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post 1641744623 06-27-2021, 05:14 PM
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Do people who sleep around have very little self-respect?

I'm quite popular with girls and I have opportunities to bang girls all of the time, and if a girl is 'too forward' i'm just like, Ew.

The weird part is ever since i became a lot more discerning and 'ew' at certain people and activities, my life has gotten better and i am more successful at everything.

Doesn't it make more sense for a high value male to NOT sleep around and find a nice girl who thinks the same way?
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post 1641744713 06-27-2021, 05:15 PM
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Dude you're one of the weirdest fukers on misc.
post 1641744753 06-27-2021, 05:16 PM
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very little or too much
post 1641744883 06-27-2021, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Dude you're one of the weirdest fukers on misc.
You're a twink compared to me i am 6'2 230 lbs ATM, i'd fkn staunch you irl
Originally Posted By wincel⏩
very little or too much
yeah as in it sounds good on paper but when it comes down to it its sorta like who knows what you're getting your self into, huh?
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post 1641744933 06-27-2021, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
You're a twink compared to me i am 6'2 230 lbs ATM, i'd fkn staunch you irl
you're fat, good for you, look at your avi
post 1641745393 06-27-2021, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
you're fat, good for you, look at your avi
Thanks for noticing that I'm big-boned
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post 1641745703 06-27-2021, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Dude you're one of the weirdest fukers on misc.
He is actually one of the better ones. The misc is changing boomers. Time to start coming to reality.
The misc is full of a bunch of simp ****ots
post 1641745713 06-27-2021, 05:32 PM
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If you 'ew' at fuking women then you should try men *******.
post 1641745773 06-27-2021, 05:34 PM
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Yes, just banging any sloot is gross. It’s for insecure guys because getting laid to them is a holy grail (just lol).

Just bang the ones you want, it shows you have higher standards and most people are going to respect that.
The misc is full of a bunch of simp ****ots
post 1641746033 06-27-2021, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Schweric⏩
If you 'ew' at fuking women then you should try men *******.
Yeah it's sort of like when you meet some guy who's cool but you're like nah i probably dont wanna be friends with him, might get me into trouble.
Originally Posted By DivineMasculine⏩
Yes, just banging any sloot is gross. It’s for insecure guys because getting laid to them is a holy grail (just lol).

Just bang the ones you want, it shows you have higher standards and most people are going to respect that.
Man, i have at thing that even if you want to bang a chick you probably shouldn't as it goes against my intuition, like it's jsut a compulsion in a way since when you're done banging, you're not going to date them pr anything serious, so what's the point?
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post 1641746983 06-27-2021, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Man, i have at thing that even if you want to bang a chick you probably shouldn't as it goes against my intuition, like it's jsut a compulsion in a way since when you're done banging, you're not going to date them pr anything serious, so what's the point?
Yeah, most times after banging I’m like “why did I do this?” Post but clarity is a hell of a drug.
The misc is full of a bunch of simp ****ots
post 1641747203 06-27-2021, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By DivineMasculine⏩
Yeah, most times after banging I’m like “why did I do this?” Post but clarity is a hell of a drug.
yeah and i'm sorry to say, but i am better than that.

I just feel like there is a stigma in society around avoiding sex, etc, but it may just be where i grew up and who i hung around.

Like if you were not getting pussy you were seen as a loser by my friend group, but i guess i also had that way of thinking - like there's the alpha males who f*ck all the girls (20%) and the betas who get no attention at all from ladies (80%), or just in general there's the guy who f*cks and the guy who doesn't, turns out though that most of the people who i know that f*ck lots of girls are not just interested in banging girls...

Got my self into some SERIOUS trouble though, like each time you make a decision out side of love and from 'logic', etc, you get more and more discontent with life and end up turning to drugs, alcohol, and other weird stuff to feel alive...
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post 1641747303 06-27-2021, 06:00 PM
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ive high test which makes me horny all the time. i also have very good fuk skills, you tend to like something more if you are good at it


other than that youre over thinking it OP, its in our nature to want to fuk
post 1641747573 06-27-2021, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
ive high test which makes me horny all the time. i also have very good fuk skills, you tend to like something more if you are good at it


other than that youre over thinking it OP, its in our nature to want to fuk
That's how serial killers rationalise their behaviour, right?
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post 1641747723 06-27-2021, 06:08 PM
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Op performs mental gymnastics to cope with his low T
post 1641747843 06-27-2021, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Schweric⏩
If you 'ew' at fuking women then you should try men *******.
Sums it up right there.
Plus unless you're struggling with low test even 6s should be hard to turn down if they make the first move.

Who the **** wouldn't want an ez lay with a hot chick unless they're gay, married, or can't get it up?
post 1641747963 06-27-2021, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Slaydom⏩
Op performs mental gymnastics to cope with his low T
I feel great and have high test
Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity⏩
Sums it up right there.
Plus unless you're struggling with low test even 6s should be hard to turn down if they make the first move.

Who the **** wouldn't want an ez lay with a hot chick unless they're gay, married, or can't get it up?
Have you ever had a hot girl hit on you or approach you?
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post 1641748883 06-27-2021, 06:32 PM
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You're not getting girls into relationships if you aren't banging them. They get bored fast as fuk nowadays. You need to be trying to fuk asap. You can call that "sleeping around" if you like but the whole point of this thread is for you to virtue signal anyway.
post 1641748933 06-27-2021, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
You're not getting girls into relationships if you aren't banging them. They get bored fast as fuk nowadays. You need to be trying to fuk asap. You can call that "sleeping around" if you like but the whole point of this thread is for you to virtue signal anyway.
Because the world works the exact way that YOU understand it right?
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post 1641749173 06-27-2021, 06:39 PM
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It's a personality trait. Low inhibitions, dark triad types who have nothing going on in their lives can only compete with traditionally successful people in certain ways. One of those ways is bragging about how many women they bang. Another is fighting. Basic toxic masculinity, low quality men putting on airs trying to seem important.

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post 1641749473 06-27-2021, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
It's a personality trait. Low inhibitions, dark triad types who have nothing going on in their lives can only compete with traditionally successful people in certain ways. One of those ways is bragging about how many women they bang. Another is fighting. Basic toxic masculinity, low quality men putting on airs trying to seem important.

There's this guy called 'spanian' in Australia who is spent most of his life from 13-29 in and out of jails due to fighting, break and enters, drug dealing, etc, and he didn't bang lots of girls and admittedly isn't the type to bang lots of girls, but he's 6'3 230 lbs and i hear he's a real good fighter in jail - he now has a girlfriend and a kid and stopped doing all that criminal stuff because it doesn't pay, but he's pretty cool and badass.

Then there's other dudes who are ex bikies or whatever and they have recordings talking about sex with trannies, etc
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I dunno, I'm not the type of guy to fuk everything that walks by. But sometimes I'm horny and something falls into my lap. And it feels pretty damn good.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I dunno, I'm not the type of guy to fuk everything that walks by. But sometimes I'm horny and something falls into my lap. And it feels pretty damn good.
Are you not that guy who always has some girl on his mind that also bangs around?
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Let's just say you leave the "Stud" territory and enter the 'Manwhore" territory.

Girls will start sending their fat, lonely friends to you because they know you do anyone.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Are you not that guy who always has some girl on his mind that also bangs around?
Lol, the last girl I dated was a crazy girl with a personality disorder. I've luckily gotten over her though and gone NC.
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28⏩
Let's just say you leave the "Stud" territory and enter the 'Manwhore" territory.

Girls will start sending their fat, lonely friends to you because they know you do anyone.
Yeah my exact thoughts.
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol, the last girl I dated was a crazy girl with a personality disorder. I've luckily gotten over her though and gone NC.
There is a guy out there who is iin a happy and stable relationship with a girl who doesn't have a personality disorder.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yeah my exact thoughts.



There is a guy out there who is iin a happy and stable relationship with a girl who doesn't have a personality disorder.
Yes, and that guy shouldn't sleep around. I'm definitely not the type of guy who seeks validation from having sex with girls, but sometimes sex feels amazing.
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
agreed OP srs. men try to get laid for validation, i.e. society shames men into believing they are worthless losers if they don't get laid.

in reality though, sex is a dangerous activity, similar to doing drugs. risk of STD's, pregnancy, all the drama that goes along with it, false rape accusations, etc.

just because something feels good, doesn't mean we should do it. better off fapping to porn because there are no risks.
yeah agreed - the momentary excitement is not worth it in the end.

i do not even watch porn because it objectifies men and women.
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Yes, and that guy shouldn't sleep around. I'm definitely not the type of guy who seeks validation from having sex with girls, but sometimes sex feels amazing.
Yeah right- your past relationships are a direct reflection of who YOU are inside.
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Originally Posted By the700level⏩
You use the word “like” excessively
Well that's just like your opinion, man.
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