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post 1624872021 12-08-2020, 10:47 AM
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Saying NO is a pretty important lifeskill to learn
post 1624872441 12-08-2020, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By PermaNoob⏩
Saying NO is a pretty important lifeskill to learn
I seriously need to learn this skill and not let my self feel so guilty hah
post 1624872591 12-08-2020, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
I deleted the comment because I went to hard on ya ..wanted to spare ya and be a nice guy ..didn't want you going around offing yourself or something . Having stressful day just wanted an answer..thats all but srsly grow up lol
I don't care, you probably have more rolls on your body than at a dinner buffet.
post 1624872741 12-08-2020, 10:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28⏩
I don't care, you probably have more rolls on your body than at a dinner buffet.
Ok cool call us even and next time pay attention to context within the situation
post 1624872771 12-08-2020, 10:55 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
I seriously need to learn this skill and not let my self feel so guilty hah
post 1624873571 12-08-2020, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By PermaNoob⏩
Did you read this book
post 1624873931 12-08-2020, 11:06 AM
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Depends on the favor and person.
post 1624873961 12-08-2020, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Did you read this book
Yeah. I remember there being exercises in it. Stuff like having you say YES to anything anyone asks of you for a week and say No in the next. I really liked it and I think I finished reading through in one day.
Read it back in 2013 though.
Would recommend especially to Nice guys, "SIMPs", and men raised by a single mother.
post 1624874521 12-08-2020, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28⏩
I don't care, you probably have more rolls on your body than at a dinner buffet.
negged for not letting it go
post 1624874601 12-08-2020, 11:13 AM
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OP I want pics of dog and sister.
post 1624874821 12-08-2020, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
negged for not letting it go
What? He probably does.
post 1624874971 12-08-2020, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By tk217⏩
OP I want pics of dog and sister.
You will get both in one pic.
post 1624876651 12-08-2020, 11:33 AM
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I don't blow people off who ask for favors, because I know the person will return the favor at some point. But if someone continually asked for a favor and then never gave something in return I'd be pretty tight. Your sister could bring over a bottle of booze, maybe dinner, maybe get you a small gift, but she's just using you and not returning anything, seems selfish.
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post 1624878181 12-08-2020, 11:48 AM
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Family and close friends? I always help.

Randoms? Depends on the situation.

Anyone who does anything otherwise is a beta (srs).

You should also donate your time to a charity if you find you aren't helping people around you, the positive impact of helping others goes a long way.
I feel like this is why so many people are depressed nowadays, society used to be about helping each other out to survive up until literally 50 years ago and now everything is catered to us.
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