have kids. Barring people dying, getting seriously ill or seriously injured this would have to be the worse thing that could happen to you.

Not sure if I could carrying in raising it. But a year of bonding with a child is a long time.
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
Let's say after a year of taking care of the new born baby you started to grow more and more suspicious since the baby you were raising was black and you were white would you say something or just pretend like everything was fine?
I’d divorce her, srs.
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No. It's that simple.

Some guy mentioned the alimony BS that applies after you've had the bastard for a year or more. So depending on how long it took for you to realise that it wasn't yours, it could turn out to be quite problematic. It's actually pretty fukked up that there's a law that incentivises a cheating whore to keep you in the dark about her bastard child's real father so that she can secure her bastard's livelihood at the expense of the cuck.
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Nope
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
If anyone claims to have a kid with me... No name on birth certificate until paternity test the week of birth.

Jake's on you and your friend for being dumbasses. Never trust a woman. Period.

Plus I punch higher.I'd be getting alimony because I'm accustomed to my lifestyle and my other half makes much more than I do.

Stop playing checkers.
Oh we playing chess fa sho with that first bold line i can dig it. We lose too many good men because they get pressed by the hospital and other chit to sign the certificate. And in court...chit good luck

How much more she make than you?
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lol no
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F no. Like a single mom who also lied to you and cheated in the worst way. About the most extreme vice I can think of. I would respect a drug addict more.
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