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post 1641330403 06-21-2021, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
I got drunk raped too. Some girl i knew since freshman year, she was roommates with my roommate's girlfriend and she hung out with us sometimes. I kinda liked her and she kinda liked me but nothing happened. Then she dated the center on the basketball team, then got passed around the football team. At that point i thought she was a disgusting whore, but i was still friendly wihh her, she roomed with another friends girlfriend junior or senior year. Anyway second semester senior year i saw her at a party.and she was super friendly and kept bringing me beer after beer. She drove me to the bar for the afterparty and bought me drinks there. Then she drove me home put me to bed, professed her love to me and raped me while i was going in and out of consciousness. I got my first std test shortly after that night, fortunately all she gave me was a uti...
Same thing happened to me a couple times, but no UTI.

I will also talk to my girls about getting themselves in compromising situations and sending the wrong signals. You can't control what a rapey azzhole will do, but you can minimize your part.
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Lol can't do anything with these American ****s. Try and get an education and you get raped instead, lmao
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Damn... a lot of guys coming forward with rape stories.
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Unpopular opinion:

I do believe a large number of rape reportings are actually sex regret or revenge. It happened to me a two friends and that was 20 years ago.
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post 1641333103 06-21-2021, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
Unpopular opinion:

I do believe a large number of rape reportings are actually sex regret or revenge. It happened to me a two friends and that was 20 years ago.
I'm a firm believer that about half (or more) of what gets reported on college campuses is this. And even outside that environment. Sucks to have to say it, but I've had way too many guys I've known where the sex was 100% consensual and then suddenly they get accused of assault or rape because the girl either got mad because they were treated badly, caught cheating because they had a partner, or didn't want to look like a sloot. And as much as courts will deny it, if a girl gets drunk and does something, being drunk doesn't absolve them if the sex is also consensual.

It must be hard to be a guy in college today with all this hanging over your head. I'd have a hard time not recording girls secretly or at the very least making sure there's lots of evidence everything was wanted.
post 1641333333 06-21-2021, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
I'm a firm believer that about half (or more) of what gets reported on college campuses is this. And even outside that environment. Sucks to have to say it, but I've had way too many guys I've known where the sex was 100% consensual and then suddenly they get accused of assault or rape because the girl either got mad because they were treated badly, caught cheating because they had a partner, or didn't want to look like a sloot. And as much as courts will deny it, if a girl gets drunk and does something, being drunk doesn't absolve them if the sex is also consensual.

It must be hard to be a guy in college today with all this hanging over your head. I'd have a hard time not recording girls secretly or at the very least making sure there's lots of evidence everything was wanted.
I always scratch my head when they say the girl was drunk and couldn't consent when the guy was also drunk. I know there the mechanics of it, but I thought th argument was about being impared.
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post 1641338453 06-21-2021, 01:00 PM
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Reminds me of that movie Promising Young Woman. "We were just kids" when one of the male aggressor characters was reflecting on a rape occurrence from college, but let's be honest even though your brain's not fully developed until ~25, morality and judgment should be top notch by like 18-20 anyways. Sad that people take advantage of others during vulnerable moments, but are big wusses/liars when it comes to facing a true and harsh conversation about the subject, especially of course when there's legal involvement.

Don't get me wrong though. There's plenty of slooty gold digging backstabbing vengeful people, especially at younger and immature ages. And I feel lots of sympathy for male victims who are at the short end of fake/fraud rape claims, just as I feel sympathy forrealrape victims
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Damn... a lot of guys coming forward with rape stories.
Chit happens a lot man. I know 2 different girls have had sex with me while I was passed out. It happens the other way too. I've seen girls get roofied by chitbags at the bar. One touristy place I lived it got so bad that they were telling girls not to drink anything other than longneck bottles or cans at bars because it was harder to sneak pills into.
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The problem is men and women on the same campus. They should stay separated.
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
Chit happens a lot man. I know 2 different girls have had sex with me while I was passed out. It happens the other way too. I've seen girls get roofied by chitbags at the bar. One touristy place I lived it got so bad that they were telling girls not to drink anything other than longneck bottles or cans at bars because it was harder to sneak pills into.
Was out with a group of friends one night and one of the girls was getting hit on by a guy hard. Kept an eye on them and when we decided to leave he almost tried to fight me to get her to stay but she was acting weird and said she didn't feel good. Super sketchy and then within an hour of us getting in the cab she was messed up and passed out and didn't drink that much. Guy definitely roofied her at some point and was trying to get her alone.
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
Chit happens a lot man. I know 2 different girls have had sex with me while I was passed out. It happens the other way too. I've seen girls get roofied by chitbags at the bar. One touristy place I lived it got so bad that they were telling girls not to drink anything other than longneck bottles or cans at bars because it was harder to sneak pills into.
This might be an ignorant question but how are the guys erect if it’s against their will?

Is it a case of being so drunk your dik still gets hard after being fondled, but you’re just completely out of it and consciously unaware or unable to resist?
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This might be an ignorant question but how are the guys erect if it’s against their will?

Is it a case ofbeing so drunk your dik still gets hard after being fondled, but you’re just completely out of it and consciously unawareor unable to resist?
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If College Rape Culture was a real concern, and 1 in 4 women were truly sexually assaulted on campus, no father would let their daughter go to college, and no girl would have a desire to go either.

That’s all you need to know
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The West has a slooty (men and women) culture problem. If you're going to have young horny adults around each other 24/7 for multiple years you either need strict separation of the sexes or an acceptance of rape, STDs, and unwanted pregnancies.

There is no place where men and women can be around each other, be extremely horny all time, and just magically refrain from any sexual contact. Especially when you factor in socially acceptable alcohol and drug use.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This might be an ignorant question but how are the guys erect if it’s against their will?

Is it a case of being so drunk your dik still gets hard after being fondled, but you’re just completely out of it and consciously unaware or unable to resist?
I dated a chick who i think was a legit nympho for a while. I woke up multiple times to her riding me cowgirl. Not sure exactly how she got everything going, but she absolutely initiated sex with me completely drunk and unconscious and she did it several times. It's definitely possible.
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Originally Posted By batmanman⏩
I was raped SEVERAL times in college

Roofied once, then other times the girls just waited til I was so drunk that I would just go with it

Only once was a fat chick, other times it was girls I had turned down already, like nerdy band geek girls who just wanted their piece of the pie

Funniest time was after one of them came I just pushed her off and I'm like "ok you got what you wanted"

Women are huge rape culture enthusiasts at universities andits never the ones you want to bang

Hadn't been drunk raped (by a woman) since I was 15 before I went to college

NEVER trust women
^This. It's always the fat and/or ugly girls you don't want that do this sh*t

People and girls especially need to understand that male rape is REAL and can be just as psychologically damaging
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Originally Posted By Nocturne808⏩
People and girls especially need to understand that male rape is REAL and can be just as psychologically damaging
Male rape is real, but it's not psychologically damaging. It happened to me and i was grossed out that i had sex with that smelly skank, and i was paranoid until i got my std results. But a week or 2 later i was laughing about it with my friends and i truly didn't care.

I can't speak for the other guys who commented, but no one seems too torn up about it.

Women get truly broken by this chit. I imagine it would be similar if a dude got ass raped, but vaginal sex with a woman that doesn't result in disease or pregnancy will almost always get shrugged off with no long term consequences.
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Male rape is real, but it's not psychologically damaging. It happened to me and i was grossed out that i had sex with that smelly skank, and i was paranoid until i got my std results. But a week or 2 later i was laughing about it with my friends and i truly didn't care.

I can't speak for the other guys who commented, but no one seems too torn up about it.

Women get truly broken by this chit. I imagine it would be similar if a dude got ass raped, but vaginal sex with a woman that doesn't result in disease or pregnancy will almost always get shrugged off with no long term consequences.
Yeah, i had an uggo take advantage of me being extremely drunk and passing out. I recall even laughing and saying "no thanks" to her advances, but she kept going anyways. Once i made sure i had no STD's, other than being grossed out about it, i don't feel scarred mentally by it in the slightest.
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
Unpopular opinion:

I do believe a large number of rape reportings are actually sex regret or revenge. It happened to me a two friends and that was 20 years ago.
So which miscer is going to create an app for that? Could just be called Consensual.

Seems straight forward:

- users set up an account w/some type of security
- before smashing both users complete a quick screening/verification process

Then there is a record of consent being given. Should probably have some type of sobriety component so that someone who is too high/drunk can't complete their side of the verification.

Not perfect and not sure how well it would hold up in a real court case, but at least if things don't proceed from verbal allegations/accusations to actually pressing charges then the person being accused would have some kind of record that at X date/time the person claiming that they were raped was able to consent.

It would really be in men's best interest to use such an app and insist that partners do also.

I get that it could kill the mood, but hopefully if you have been seeing someone for awhile vs. just started dating/hook up there should be at least that much trust.
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Alot of sexual assault happens in college.

Alot of girls lie about it in college.

Hope this helps.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
So which miscer is going to create an app for that? Could just be called Consensual.

Seems straight forward:

- users set up an account w/some type of security
- before smashing both users complete a quick screening/verification process

Then there is a record of consent being given. Should probably have some type of sobriety component so that someone who is too high/drunk can't complete their side of the verification.

Not perfect and not sure how well it would hold up in a real court case, but at least if things don't proceed from verbal allegations/accusations to actually pressing charges then the person being accused would have some kind of record that at X date/time the person claiming that they were raped was able to consent.

It would really be in men's best interest to use such an app and insist that partners do also.

I get that it could kill the mood, but hopefully if you have been seeing someone for awhile vs. just started dating/hook up there should be at least that much trust.
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i finished school a little over 10 years ago. this chit wasnt a thing. idk it started around 2012 lmao but serious sometimes around 2012-2014 is when all that crap started up in the schools and the fake rape accusations started going through the roof, the kangaroo courts, all that chit
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem⏩
Please no...

Let's not dive deeper into clown world.
But think of the children!

Yeah, it seems ridiculous.

But if you had a son in college? Lots of horny young people + potential inebriation?

IDK how many are legit vs. false allegations. Seems like "false allegation insurance".
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I wanted to take time out here and say that rape culture is an arena where you will know who your TRUE friends are.

Plenty of guys will hear an accusation about one of their friends raping a girl, and they’ll instantly believe it.

Regardless of all the evidence and explanation to prove your innocence, some people are either too stupid or complete simps.

It’s the gynocentric society we live in.

Many men so are so hell bent over subscribing to beliefs and principles which will never benefit them.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
But think of the children!

Yeah, it seems ridiculous.

But if you had a son in college? Lots of horny young people + potential inebriation?

IDK how many are legit vs. false allegations. Seems like "false allegation insurance".
You have a point, but I just watched a video of a crowd of at least 20 people gather around a police intervention, with their phones in hand, yelling stuff like "get off of him" and other nonsense. My care for humanity and their petty problems is pretty low right now, really just wishing for that asteroid to hurry up.

Hope the future generations find a solution for this false rape epidemic.
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Originally Posted By Contribution05⏩
GJ OP for providing no link or source. My guess is though whatever "study" is being cited probably used ambiguous questions like "if you were both drunk, would you still have sex with her?" and one in three guys saying yes equates to some liberal feminist twisting that to "one in three guys will rape a girl"
Precisely. They do surveys equating an unwanted attempted kiss or unwanted attempted hand holding with rape. Drunk guy made some lewd comments? On par with forcible rape.

College woman actually does get raped by a 26 yr old incel with zero connection to any college? Still lump that in as a campus rape problem. These are almost always scams to get funding. About 1% of college women are raped. One is obviously too many, but they are safer from rape than women their same age not in college.
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