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post 1641025843 06-16-2021, 04:22 PM
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Never met a woman I'd consider equal. All the insta thot/snap chat hoes that do anything for attention are literal trash. Those seem to be the ones I can easily get dates with

And of course I'm a miscers so I'm not even sure where I'd meet a normal girl irl. I do well at bars/clubs etc.. But it's normally the same trash teir women
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post 1641026013 06-16-2021, 04:25 PM
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You’re probably just autistic
post 1641026923 06-16-2021, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Mike1991⏩
I got bad news bro

If you are good looking you will for sure get laid, Ussually by the second date at the latest
The flip side of that coin could be the chick playing hard to get, wanting you to get more invested in her.
post 1641027363 06-16-2021, 04:46 PM
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That's why old school gender role culture was good and the norm for most of human civilisation - women fit a man's purpose in birthing their offspring, raising children and making a home work. If she is a good friend and you both click then that's an advantage.

Now things have changed where the man has to click with her personality, fit her purpose of being a giga Chad and raise children while she streams social media as attention whores.

As a man you shouldn't HAVE to click with a woman to be in a LTR with them, that's why men in the olden days in armies such as the Mongolians/Macedonians spent their entire lives in conquest with other guys as company and were perfectly happy.
post 1641027583 06-16-2021, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By FastBack6⏩
I go out with women, often around my age (29) and they act shocked that I want to be smashing on the third date. Like really lady? You thought I was talking to you because I wanted to hear about your dog and the Verizon store you’re a part owner of? Like holy **** this isn’t high school anymore. I want to take your clothes off, fuk you stupid and then order Chinese food after while we watch some crappy movie. How do they not know this?

I’ve ghosted so many over the past few months because they just couldn’t get with the program
Don’t forget her wine tasting hobby and traveling lmao. This is why younger women are ideal. They will appreciate your company more and don’t expect any serious commitment from the getgo. Older chicks in our age range and older 30+ (do not want) expect a lot and offer nothing in return. The majority just dangle their clammy caverns above our head and expect us to roll over and do flips like a trained dog.

Older women put up a front and will act cold and refrain from giving you any compliments. Idc for compliments, but at least that can give you some incentive to reciprocate and pursue.
post 1641028963 06-16-2021, 05:09 PM
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All the good women are scooped up quick and locked down. The ones remaining...you're better off continuing to whoremaxx. Also the ones you find interesting or attractive and really like, you can guarantee she has 20 other guys orbiting her who feel the same way. There's no point anymore.
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post 1641029853 06-16-2021, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted By IvanFiveLiter⏩
The flip side of that coin could be the chick playing hard to get, wanting you to get more invested in her.
Na they will say that but if you give the want to **** eyes and are attractive it's all over.
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post 1641030823 06-16-2021, 05:42 PM
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went out with the hottest chick 3 times, no play. didnt invite me in after the 3rd date. should i rope
post 1641035003 06-16-2021, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
went out with the hottest chick 3 times, no play. didnt invite me in after the 3rd date. should i rope
Did you send her your avatar pic without the towel?
post 1641076973 06-17-2021, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
What are some things you're really into? Do you date women into your hobbies of choice?

Also, you're gonna have to wean off the whores if you're looking for something genuine.
Just typical 'bro' stuff, lifting, gaming, watching football (soccer), whoremaxxing.

I suppose the only girls that fit my hobbies are the ones that like going to the gym and lifting etc but it doesn't matter since I never approach women in the gym.

The only way I can meet women in my circumstances is online dating and bars/clubs.
post 1641078983 06-17-2021, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Just typical 'bro' stuff, lifting, gaming, watching football (soccer), whoremaxxing.

I suppose the only girls that fit my hobbies are the ones that like going to the gym and lifting etc but it doesn't matter since I never approach women in the gym.

The only way I can meet women in my circumstances is online dating and bars/clubs.
Are you interested in making any changes or nah?
post 1641079163 06-17-2021, 11:43 AM
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Na I loved my first gf so much it was just after I lost her I didn’t want tj put myself in a position tj face similar pain. So I still have my life helping girls I just chose ones I wasn’t able tj have emotional connection tj in order for my safety
post 1641079573 06-17-2021, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
Only met one girl who I actually loved. I would have died for her 1000 times. She was smart as **** and hilarious and playful and sexy and I miss her rip
What happened brah
post 1641079623 06-17-2021, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By JayJ350⏩
A lot of women these days are the same vapid sloots, their hobbies are shopping and using social media lol.
pretty much this. Not to mention they've pretty much lost their ability to pair bond.

Not to say there aren't good ones out there but more or less, any chick in the west with internet access or who went to public school has been compromised in one way or another.
post 1641079633 06-17-2021, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By ZimWell⏩
What happened brah
He didn’t like her penis
post 1641079993 06-17-2021, 11:54 AM
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I can't relate to anyone because everyone around age is into the same liberal ideology and interests like tik toks, Post malones, netflix and twitch

There's just no way to relate to that stuff
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post 1641080663 06-17-2021, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Just typical 'bro' stuff, lifting, gaming, watching football (soccer), whoremaxxing.

I suppose the only girls that fit my hobbies are the ones that like going to the gym and lifting etc but it doesn't matter since I never approach women in the gym.

The only way I can meet women in my circumstances is online dating and bars/clubs.
You've got the personality of a rock. Add in the fact that you've programmed yourself that women are just whores...I see being a full time sex tourist in your future.
post 1641080703 06-17-2021, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
Only met one girl who I actually loved. I would have died for her 1000 times. She was smart as **** and hilarious and playful and sexy and I miss her rip
Originally Posted By pantiespending⏩
Na I loved my first gf so much it was just after I lost her I didn’t want tj put myself in a position tj face similar pain. So I still have my life helping girls I just chose ones I wasn’t able tj have emotional connection tj in order for my safety
fukin these

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post 1641082203 06-17-2021, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Are you interested in making any changes or nah?
Yes and no, I do enjoy banging escorts but at times do feel empty. It's not easy with my current circumstances.
Originally Posted By yabbayabba⏩
You've got the personality of a rock. Add in the fact that you've programmed yourself that women are just whores...I see being a full time sex tourist in your future.
I'm actually a pretty funny guy IRL although been told I have a very dry sense of humor.
post 1641082253 06-17-2021, 12:23 PM
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Maybe you'll connect with men
post 1641082493 06-17-2021, 12:25 PM
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tfw you'll never feel that young innocent love of your first hs gf

post 1641082983 06-17-2021, 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
...Whenever I've been on dates with girls all I'm thinking about is the end result/shagging them.
you answered your own question

you're shallow and too self absorbed to genuinely care about anyone else ibby

you think you're a chad but you're just a mini-abdul
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post 1641083443 06-17-2021, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By rockr101⏩
you answered your own question

you're shallow and too self absorbed to genuinely care about anyone else ibby

you think you're a chad but you're just a mini-abdul
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tfw also will never be 15 and in love
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there's definitely chill/cool women out there still, however they are definitely few and far between and most are probably already in relationships. getting lucky with timing is a big part of finding a good woman, cause there's no reason for an attractive woman with a good personality to not be in a relationship. just gotta be patient and put yourself in situations where you're more likely to meet the kind of person you're interested in.

as cucked as it is to say my ex was actually a really fun person to be around and i do miss her company from time to time

keep improving yourself and your own life in the meantime
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post 1641086593 06-17-2021, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By rockr101⏩
you answered your own question

you're shallow and too self absorbed to genuinely care about anyone else ibby

you think you're a chad but you're just a mini-abdul
LMAO, this. Stop smashing whores and see a therapist Ibrahim.
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