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post 1636038263 04-12-2021, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
Just downloaded dating apps and I see a bunch of hot late 20’s girls on there, but why hasn’t anyone wifed them up yet? Makes me think something is off
Hooker profiles run by someone in EE or girls trying to hook simps for their onlyfans.
If you can't handle me when I'm incel, you don't deserve me when I'm chad
post 1636038593 04-12-2021, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By awwchit2⏩
unless you score a younger chick, most girls your age are either single moms, divorcees, or just crazy alcoholics.

otherwise they'd be wifed up

there is no in between
Where do you live plays a big role in your choices. If you live in a **** city snd it’s just single moms well move for better opportunities that’s on you.
post 1636039513 04-12-2021, 02:55 PM
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post 1636039533 04-12-2021, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s the reality and why this problem exists. Literally for the past 3 decades or so girls have been told to focus on their education and career.
Same in the 3rd world. Even educated Filipinas only make like $300 a month and those in low skilled jobs make under $200 if not under $120. None of these girls were down for quitting their job and living off my money.

Somehow it's ok to work for a rich man, and to make him richer, than to take care of YOUR MAN.

If the 3rd world has brainwashed into that bullchit then nobody had a chance of finding a TradCon wife in the west unless it's Utah and an arranged marriage.
post 1636040043 04-12-2021, 03:02 PM
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post 1636040813 04-12-2021, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s because women since my generation (Gen X) were raised and conditioned to focus on education and career and to get a degree and work and take pride in that as their main achievement.

We were literally raised to focus on that so it’s no wonder girls do so. Focusing on finding a good husband as first priority is really not encouraged by anyone.

You can’t really blame individual women for this because our entire culture and upbringing conditions us to focus on education and career.
The funny thing is men generally don't give a flying phuck about women's education or career, but women tend to hold that as a huge aspect for why they want to date a guy or not.

I know one thing that is really common with single career women these days is how they say it's hard for them to date because they can't find single men who are higher educated or make more money than they do.
post 1636041093 04-12-2021, 03:16 PM
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post 1636041183 04-12-2021, 03:18 PM
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post 1636041483 04-12-2021, 03:21 PM
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women are completely ruined lmao
post 1636041523 04-12-2021, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes of course because if you have kids you want the guy to be able to provide or at least carry his weight financially. And even without kids it’s nice to have a man who provides.
Well exactly, that's the thing. Women these days seem to be all about trying to be a provider and being as successful as they can be, which is great for them I suppose, but then they turn around and still want the man in their life to be this great provider who is more capable than they are so they have an excuse to do the whole stay at home mom thing after they have some kids.

It's the real issue with today's society, we keep pressuring a group of people to be the most successful/productive people in society when a career isn't how they naturally rate their success. Women are naturally drawn to be a mom, it's simply how they are wired, it's in their DNA. For women having kids and seeing them grow up is all they need to feel fulfilled, so naturally focusing on a career takes a backseat when that enters their life.

All this stuff that they are promoting for them these days, it is more or less just the ambitions of girls who have yet to grow up.
post 1636045373 04-12-2021, 04:16 PM
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Do all the miscers whining about "single moms" at 27 all live in chithole countries or something? When I was in a Tier 1 city pre-COVID, I was dating women who were 27-29 and still single mostly because they have a busy career and/or just moved to a new city for work/grad school, like myself. Most of the girls I went out with were doctors, consultants, or software engineers. Yeah, they weren't stunners, but they were reasonably good-looking and not psychos, unlike some of the younger women I dated, ironically. It's really not that bad unless you're one of the hardcore autists on here that only wants 18-25 year olds you have nothing in common with because "muh prime fertility window".

In before said autist quotes me and says:

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post 1636045803 04-12-2021, 04:24 PM
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post 1636048063 04-12-2021, 05:04 PM
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Wifed up a 24 year old when I was 27 and we've been together three years. I was lucky to land a good girl in the front end of her mid-20's
post 1636049573 04-12-2021, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s because women since my generation (Gen X) were raised and conditioned to focus on education and career and to get a degree and work and take pride in that as their main achievement.

We were literally raised to focus on that so it’s no wonder girls do so. Focusing on finding a good husband as first priority is really not encouraged by anyone.

You can’t really blame individual women for this because our entire culture and upbringing conditions us to focus on education and career.
Not really. What part of society tells women they need to play provider? What are the stated consequences if a woman does not focus on an education and career? Compare that with how men are told they are worthless if they are underachieving.

Why did so many women lose their **** when this woman made a blog post?


Women may get crap for underachieving and would rather play mother and housewife. Who do they get that crap from? Other women. Isn't the point to impress men, not women?
post 1636049643 04-12-2021, 05:28 PM
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Age is a killa.


As a Chad in my 20s and 30s I used to f*ck really hot women, had a harem, and none of them knew about the others, married women would ask me for sex etc., But the moment you hit your late 30s and get some grey hair, unless you have lots of money, you are done, you are furniture to women, they walk right by, they are such shallow stupid creatures LOL, it’s really fascinating.

They either want a young Chad, or a guy with money in which case they don’t care what he looks like, nothing else matters! Personality etc. none of that sheit matters to them. They don’t care how you treat them, they don’t care wether you are smart or kind or stupid or what your interests are, you either need good looks with young age OR money, it’s all they care about.
post 1636049783 04-12-2021, 05:30 PM
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its getting worse for me
and it was already pretty bad lol
the virus sht is making girls pickier (if that was possible)
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post 1636049983 04-12-2021, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By awwchit2⏩
unless you score a younger chick, most girls your age are either single moms, divorcees, or justcrazy alcoholics.
Since I avoid the first two, I do notice a lot of the 3rd type.
post 1636050753 04-12-2021, 05:44 PM
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Im going out on a 3rd date with a 7 out of 10, 33 y/o doctor this weekend. Seems single and sane so far. She rear-ended me at a stop light a few weeks ago lolz srs.

keep your head up bro, there's a few left.


Also keep in mind, soon the summer is beginning and a pandemic is ending... I feel like there is no better time in history to pick up women
post 1636051753 04-12-2021, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted By kusok⏩
Age is a killa.


As a Chad in my 20s and 30s I used to f*ck really hot women, had a harem, and none of them knew about the others, married women would ask me for sex etc., But the moment you hit your late 30s and get some grey hair, unless you have lots of money, you are done, you are furniture to women, they walk right by, they are such shallow stupid creatures LOL, it’s really fascinating.

They either want a young Chad, or a guy with money in which case they don’t care what he looks like, nothing else matters! Personality etc. none of that sheit matters to them. They don’t care how you treat them, they don’t care wether you are smart or kind or stupid or what your interests are, you either need good looks with young age OR money, it’s all they care about.
At least you had your tour.

I barely had thin healthy BMI blonde women and I'm WHITE (inb4 misc accuses me of being a creepy Arab or Indian). Too late for me to get White Stacies. I was in Latvia not that long ago and couldn't get any Tinder swipes from any women under 28. Didn't matter if I age frauded, and used old photos, and claimed to be 25.
post 1636052453 04-12-2021, 06:01 PM
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post 1636052493 04-12-2021, 06:02 PM
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27 and younger chicks love me
post 1636052973 04-12-2021, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Like I said there is a practical aspect to this. If a woman can’t find a good loyal provider or if he cheats or leaves, how will she support herself and pay the bills? In that case she will need a career. You can only forgo career/work if you get and keep a good loyal provider but that is not at all a given.
K, but once she finds a loyal good guy to marry she rejects him in favor of her career, as per my first point. The career + education is the primary plan, not the backup plan for these women. To expand, the types of women I was referring to are the types who want to climb the corporate ladder at all costs, not the ones who want a nice career to be comfortable in.
post 1636053473 04-12-2021, 06:15 PM
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post 1636053553 04-12-2021, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By kusok⏩
Age is a killa.


As a Chad in my 20s and 30s I used to f*ck really hot women, had a harem, and none of them knew about the others, married women would ask me for sex etc., But the moment you hit your late 30s and get some grey hair, unless you have lots of money, you are done, you are furniture to women, they walk right by, they are such shallow stupid creatures LOL, it’s really fascinating.

They either want a young Chad, or a guy with money in which case they don’t care what he looks like, nothing else matters! Personality etc. none of that sheit matters to them. They don’t care how you treat them, they don’t care wether you are smart or kind or stupid or what your interests are, you either need good looks with young age OR money, it’s all they care about.
You still smash slampigs though right?
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
b...bbb but misc told me i would be a slayer deep into my 50's if i just lifted and drove a 3 series.... plz respond
lol
post 1636053823 04-12-2021, 06:19 PM
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post 1636056063 04-12-2021, 06:43 PM
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im 28 and its getting hard as fk.

and I am a legit 6'2 chad with perfect hair (srs)

have clapped the cheeks of over 100 slampigs

im trying to settle down ASAP

30 and single you might as well rope.

im an extrovert so i need a regular slampig by my side.
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Late 20's early 30's is prime pumping years though. Look for career oriented women, give em a good pumpin and get them to give you cash.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
somewhat. this new generation of women, I've met a lot who don't think they have a biological clock. Nothing really wrong with them personality-wise, but they are delusional as fug. They focus on a career all through their prime breeding years and will tell anyone they have plenty of time to figure out marriage + kids. Meet them all the time and they just plain aren't interested in dating anyone, either. Woman is nearing 30 and still thinks she can put it off a few more years.
thats basically women in NYC, they dont end up having kids and act as if its a choice. Honestly, I feel bad for them. Tons of low value males in NYC who also cant pull anything, i see tons of dudes walking around with 3/10s its pathetic lol
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