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post 1636028303 04-12-2021, 12:35 PM
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Dating in late 20s early 30s is bleek

unless you score a younger chick, most girls your age are either single moms, divorcees, or just crazy alcoholics.

otherwise they'd be wifed up

there is no in between
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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somewhat. this new generation of women, I've met a lot who don't think they have a biological clock. Nothing really wrong with them personality-wise, but they are delusional as fug. They focus on a career all through their prime breeding years and will tell anyone they have plenty of time to figure out marriage + kids. Meet them all the time and they just plain aren't interested in dating anyone, either. Woman is nearing 30 and still thinks she can put it off a few more years.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
somewhat. this new generation of women, I've met a lot who don't think they have a biological clock. Nothing really wrong with them personality-wise, but they are delusional as fug. They focus on a career all through their prime breeding years and will tell anyone they have plenty of time to figure out marriage + kids. Meet them all the time and they just plain aren't interested in dating anyone, either. Woman is nearing 30 and still thinks she can put it off a few more years.
Yep and then they end up alone forever doing ONS or casual dating lol
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Late 20s - early 30s is fine. You can still be dating girls around the 26-28 age range. Not a big deal at all.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
somewhat. this new generation of women,
The phenomenon of a single woman past the age of 25 automatically equating to being crazy is no longer true. The dating scene has evolved massively in the last couple of generations stemming from technological advancement. Being perpetually single is basically just a common lifestyle at this point. Women don't have to settle for a resource provider anymore, and so they don't.

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Funny I actually just decided to stop chasing women/cold approaching/etc. Getting laid a few times a year with 6-7.5/10s just aint worth the trouble.

Now I let myself notice pretty females around me and then promptly resume my life.

If I happen to meet a beautiful woman while doing my own thing and we hit it off, then great. Otherwise after 10 years of dating I'm done with this game.
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Originally Posted By Kratos89⏩
Late 20s - early 30s is fine. You can still be dating girls around the 26-28 age range. Not a big deal at all.
thats the goal. probably 24 is the youngest i'll go for something serious
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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no reason you can't bang 20 year olds in your 30s unless you are an agecel
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
Funny I actually just decided to stop chasing women/cold approaching/etc. Getting laid a few times a year with 6-7.5/10s just aint worth the trouble.

Now I let myself notice pretty females around me and then promptly resume my life.

If I happen to meet a beautiful woman while doing my own thing and we hit it off, then great. Otherwise after 10 years of dating I'm done with this game.
that lasts a few months and then you are back to hunting those 5/10 slampigs
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post 1636034363 04-12-2021, 01:48 PM
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b...bbb but misc told me i would be a slayer deep into my 50's if i just lifted and drove a 3 series.... plz respond
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post 1636034703 04-12-2021, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
somewhat. this new generation of women, I've met a lot who don't think they have a biological clock. Nothing really wrong with them personality-wise, but they are delusional as fug. They focus on a career all through their prime breeding years and will tell anyone they have plenty of time to figure out marriage + kids. Meet them all the time and they just plain aren't interested in dating anyone, either. Woman is nearing 30 and still thinks she can put it off a few more years.
Women seem to think they're men these days even though biologically they are women and will find that out as they age.
post 1636034813 04-12-2021, 01:55 PM
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just don't use the internet for it.

don't care about yall nerds stories. srs

literally just put yourself where good people would be. facilitate it

also don't care about your (and whoever's) excuses
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First, I sort of agree with OP. The oldest girl I dated that didn't "have something wrong with her" was 31. However, the beauty of getting older for me was realizing that I don't need a perfect angel with no past. You are dating the girl, not her past.

But I also say that to also say...some girls want to make you date her past. I quickly smashed and dashed those chicks. And in that regard, its amazing how many girls in their 30s and 40s who are on the dating scene bring a ton of baggage and want to throw it at you immediately. Fuk that, I'm outtie 5000! (but not before I put my penor in your damaged mouth)
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Why would you be dating someone over the age of 25 in your late 20s early 30s?
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
b...bbb but misc told me i would be a slayer deep into my 50's if i just lifted and drove a 3 series.... plz respond
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s because women since my generation (Gen X) were raised and conditioned to focus on education and career and to get a degree and work and take pride in that as their main achievement.

We were literally raised to focus on that so it’s no wonder girls do so. Focusing on finding a good husband as first priority is really not encouraged by anyone.

You can’t really blame individual women for this because our entire culture and upbringing conditions us to focus on education and career.
Typical cope and abdication of responsibility
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
just don't use the internet for it.

don't care about yall nerds stories. srs

literally just put yourself where good people would be. facilitate it

also don't care about your (and whoever's) excuses
its 2021 people's main dating pool is tinder

i remember when tinder was lit back in like 2013 or whatever

now it's literally pay to win and I refuse to drop $30/month for tinder gold lol
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Or are careermaxxing and dont see the water as its draining, especially those in STEM/grad school that move from state to state for new positions.

Cats and getting their names on papers
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Originally Posted By orangetide⏩
Or are careermaxxing and dont see the water as its draining, especially those in STEM/grad school that move from state to state for new positions.

Cats and getting their names on papers
worse.... travelcels

i dated a girl who was 30/31 and still all about that travel life and going out for drinks, social media, flexing etc. still lived at home and had no real goals of getting her own place again etc.

idk i just found it unattractive. and she would say if i asked her to marry her she would say yes. i never did because i didn't like what i saw. but sex was great srs

but i can see why nobody wifed her up yet.
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s the reality and why this problem exists. Literally for the past 3 decades or so girls have been told to focus on their education and career.
Seems like women were unhappy in the home

And are unhappy in the workplace

Wtf yall after anyway?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s because women since my generation (Gen X) were raised and conditioned to focus on education and career and to get a degree and work and take pride in that as their main achievement.

We were literally raised to focus on that so it’s no wonder girls do so. Focusing on finding a good husband as first priority is really not encouraged by anyone.

You can’t really blame individual women for this because our entire culture and upbringing conditions us to focus on education and career.
i thought we lived in a misogynist society that only wants women in the kitchen? The problem with society, and i'm not talking about just women, is that there is no personal responsibility anymore. Society wants the cake and to eat it too. they want to have a career and success but wonder why other parts of their life are struggling.

The best people on earth are the ones who find BALANCE. Focus on your career, but know yourself well enough to know that if you want a family and children, you have to put in the work for that too. You can't just put off a family for a whole decade and then wonder why you don't have that. You didn't put in the work. You thought other things were more important. or you ignored your own feelings (because muh society) or simply didn't know yourself well enough.

You can 100% blame a woman if she's in her mid 30s...unhappy...and childless. only the weakest of the weak want to blame society for their poor decisions that ultimately lead to their own unhappiness.
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Originally Posted By awwchit2⏩
worse.... travelcels

i dated a girl who was 30/31 and still all about that travel life and going out for drinks, social media, flexing etc. still lived at home and had no real goals of getting her own place again etc.

idk i just found it unattractive. and she would say if i asked her to marry her she would say yes. i never did because i didn't like what i saw. but sex was great srs

but i can see why nobody wifed her up yet.
Lol this is 'peter pan' syndrome men get murked for but for women it is just fine. Life is fuked so just go and travel and bit more, it is like a drug addiction.
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Just downloaded dating apps and I see a bunch of hot late 20’s girls on there, but why hasn’t anyone wifed them up yet? Makes me think something is off
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
Just downloaded dating apps and I see a bunch of hot late 20’s girls on there, but why hasn’t anyone wifed them up yet? Makes me think something is off
tfw you realize half of those girls have bfs/husbands
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By zknarc⏩
Lol this is 'peter pan' syndrome men get murked for but for women it is just fine. Life is fuked so just go and travel and bit more, it is like a drug addiction.
she had almost 2k followers on ig so.

but the first time i fukd her i came the hardest i ever came in my life srs.

she was hot
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By jlick⏩
i thought we lived in a misogynist society that only wants women in the kitchen? The problem with society, and i'm not talking about just women, is that there is no personal responsibility anymore. Society wants the cake and to eat it too. they want to have a career and success but wonder why other parts of their life are struggling.

The best people on earth are the ones who find BALANCE. Focus on your career, but know yourself well enough to know that if you want a family and children, you have to put in the work for that too. You can't just put off a family for a whole decade and then wonder why you don't have that. You didn't put in the work. You thought other things were more important. or you ignored your own feelings (because muh society) or simply didn't know yourself well enough.

You can 100% blame a woman if she's in her mid 30s...unhappy...and childless. only the weakest of the weak want to blame society for their poor decisions that ultimately lead to their own unhappiness.
totally.. you can even see it in her response. but mostly because i know what she's generally like i guess with the whole "we're hardwired to be x way" but then simultaneously saying we're malleable enough to be influenced by current culture!

when women revert back to their desires/ wants/ wishes in a man they always blame biology. like... through evolution we liked the bad boy! so that's why we do

not sure why it's never said to fuken smarten up and make a good decision. i'm attracted to 10/10's but dont want them for a relationship, because i know it's dumb

it's never talked about that way. srs

you actually prob have more men trying to change their behavior to what women want lol
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