How do you interpret when a girl from dating app says shes a bad texter?(srs)

11-23-2020, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted By WafflesBrah⏩

Translation: I'm getting diked by someone else right now but you can remain in my beta orbit just in case me and this guy fall out, worst case scenario i'll use you for attention.

for futures sake... theres no winning when you're in this position?

Originally Posted By Caldef⏩

Can mean she prefers phone calls.

I'm hopeless at texting. Tbh i hate it. Impersonal and boring. I ignore most of my text messages cos i can't be bothered.

BUT I love the sound of my boyfriend's voice, and fortunately he knows how to use the "call" function on his cellphone.

Yeah it makes sense if they want full on paragraph convos - ] a text to see when theyre available for a call later you would definitely reply to though, i'd assume.

Originally Posted By wutevs⏩

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Pretty much that, sorry dude. I don't ghost people but the longest streak I've had a guy texting me was 14 times, after I told him I wasn't interested initially. Ended up saying it one last time and blocking cus he wouldn't stop.

If it was someone I had interest in, I'd be waiting on their texts cuz it makes me happy.

Lmao 14 times, jesus.... I might be dumb but ill definitely take the hint if they tell me they arnt interested

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11-23-2020, 04:49 PM

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Sounds like me. I often forget to text people back. But im also a selfish ******* and wouldnt want to date someone like myself

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11-23-2020, 04:57 PM

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You could actually call them on the phone.

U

11-23-2020, 05:05 PM

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I've had woman in their 20s and 40s. A "bad texter" is just an excuse that you're not the number one guy...

11-23-2020, 05:13 PM

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It’s an easy OUT if she’s not interested. It’s ****ing 2020 LOL. It’s not 1999 anymore.

11-23-2020, 05:25 PM

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Ask yourself this. If Brad Pitt texted her out of the blue would she all of a sudden be a 'bad texter'? Does she have active social media accounts?

99% of the time it means she has other guys on rotation - and generally quite a bit. Between the dating apps she is on, instagram, snapchat, ********, tik tok, and the 10+ dudes texting her then yea it will become a hassle for her to keep up with it all and hence the 'I am a bad texter'.

Save yourself the trouble and move on

11-23-2020, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩

For example...

She says she's the type to read your message, think of a reply but forgets and doesnt end up replying?

So you're forced to double / triple text them for them to reply.Clearly this looks sad as **** having to double text to get a reply out of them, but how would you talk to these type of people?? (Or are they worth talking to in the first place?)

Personally, if i'm into someone i wont "forget" to message them because i'll be thinking of them and text them regardless.

That's where you're wrong and you fukked up. Read what you just wrote. I mean really understand what you just wrote (bolded). And when you realize it, only then will you start on the right path

TLDR; fuk bitches, get money

11-23-2020, 05:41 PM

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Bro, I recommend not sending more texts. Be clear and don’t play games.

And remember, be respectful.

If this doesn’t meet the requirements, then let go. You don’t any more troubles

11-23-2020, 05:43 PM

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She’ll reply if she’s interested

12-08-2020, 02:44 PM

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just wanted to bump saying she ended up msging me a week later, saying sorry she ghosted, and then couple days later she came over and we smashed

not a total L

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12-08-2020, 02:51 PM

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I think she’s frontin

No girl is a bad texter to a guy she’s into

12-08-2020, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩

just wanted to bump saying she ended up msging me a week later, saying sorry she ghosted, and then couple days later she came over and we smashed

not a total L

Glad to hear it worked out OP.

As a brah, I hate texting in general and try to minimize my time doing it - no body language, no common scenery to riff about if the convo goes cold, etc. Sometimes I probably do it too little and fuk up chances.

I assume that could be the case with some girls, but others are just playing games undoubtedly

12-08-2020, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩

I think she’s frontin

No girl is a bad texter to a guy she’s into

Originally Posted By OlHoss⏩

Glad to hear it worked out OP.

As a brah, I hate texting in general and try to minimize my time doing it - no body language, no common scenery to riff about if the convo goes cold, etc. Sometimes I probably do it too little and fuk up chances.

I assume that could be the case with some girls, but others are just playing games undoubtedly

Yeah the majority of my previous experience when they lost interest and stopped chatting it was for good.

she flipped a switch and is saying gmorning/gnights after the night at my place so no clue what changed, going with it for now..

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12-08-2020, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩

just wanted to bump saying she ended up msging me a week later, saying sorry she ghosted, and then couple days later she came over and we smashed

not a total L

12-08-2020, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩

Yeah the majority of my previous experience when they lost interest and stopped chatting it was for good.

she flipped a switch and is saying gmorning/gnights after the night at my place so no clue what changed, going with it for now..

If I had to guess, I’d assume things fell through with another guy. Might as well roll with it for now as you said