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post 1641018663 06-16-2021, 02:33 PM
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Anyone else just can't connect with women?

I've pretty much never been able to 'click' with a girl IRL, maybe temporarily but that's it. Whenever I've been on dates with girls all I'm thinking about is the end result/shagging them.

The whole concept of having a girlfriend/LTR with someone you enjoy being around just seems completely alien to me despite most men having experienced this.

Since whoremaxxing and smashing over 40 different escorts I think I've pretty much gone past the point of no return. I see myself partaking in this hobby well into my 50's without ever settling down.
post 1641018803 06-16-2021, 02:36 PM
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No wonder. Girls are just men with vaginas and no hobbies
I don't rep back
post 1641018883 06-16-2021, 02:37 PM
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post 1641018963 06-16-2021, 02:38 PM
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Never even had a crush?
I'm back, bitches!
post 1641019093 06-16-2021, 02:39 PM
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A lot of women these days are the same vapid sloots, their hobbies are shopping and using social media lol.
post 1641019143 06-16-2021, 02:40 PM
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Why not try going for women of your own race
post 1641019233 06-16-2021, 02:41 PM
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have you tried men?
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post 1641019273 06-16-2021, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Never even had a crush?
Yeah but once I start talking to them properly I lose interest, hence why I've never 'clicked' with anyone.
post 1641019733 06-16-2021, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah
Why not try going for women of your own race
Lol I've been out with all types of sloots. White girls, Black girls, Indians, Asians etc. All the same result.

My preference is Latinas but there's not many of them that aren't escorts here in the UK which is why I regularly smash Brazilian hookers.
post 1641019983 06-16-2021, 02:52 PM
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In this clown world I connect with no one but my misc bros
New York
post 1641020033 06-16-2021, 02:52 PM
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Try men
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post 1641021103 06-16-2021, 03:09 PM
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Only met one girl who I actually loved. I would have died for her 1000 times. She was smart as **** and hilarious and playful and sexy and I miss her rip
post 1641021413 06-16-2021, 03:14 PM
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You need to meet a decent girl, not an instagram thot.

Ive meet my girl in the activity club i did for a while, she doesn't use social media, cooks, has strong values, family oriented, cleans, is smart and has hobbies and best of all has a sense of humor better than just about anyone I know, she cracks me up and we do silly things together.
post 1641021573 06-16-2021, 03:17 PM
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Just have to find one with common interests and goals. Who is attractive. Has a good job. Pretty, thin, nice set of taters.

Basically vaporware OP. Good luck with your quest.
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post 1641021613 06-16-2021, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By BuildKing
You need to meet a decent girl, not an instagram thot.

Ive meet my girl in the activity club i did for a while, she doesn't use social media, cooks, has strong values, family oriented, cleans, is smart and has hobbies and best of all has a sense of humor better than just about anyone I know, she cracks me up and we do silly things together.
How do you get into these activity clubs?
post 1641021693 06-16-2021, 03:19 PM
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Just get a pussy pocket and be done

You can’t connect because you’re a whoremonger, and women are just holes to you.

Who connects with a hole?
post 1641021803 06-16-2021, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Who connects with a hole?
dickheads
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post 1641021873 06-16-2021, 03:21 PM
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I have no problem talking to them and making a “connection” but its all a smashing motive. I had more patience for the small talk and witty banter when I was younger but not so much into my late 20’s. Idc for the compliments such as “you’re so witty” “you’re clever and cute” “good looking with a brain”. So are we porking or what?
post 1641021983 06-16-2021, 03:22 PM
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Someone who users hookers frequently can't connect with a woman................................ what a surprise!!!
post 1641022003 06-16-2021, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules
I usually connect deeply for a few months then get bored
Same. Once I take the pussy goggles off and see that she’s just like all the others I lose interest and want to be single again. Such is life
post 1641022073 06-16-2021, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By DigDeeper1
Someone who users hookers frequently can't connect with a woman................................ what a surprise!!!
He is basically the male version of the sloots he is complaining about.
post 1641022103 06-16-2021, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Better
dickheads
Touché
post 1641022503 06-16-2021, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By IvanFiveLiter
I have no problem talking to them and making a “connection” but its all a smashing motive. I had more patience for the small talk and witty banter when I was younger but not so much into my late 20’s. Idc for the compliments such as “you’re so witty” “you’re clever and cute” “good looking with a brain”. So are we porking or what?
I go out with women, often around my age (29) and they act shocked that I want to be smashing on the third date. Like really lady? You thought I was talking to you because I wanted to hear about your dog and the Verizon store you’re a part owner of? Like holy **** this isn’t high school anymore. I want to take your clothes off, fuk you stupid and then order Chinese food after while we watch some crappy movie. How do they not know this?

I’ve ghosted so many over the past few months because they just couldn’t get with the program
post 1641023383 06-16-2021, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Just get a pussy pocket and be done

You can’t connect because you’re a whoremonger, and women are just holes to you.

Who connects with a hole?
golf ball
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post 1641023663 06-16-2021, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet
Yeah but once I start talking to them properly I lose interest, hence why I've never 'clicked' with anyone.
What are some things you're really into? Do you date women into your hobbies of choice?

Also, you're gonna have to wean off the whores if you're looking for something genuine.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1641024133 06-16-2021, 03:56 PM
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Chicks dig me because i rarely wear underwear, and when i do, it's usually something unusual.
post 1641024613 06-16-2021, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
Chicks dig me because i rarely wear underwear, and when i do, it's usually something unusual.
Like their mouf
post 1641025033 06-16-2021, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By JayJ350
How do you get into these activity clubs?
Well depending on the things you do, there are many different you know... like running, different sports clubs to play sports, I know some people who like reading have some book clubs or something, there are like health things or picking up things like massage classes there are TONS
post 1641025173 06-16-2021, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted By FastBack6
I go out with women, often around my age (29) and they act shocked that I want to be smashing on the third date. Like really lady? You thought I was talking to you because I wanted to hear about your dog and the Verizon store you’re a part owner of? Like holy **** this isn’t high school anymore. I want to take your clothes off, fuk you stupid and then order Chinese food after while we watch some crappy movie. How do they not know this?

I’ve ghosted so many over the past few months because they just couldn’t get with the program
I got bad news bro

If you are good looking you will for sure get laid, Ussually by the second date at the latest
RON PAUL 2012
post 1641025273 06-16-2021, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By BuildKing
Well depending on the things you do, there are many different you know... like running, different sports clubs to play sports, I know some people who like reading have some book clubs or something, there are like health things or picking up things like massage classes there are TONS
Yeah but like how do you find these clubs?
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