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post 1648634243 10-09-2021, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
It's because of the vibe you give off.

22 bodies by 23 year old is a tad bit too much and the only girls that you can actually get with (based on the universal laws) are the ones online that are desperate for male attention and can only get it via sex.
In my defence some of them have been quite hot, but certaintly not all. Maybe I should be pickier.

Another issue I suffer from when scoping out a target in a club or bar, I tend to quickly categorise girls as either out of my league/too attractive or ugly and then only leave myself with a narrow window im comfortable approaching.
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Originally Posted By VSVP99⏩
nightclub kills as follows:

Chat up everyone you can that day. Get in the groove of talking to strangers.

Get amped up on comedy shows (Dave Chappelle's new bit) and a couple beers pre-game with the boys

Go to the club.. if you see birds along the way, chat them up ("hey, how's the night going?"), tell them where you're headed. If you're aesthetic, they'll come there if their spot isn't it.

At the club, wait for eye contact from her.. or her coming into your area. Helps if you can dance, this will happen more often than not.

Chat her up, initiate physical contact. Smile a lot. Escalate.
Ive done something like this before. On holiday I met this girl, on the walk to the club she walks with me and chats to me the whole way (all very plutonic so im like 50/50 on whether shes into me or not). Then we get the bar and its cash onyl and I only got my card, she buys 2 shots and says you can buy me one back later. Then Im like okay lemme google where is an ATM, then she says shell walk with me to the ATM, then we get the ATM I get some money and we both go back to the club, I buy a shot for me and her, then she takes my hand and leads to the dancefloor, the moment we get there she sort of touches my chest in a sexual flirty way so I put my hands on her waist and she dances in real close to me and then we start making out. Then we do this for like 2 hours and the club shuts and we go the beach and I finger her on the beach and then shes like lets go back to our hostel, im like okay and we go there but then we both just go to our own rooms and go to bed no sexorz. Lol what did I do wrong to blow this it started so well?
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I haven't read any of the responses but the apps are legit where its at. Hinge for example, I live in the DFW metroplex and there are soooooo many girls. In my opinion they feel more comfortable on the apps and can evaluate you as a whole and you can land some seriously successful beautiful girls

however i'm an autist in person i'm not gonna lie so maybe thats just my mindset because i've only ever landed maybe 6-7 girls from bar interactions
post 1648635303 10-09-2021, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By MattKing1⏩
I haven't read any of the responses but the apps are legit where its at. Hinge for example, I live in the DFW metroplex and there are soooooo many girls. In my opinion they feel more comfortable on the apps and can evaluate you as a whole and you can land some seriously successful beautiful girls

however i'm an autist in person i'm not gonna lie so maybe thats just my mindset because i've only ever landed maybe 6-7 girls from bar interactions
Hinge seems a lot better than tinder. Also another reason I favour apps is I dont wanna have to stay out till like 4am at a club to try and get laid, even if im successfull Im so tired by the end I almosrt want sleep more haha
post 1648635543 10-09-2021, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted By wd0694820⏩
Ive done something like this before. On holiday I met this girl, on the walk to the club she walks with me and chats to me the whole way (all very plutonic so im like 50/50 on whether shes into me or not). Then we get the bar and its cash onyl and I only got my card, she buys 2 shots and says you can buy me one back later. Then Im like okay lemme google where is an ATM, then she says shell walk with me to the ATM, then we get the ATM I get some money and we both go back to the club, I buy a shot for me and her, then she takes my hand and leads to the dancefloor, the moment we get there she sort of touches my chest in a sexual flirty way so I put my hands on her waist and she dances in real close to me and then we start making out. Then we do this for like 2 hours and the club shuts and we go the beach and I finger her on the beach and then shes like lets go back to our hostel, im like okay and we go there but then we both just go to our own rooms and go to bed no sexorz. Lol what did I do wrong to blow this it started so well?
Should've told her "let's get a hotel room at a different spot"
post 1648635633 10-09-2021, 05:47 PM
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yoga class OP.

You have to like yoga and want to do it though. If you go in there and immediately start chatting girls up, they can smell that from the second you walk in the door. Go to the same class. If you go in with a decent amount of flexibility, look like you know what you're doing and you're going to yoga to do yoga, then every single girl who has seen you on more than one occasion will immediately drop their guards and it becomes a whole different ball game.

If I'm ever single again, which I doubt, that is the route I will take.
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post 1648636143 10-09-2021, 05:56 PM
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post 1648636273 10-09-2021, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By JeffPesos⏩
yoga class OP.

You have to like yoga and want to do it though. If you go in there and immediately start chatting girls up, they can smell that from the second you walk in the door. Go to the same class. If you go in with a decent amount of flexibility, look like you know what you're doing and you're going to yoga to do yoga, then every single girl who has seen you on more than one occasion will immediately drop their guards and it becomes a whole different ball game.

If I'm ever single again, which I doubt, that is the route I will take.
Tbf this probably could work but I hate the idea of faking interest in something just to get a girl and also feel like girls would be able to tell I was there for ulterior motives if that were the case.

Did have a little look through my gyms classes and they do a HIIT classs which is something I might actually enjoy and may even have some females so perhaps thats worth a shot
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Originally Posted By JeffPesos⏩
yoga class OP.

You have to like yoga and want to do it though. If you go in there and immediately start chatting girls up, they can smell that from the second you walk in the door. Go to the same class. If you go in with a decent amount of flexibility, look like you know what you're doing and you're going to yoga to do yoga, then every single girl who has seen you on more than one occasion will immediately drop their guards and it becomes a whole different ball game.

If I'm ever single again, which I doubt, that is the route I will take.
I'm actually thinking about this, after going to two Yoga classes. How would you start befriending them?
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Originally Posted By wd0694820⏩
In my defence some of them have been quite hot, but certaintly not all. Maybe I should be pickier.

Another issue I suffer from when scoping out a target in a club or bar, I tend to quickly categorise girls as either out of my league/too attractive or ugly and then only leave myself with a narrow window im comfortable approaching.
It doesn't matter how hot somebody is - anybody who is that quick to engage in sexual intercourse is probably quick to engage in other unfruitful activities.
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Originally Posted By Techriding101⏩
grass is always greener. If you stick with her one day you will both be 30 and 21 year old girls will show you attention and you'll realize they are better than your age-matched girl in every way
This goes both ways, though.


Essentially a life of perpetual torment no? You’ll never be happy and the moment you let your guard down you’ll get ejected yourself for someone younger.
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If you're getting laid then who gives a fuk, I'm pretty much the same and have never smashed a girl that I've met IRL. (Apart from a hooker in RLD in Amsterdam lol)

All the girls I've smashed have either been tinder sloots or escorts that I've found online.

If you're not in the right social circle or have mad charisma then you don't have many other options tbh.
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Originally Posted By wd0694820⏩
srs. never slayed a girl irl. Have come close a few times and gotten unlucky imo. I fingered a girl I met on holiday in croatia but thats the cloest ive come. What advice would you give me to get my first irl slay becuase it feels like its never gonna happen at this rate
Just be social and it will come. There is no magic formula.

Think of it in terms of numbers, or like playing the lottery. The more tickets you buy the greater your odds. Every ticket in this case is a woman you meet.

It all boils down to increasing the amount of women you meet, improving your exposure to women.

So yea, be more social.
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I mean I used to clown on online dating but you can really quickly sort through likes and dislikes that way. Obviously something like Tinder or Bumble isn't going to yield many great relationships but I am sure online dating geared towards relationships would. Old days people just settled, now you go into online dating thinking, I want a woman with no kids, a masters degree, in good shape and bam you got a buncha people that only meet your criteria.
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Originally Posted By wd0694820⏩
srs. never slayed a girl irl. Have come close a few times and gotten unlucky imo. I fingered a girl I met on holiday in croatia but thats the cloest ive come. What advice would you give me to get my first irl slay becuase it feels like its never gonna happen at this rate
Bro this is all you care about. Jesus Christ I hate people like you, which are the type to get upset if you can't win the girl that like's me.

Real girls don't date you in real life because you're considered "Trash" bottom of the barrel besides simps
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Originally Posted By VSVP99⏩
Should've told her "let's get a hotel room at a different spot"
Was like 2am at this point dunno if we could’ve just rocked up somewhere, guess I could have suggested it for another night
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Originally Posted By wd0694820⏩
I dated a super smart and hot lawyer girl I met off tinder for liek 6 months. Always knew she was out of my league though and it was a one off fluke.

I was agree online dating is the worst idea iehter, id still say it beats nightclubs, its the most common way partners meet now days and only rising.

Ideally you should hedge your bets to give you most the most options, online, cold approahc and social cirlce
40% of partners meet online, but among young couples (18-29) i'll bet that its over 50%.

It leaves undesirable men out of the dating scene because their counterparts are dating normies and Chad lites they find online
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