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post 1641480283 06-23-2021, 02:00 PM
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Wow.

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post 1641480453 06-23-2021, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
Had my suspicions when a male friend from work and her started to hang out a lot (long distance relationship). One weekend I was down I did some snooping while she was at work and found a list in her diary of guys she'd slept with - and I wasn't the last name on the list.

Did some more detective work and found out eventually that not only was it that guy, she'd slept with FIVE other guys in six months we'd been distanced, including the very first night she moved there with some random at a party her housemate organized. I was ethered. And she was carrying on like nothing had happened. I'd even met and hung out with two of the guys she was banging. I got her caught when I messaged one of them pretending I was her and then got him to describe how much he loved the insane sex they'd had the night I left after a weekend with her. Gutted.

I made sure I had a couple of days off, knew she was at work and drove down and took all my stuff I'd bought her to make her feel comfortable. Television, furniture, lots of kitchen stuff, etc. I had even adopted a cat for her so she wouldn't be lonely. Took him too. When she got off work my phone literally blew up for days and I just ignored it.
That is brutal bro, but major props for how you handled it. She must have been going insane those couple days.

I never actually caught any exes cheating. When I got suspicious I typically just ghosted them. 9/10 times if you have suspicions, it's for good reasons. Trust your gut.
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post 1641480523 06-23-2021, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted By bchap05
High school GF into my soph year of college. So 3+ years total or so. She joined track team. Had a "friend" we will call Jamal. Started acting different, being less available. Got suspicious. So went into her email (not even sure why I had access this was pretty much before social media, or maybe myspace days). Found pics he had sent her of dink in her mouth. Was upset for like week then was happy to be free. Think I was the last non jamal she was with including her now husband. So the saying was true.
Lol a pic of her sucking his d winner right here
post 1641480843 06-23-2021, 02:07 PM
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Beta story.

Got too drunk at hotel party with with ex-gf and friends.

Went to hotel stairwell to puke and pass out for a good min.

Came back to hotel room and it was very awkward. Turns out ex-gf fuked some dude in the bathroom while I was gone.

I deserved it though, because I cheated on my previous ex with this girl and broke her heart. She did the same thing to me, such is life.
post 1641481243 06-23-2021, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By lilbloaty
Oh yeah

When I was younger I had a drop dead gorgeous gf in school. I got in a fight and was in isolation a few weeks and she started hanging around with some ugly nerdy kunt on breaks. She said he was like a brother and I believed her cause he was so fukkin ugly.

...Well she was caught getting fingered by him on a break on some stairs. Lmfao

Wish I was gay 100% srs. This ptsd is brutal.
Originally Posted By lilbloaty
Oh yeah

When I was younger I had a drop dead gorgeous gf in school. I got in a fight and was in isolation a few weeks and she started hanging around with some ugly nerdy kunt on breaks. She said he was like a brother and I believed her cause he was so fukkin ugly.

...Well she was caught getting fingered by him on a break on some stairs. Lmfao

Wish I was gay 100% srs. This ptsd is brutal.
Originally Posted By lilbloaty
Oh yeah

When I was younger I had a drop dead gorgeous gf in school. I got in a fight and was in isolation a few weeks and she started hanging around with some ugly nerdy kunt on breaks. She said he was like a brother and I believed her cause he was so fukkin ugly.

...Well she was caught getting fingered by him on a break on some stairs. Lmfao

Wish I was gay 100% srs. This ptsd is brutal.
Originally Posted By lilbloaty
Oh yeah

When I was younger I had a drop dead gorgeous gf in school. I got in a fight and was in isolation a few weeks and she started hanging around with some ugly nerdy kunt on breaks. She said he was like a brother and I believed her cause he was so fukkin ugly.

...Well she was caught getting fingered by him on a break on some stairs. Lmfao

Wish I was gay
Originally Posted By lilbloaty
Oh yeah

Also when I was younger I had a drop dead gorgeous gf in school. I got in a fight and was in isolation a few weeks and she started hanging around with some ugly nerdy kunt on breaks. She said he was like a brother and I believed her cause he was so fukkin ugly.

...Well she was caught getting fingered by him on a break on some stairs. Lmfao

Wish I was gay
Jesus Christ man. You let the same exact thing happen to you 5 times?!?
post 1641482093 06-23-2021, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By shmobin
Jesus Christ man. You let the same exact thing happen to you 5 times?!?
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post 1641482243 06-23-2021, 02:27 PM
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saw his bbc in my wife's bf's gf

knew if he smashed my wifes bfs gf then hed smashed my wife too
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post 1641482443 06-23-2021, 02:31 PM
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post 1641488203 06-23-2021, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333
That is brutal bro, but major props for how you handled it. She must have been going insane those couple days.

I never actually caught any exes cheating. When I got suspicious I typically just ghosted them. 9/10 times if you have suspicions, it's for good reasons. Trust your gut.
Yeah I've been burned more often than once just because for some reason I always feel like I need tangible proof. When it's really right in front of me. Latest girlfriend cheated and I saw the signs and still didn't kick her out right away because I didn't have tangible proof beyond very, very obvious things. Hindsight.
post 1641488473 06-23-2021, 04:08 PM
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I left work late and was gonna surprise her at her house.She wasn't home. (It was late)



Texted her and she said she was out drinking with some girl friends. Next morning I drove to the bar/restaurant she worked at and saw her car there.

A few mins later I see a guy drop her off.







Brutal. But I can laugh about it now.
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post 1641488693 06-23-2021, 04:10 PM
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why u still livin in the past dawg? we went thru this shiet in a thread yesterday already bout how misc is shiet now cuz of all da same negative shiet.. yea sloots are sloot we know now get da fuk over it n come up with a thread that will mo fukin uplift ppl, like a cool hobby like kayakin or somethin.. somethin ppl can look forward to in a positive way or think bout, not this same negative cycle of shiet cuz!
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post 1641492613 06-23-2021, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
- My ex-wife announced that she wanted a divorce from me about one month after one of two dogs we had gotten together when they were puppies died from an early (by about 10 years) death due to a freak injury (not not super uncommon for the breed) to her back. Poor dog girl (who was my legit best friend tbh) died in my arms at the vet after my ex giggled and said she "couldn't handle it" when I begged her to join me with our dog while we had the vet put her out of her insanely painful misery.

- About 2 weeks before she demanded divorce, I noticed some chit about "looking for apartments" on our shared laptop. I flat out called her out on it and asked her if she was planning to leave me and asked her to just be truthful with me. She responded by laughing at me and telling me it was a "homework assignment for her 'Teaching English Online students'". In my desperation to believe my wife was being truthful to me, I decided to buy the excuse.

- 1 week before she announced the divorce, she told me "we need to talk about us". I got a horrible gut feeling and spent the entire week on my best behavior and breaking my asss extra hard in OT to help pay off her student loans. Bought her flowers and attempted to shower her with love without even hinting at sex the entire time.

- At the end of the week, she told me she was done with me, and that I had been "nothong more than a paycheck" to her for many years by that point.


- She then threatened to take my (our) kid away and demand bs spousal maintenance payments from me. That is when I started to buck back on her bs, and I encouraged her to remain civil with me through the process. Won 50/50 join child custody and zero spousal payments owed to her in our divorce deal, largely due to my convincing her not to be a total **** about it. In a blue libcuck state that highly favors women in divorce.

At least I am free from her own poor decisions at this point....
so basically your ex wanted to divorce one month after doggo passed, and was looking for an apartment two weeks before doggo passed...
post 1641492743 06-23-2021, 05:14 PM
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were in the living room, she says she's texting her mom, I tell her to ask her mom about something I wanted to know finances related since she owned GFs apartment, girl leaves and I pick up her phone after seeing it buzz expecting her mom's reply and she's sexting this dude who was "just a friend" on her ********, oof lol. Funny enough she blames me for looking at her phone.
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post 1641493163 06-23-2021, 05:23 PM
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I don't have a good story, but a friend of mine has a pretty lulzy one:

- he and friends and their SOs go on some singles cruise
- he pays for his GF
- his GF breaks up with him on cruise
- his ex-GF hooks up with some dude on cruise
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post 1641493313 06-23-2021, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted By rgnx
so basically your ex wanted to divorce one month after doggo passed, and was looking for an apartment two weeks before doggo passed...
Correct.


Basically, she had already decided she was done well before doggo got sick. Thus, she disconnected herself from the misery of it entirely and made me deal with it solo until it was over. Then she bailed.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
Had my suspicions when a male friend from work and her started to hang out a lot (long distance relationship). One weekend I was down I did some snooping while she was at work and found a list in her diary of guys she'd slept with - and I wasn't the last name on the list.

Did some more detective work and found out eventually that not only was it that guy, she'd slept with FIVE other guys in six months we'd been distanced, including the very first night she moved there with some random at a party her housemate organized. I was ethered. And she was carrying on like nothing had happened. I'd even met and hung out with two of the guys she was banging. I got her caught when I messaged one of them pretending I was her and then got him to describe how much he loved the insane sex they'd had the night I left after a weekend with her. Gutted.

I made sure I had a couple of days off, knew she was at work and drove down and took all my stuff I'd bought her to make her feel comfortable. Television, furniture, lots of kitchen stuff, etc. I had even adopted a cat for her so she wouldn't be lonely. Took him too. When she got off work my phone literally blew up for days and I just ignored it.
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Some of these stories are BRUTAL but not surprising anymore.
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What does monkey branching mean?
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Originally Posted By Zackad
Never really found out in a brutal way. It was either after the fact, or just monkey branching that I discovered.

1st GF was prob the worst...pulled up to her house for her birthday party, as I was sitting outside getting ready to walk in, she called and was like "my ex sees you outside, you have to leave or he won't come to the party". her ex lived like across the street from her lol. went stag to senior prom because of that and it cut pretty deep. though to be fair, i'd homewrecked their relationship so it was pretty karmic.

2nd gf, found out from my close buddy like 2 months after we broke up that aforementioned close buddy of mine had made out with her in a bar shortly after I'd gotten kicked out. We're no longer close, barely even acquaintances. Same buddy also hooked up with the 3rd gf below when we were on a break. granted, they'd had a thing before i started dating #3 but still...c'mon bro.

3rd gf, she was basically monkey branching the entire relationship but I was in denial and believed her when she just claimed they were friends. i don't think she cheated on me, but I think she would have. That gf is now dating another "friend" who she'd previously claimed she was hitting up to coordinate plans for all of us just lmao.
lol wtf you either just pick ch!t girls or have really bad luck
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What does monkey branching mean?
Sloots swinging from dink to dink like a monkey going from tree to tree.
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Easiest way to know who is cheating?

When their phone is unlocked, wait patiently and confirm it’s unlocked, snatch it and run.

If he/she flips the fk out, there’s your answer.

You need not to bother any further. Leave and move on.

But do you have self confidence to leave said cheater or just a punk bish?
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well, I wasn't the sad guy involved but a 40+ year old guy found out his wife (and mother of 2 kids) was cheating because her sex tapes and photos had leaked and were circulating among the youth at my former church

1 of the most brutal because of the humiliation i think
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Originally Posted By illriginalized
Easiest way to know who is cheating?

When their phone is unlocked, wait patiently and confirm it’s unlocked, snatch it and run.

If he/she flips the fk out, there’s your answer.

You need not to bother any further. Leave and move on.

But do you have self confidence to leave said cheater or just a punk bish?
Yeah, in a relationship my girl was super protective over her phone over a sudden when she used to pass me it to show me stuff etc. I took it to "look something up" and she flipped the fk out. Knew right then and there. Just brutal, still hurts thinking about. Miss being FA.
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Originally Posted By lilbloaty
Yeah, in a relationship my girl was super protective over her phone over a sudden when she used to pass me it to show me stuff etc. I took it to "look something up" and she flipped the fk out. Knew right then and there. Just brutal, still hurts thinking about. Miss being FA.
Fuuu. Latest ex would just hand me phone to look **** up. Goat feel. Shame it didn't work out.

Never been knowingly cheated on in a long term relationship but a girl I was casually seeing was having a birthday party. I invited my roommate and he misunderstood when we needed to leave so we ended up being an hour and a half late (not a big deal just pre gaming at her place before everyone went out.) Apparently that pissed her off and she proceeded to ignore me the entire night. Ends up hooking up with her boss and I didn't talk to her again. We did end up randomly hooking up later but she was not dating material at all lol.

Broke up with college gf when I graduated. She was nuts and never told anyone we broke up. I end up getting a message from a guy apologizing for any pain he caused me. Lol'd bad and told him we'd been broken up for three months so go off.
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