Just how good of an actual study buddy is this girl? Why do you need one? To hold up flash cards for you? My bullsh!t radar is detecting something.

Either you feel like hanging out with this friend and you’re using studying as an excuse. Or you subconsciously get off on the fact that this girl wants you and you hold all the power. Could even be both. You need to ask yourself why you’re really meeting up with this girl. I believe you that you’re not trying to fuk her but you’re either doing it because you wanna chill or just study. Even if it’s just studying, that’s still disrespectful to your gf. I wouldn’t be cool with my gf hanging out with one of her long term guy friends.

But if you do choose to go ahead and study with this girl then you need to do two things. Don’t let your gf find out. And don’t even go as far as flirting with this girl.

They are studying anatomy of the human reproductive system...in a practical manner...

hope karma gets u douch bag

Lol I knew this was coming at some point during this thread.

Don’t think OP plans to fuk her but part of him probably enjoys the power dynamic of a girl who can’t have him being in the same room together.

Lmao. You’re in the wrong boyo. You’d be furious if she did something similar with chad or Tyrone.

I left out a lot of info in the op cus I didn’t wanna write a novel but it’s more complicated than that

Normally I am open about everything, she trusts me and is fine with me having female friends and she’s been cool with this friend too, has met her and seen her quite a few times etc. I did do something very stupid somewhat recently tho (accepted friend req from an ex on fb, literally wasn’t thinking), and with lockdowns recently we’ve been spending way too much time together (she only has 1 friend who hasn’t left the city to go back home) and she’s been acting really clingy which is normally not how she’s like at all.. so I guess that coupled with me sort of betraying her trust is making her act possessive? Idk

I don’t really intend to keep this from her forever or anything I just didn’t know what to do in the moment

Nah it’s not like that at all. For some other female friends who I’m not close to that’s part of it tbh, but I really just value her as a friend and we’re similar in a lot of ways etc. We’re in the same major but different years so we actually would be studying, but it’s moreso just to hangout as places just opened up back here.

2 things I know for a fact

1: OP is immature and not capable to have a serious long term relationship
2. His relationship won't last for a long time

doing it behind the gf's back is super beta. just tell her and accept the consequences like a man ffs

LOL at being "friends" with a girl like this, first off.

I know the only reason you keep this girl around is to have guaranteed booty if you and your girl fall apart. So you are a little bich trying to pretend you are friends with a girl, especially one that you KNOW likes you.

Second, she will find out, and she will cheat on you to get back, and you won't like it when you realize how much better your gf can do then you in a literal moments notice, meanwhile you are keeping some 5/10 as a "friend" on the side because you are afraid to be alone once your gf inevitably leaves you,

Bad idea brah. If you want to keep your gf loyal that is. This could backfire in horrible fashion.

There’s no reason to go chill with another girl 1on1 imo. If she’s the only person in the world you can study with them have her over while your gf is there or bring gf along.

If she was doing it you wouldn’t like it and even less so if you found out she did it behind your back and didn’t tell you.

Don't listen to the misc, instead...

You're going to do it no matter what we say.

When this relationship ends, don't do it on the next one.

Nice pics OP