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post 1641750863 06-27-2021, 07:15 PM
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By sleeping around you're inviting lots of trouble into your life. Pregnancy scares, STI scares, unknown boyfriend scares, rape fraud scares, straight up psycho sloots too.

If/when I'm single again I'll be holding off on sex myself, and not just because it's a righteous thing to do to convey to women that you value them as people instead of objects.

Avoidance of risk for things that could change your world as you know it.
post 1641750943 06-27-2021, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Dude you're one of the weirdest fukers on misc.
Honestly this

He’s alright tho
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post 1641750963 06-27-2021, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Visel⏩
By sleeping around you're inviting lots of trouble into your life. Pregnancy scares, STI scares, unknown boyfriend scares, rape fraud scares, straight up psycho sloots too.

If/when I'm single again I'll be holding off on sex myself, and not just because it's a righteous thing to do to convey to women that you value them as people instead of objects.

Avoidance of risk for things that could change your world as you know it.
Cope
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post 1641751313 06-27-2021, 07:24 PM
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I agree OP

The system wants you to be a slave to your animal instincts and base desires.

People are easier to control that way.

Porn counts.
post 1641751683 06-27-2021, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
yeah agreed - the momentary excitement is not worth it in the end.

i do not even watch porn because it objectifies men and women.



Yeah right- your past relationships are a direct reflection of who YOU are inside.
Other relationships have been with high quality girls. At the time I started dating this chick, I needed some pussy and was traveling. She was exactly what the doctor ordered.
post 1641752183 06-27-2021, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Visel⏩
By sleeping around you're inviting lots of trouble into your life. Pregnancy scares, STI scares, unknown boyfriend scares, rape fraud scares, straight up psycho sloots too.

If/when I'm single again I'll be holding off on sex myself, and not just because it's a righteous thing to do to convey to women that you value them as people instead of objects.

Avoidance of risk for things that could change your world as you know it.
The risk isn't even worth it. The way that i see the world now is that what really matters is being emotionally stable until you pass away, not the rollercoasters highs and lows - C the f*cking B-F
Originally Posted By Nonsense916⏩
Honestly this

He’s right tho
Thanks brah
Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
most problems in life stem from involvement with women. sex causes nothing but problems. it's a temporary pleasure, just like injecting drugs. feels good for a bit then you crave it again the next day.

not to mention that sex with a condom doesn't even feel great. sex without a condom is too risky.

at least when you jerk off to porn there are no risks involved.
So is porn bro, learn to abstain from fapping, especially to porn, and get your energy levels to go through to your heart, then you'll see true success in life. Feels like you're high on life.
Originally Posted By Freeman3737⏩
I agree OP

The system wants you to be a slave to your animal instincts and base desires.

People are easier to control that way.

Porn counts.
Exactly, this is how we are truly being cucked from our divine nature.
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Other relationships have been with high quality girls. At the time I started dating this chick, I needed some pussy and was traveling. She was exactly what the doctor ordered.
Yeah sure so what's your plan for age 50 and beyond, or you just have not thought that far ahead, OR better yet, your cognition stops when that thought enters your mind, and you just reach for the closest coping mechanism.
Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
porn is great because it's an independent activity. you don't depend on anybody to satisfy yourself. there are no risks with porn.
You're not going to listen to us until you have an understanding of why pornography is bad at a subconscious level
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post 1641752213 06-27-2021, 07:38 PM
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Why do human beings have to limit themselves to very few partners? Disease and random sloots 24/7 I understand and no one wants a promiscuous woman. China has a very low birth rate and they're in a crisis now.

Only incels think sex is bad.
post 1641752443 06-27-2021, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yeah sure so what's your plan for age 50 and beyond, or you just have not thought that far ahead, OR better yet, your cognition stops when that thought enters your mind, and you just reach for the closest coping mechanism.
I will likely be married by then. But if not, it's ok. Although money means less and less as you age, I'll be fairly wealthy by then and will at least be able to have some superficial relationship.
post 1641752463 06-27-2021, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Why do human beings have to limit themselves to very few partners? Disease and random sloots 24/7 I understand and no one wants a promiscuous woman. China has a very low birth rate and they're in a crisis now.

Only incels think sex is bad.
Dude it doesn't even feel THAT great - I'd rather be well rested and full of carbs, sip on my preworkout and have an intense 2-3 hour gym session than just bang some chick that i don't actually like or wanna be with, and then continue to dominate in other aspects of life.

Think about it, what do you get out of simply hedonistic pleasures apart from a waste of time or some sort of escape mechanism
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I will likely be married by then. But if not, it's ok. Although money means less and less as you age, I'll be fairly wealthy by then and will at least be able to have some superficial relationship.
LOL - yeah, good luck with that one, you'll need it based on your loose attitude towards love and sex.

You'll need to completely change that attitude before you're ABLE to get into a loving and stable longterm relationship.
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post 1641756383 06-27-2021, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Have you ever had a hot girl hit on you or approach you?
Yeah, basically almost every time alcohol or drugs are involved. Haven't you?
post 1641756943 06-27-2021, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity⏩
Yeah, basically almost every time alcohol or drugs are involved. Haven't you?
Nah why don't you tell me about it you dirty lil junkie
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post 1641757083 06-27-2021, 09:07 PM
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I too am picky op..

but you sound like an absolute *******
post 1641757243 06-27-2021, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Nah why don't you tell me about it you dirty lil junkie
There's not much to say. Sloots gonna sloots and if they're drunk or high they'll often do the first move.

Plus if you party at your place and your friends aren't ungrateful bastards they'll basically hook you up with their slooty acquaintances as tribute.
post 1641757363 06-27-2021, 09:14 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Dude it doesn't even feel THAT great - I'd rather be well rested and full of carbs, sip on my preworkout and have an intense 2-3 hour gym session than just bang some chick that i don't actually like or wanna be with, and then continue to dominate in other aspects of life.

Think about it, what do you get out of simply hedonistic pleasures apart from a waste of time or some sort of escape mechanism



LOL - yeah, good luck with that one, you'll need it based on your loose attitude towards love and sex.

You'll need to completely change that attitude before you're ABLE to get into a loving and stable longterm relationship.
I'm not even a guy that brags about sex, it's nothing to brag about, and I don't just bang any woman. A woman that's attractive and a great body, you telling me that wouldn't feel great? You can excel at all aspects of life and still bang sloots.

I crave sex a lot, it's not an on and off switch, can't help it. Even if I was married, I'd still crave sex with other women.
post 1641757513 06-27-2021, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity⏩
There's not much to say. Sloots gonna sloots and if they're drunk or high they'll often do the first move.

Plus if you party at your place and your friends aren't ungrateful bastards they'll basically hook you up with their slooty acquaintances as tribute.
you and your friends sound like dirty little junkies and junkiesses; you're the dregs of society from where i am standing, nothing to brag about mate.
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
But I'm not the type to bang any woman. A woman that's attractive and a great body, you telling me that wouldn't feel great? You can excel at all aspects of life and still bang sloots.

I crave sex a lot, it's not an on and off switch, can't help it. Even if I was married, I'd still crave sex with other women.
Most things that feel great in the moment lead to an unfruitful life.
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post 1641758893 06-27-2021, 09:44 PM
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I know you feel OP. I have had some serious gutter trash women come onto me. A lot of low-grade women think if they just walk up to guys and tell them straight out they want your pp then you'll go for it cuz pussy is pussy lol ur ghey if u dont.

If you have self-respect you would understand the degradation you put yourself through when you screw some low-hanging fruit of a woman. You should understand the disgust of sticking your dick in some slimy, disgusting trash. If you hit the gym 4x a week, how are you not degrading yourself by slumming it up with some lardasses? looking at you, htc crew.
Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Dude you're one of the weirdest fukers on misc.
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post 1641763383 06-27-2021, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
you and your friends sound like dirty little junkies and junkiesses; you're the dregs of society from where i am standing, nothing to brag about mate.



Most things that feel great in the moment lead to an unfruitful life.
Yeah, because "junkies" get high 2-4 times a year. You sound like a judgmental loser, no wonder women doing the first move is such a foreign concept to you.
post 1641769563 06-28-2021, 04:44 AM
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Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity⏩
Yeah, because "junkies" get high 2-4 times a year. You sound like a judgmental loser, no wonder women doing the first move is such a foreign concept to you.
It's you life not mine.

Also, only crazy bitches make the first move and chase men.

Normal women know that a normal, functioning male will approach them first if he likes them, so they do gay stuff like standing next to you at a bar, etc.
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Men not starting families married to a rich and clean woman do not take care of themselves.
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Yet another case where freedom leads to hedonism, hubris, and ruin. Sexual liberty, like all forms of liberty is both a gift and a curse. It's empowering, but with all great power, comes great responsibility. I do not believe the average person is capable of wielding this type of agency over their lives. I think people need to be told what to do. When free to sloot around, a lot of people will, and then they will regret their actions and start down a spiral of unhappiness, shame, and a need to fill their void with more.

Marriage and chastity ought to be socially enforced. The US was far more stable when it was.
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I go back and forth.

Mostly dont sleep around

A big problem though is women will complain about "players" but then are quick to turn to "desperation" to anybody that shows too much interest

Youll find being a man whore will have little bearing on womens interest, but being desperate will turn them off
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
It's a personality trait. Low inhibitions, dark triad types who have nothing going on in their lives can only compete with traditionally successful people in certain ways. One of those ways is bragging about how many women they bang. Another is fighting. Basic toxic masculinity, low quality men putting on airs trying to seem important.

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Originally Posted By DivineMasculine⏩
Yeah, most times after banging I’m like “why did I do this?”Post nut-in-my-buttclarity is a hell of a drug.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
I go back and forth.

Mostly dont sleep around

A big problem though is women will complain about "players" but then are quick to turn to "desperation" to anybody that shows too much interest

Youll find being a man whore will have little bearing on womens interest, but being desperate will turn them off
Yeah obviously even friendds being desperate is a turn off
Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
op been called the **** out.
lol how so
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yeah obviously even friendds being desperate is a turn off

lol how so
low self awareness as well...

very interesting...
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Dude you're one of the weirdest fukers on misc.
she was the best man
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I go through periods of a couple of months where I'm always horny AF and will f*ck pretty much anything that moves. Then I go through other periods where I'm not that interested in women and don't really pursue them.

After sex with an ugly chick I always regret it, kind of like eating a KFC. Its great while you are doing it but you feel like **** the rest of the day.

I don't think it has anything to do with self respect, as long as you aren't going crazy and banging a new person every day, do what you want.
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Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
low self awareness as well...

very interesting...
I am self aware actually, enough to sort my sh*t out TBH.
Originally Posted By champdude17⏩
I go through periods of a couple of months where I'm always horny AF and will f*ck pretty much anything that moves. Then I go through other periods where I'm not that interested in women and don't really pursue them.

After sex with an ugly chick I always regret it, kind of like eating a KFC. Its great while you are doing it but you feel like **** the rest of the day.

I don't think it has anything to do with self respect, as long as you aren't going crazy and banging a new person every day, do what you want.
yeah dude great analogy
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