Has seeing a girls exes ever put you off pursuing her?

10-14-2021, 03:40 PM

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I mean it could also say something about you... it's not like she sent from low life drug users/dealers ex cons to a super succesful guy with his head on his shoulders.. your probably a loser too tbh

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10-14-2021, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩

I've got some bad news buddy

Some really

Bad

Fukkin

News

Srs

she's a great wife and a great mother to my kids, but a piece of me has some buyers remorse.

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10-14-2021, 04:39 PM

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My friend dumped his gf a few months back I'm good friends with both of them.

She got a new bf but is still obsessed with her ex. She tells me how her new bf "ticks all the boxes", nice guy handsome good job just bought a house eats her pooci fuks for hours etc.

Meanwhile she still "in love" with the ex who brought none of those things. She even claims he "abused" her. Literally one "I'm coming over" text from the ex and she's back on his dink. Feel bad for the new brah. Meanwhile my friend just running through Tinder hoes while keeping his ex on the hook.

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10-14-2021, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89⏩

EXs baby daddy drove by in his truck
Fat baldcel with cope beard

Started cheating that weekend srs

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10-14-2021, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩

Yes but i can tell sloot right away

As soon as i get the slightest hint of rash decision making

Been seeing this first hand counselling my friend after her breakup. I've been predicting every move she will make with my Doctorate in Miscology.

Misc is always right about women srs. It's been comical how predictable they are and even they self admittedly can't comprehend why they make illogical decisions. Like even they know they are doing retarded chit but can't stop themselves.

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10-14-2021, 04:48 PM

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Yes. Once I saw she that had enough Exs to fill a small arena I bounced.

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10-14-2021, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted By TonyTriangles⏩

been with my wife 16 years (13 being married) and i try not to think about it since it still gets under my skin. she had a thing for dating military guys and i didnt know until a few years after we got married. i was cleaning up some chit in the garage and there was a bunch of stuff in boxes from her parents place. i started going through them and i felt like chit.... saw pics of her with different guys in their uniforms. really pissed me off since i was in the military when i met her. i brought it up to her, asking why the **** she keeps **** like this. she said she forgot.... still didnt make sense since we dated for a few years, all the while those pics were in her room. then i made a remark, asking her wtf is up with you dating so many military guys.... told her it made me feel insignificant, especially since most of them were officers (i was enlisted). i dont remember what she said afterwards but it just made it worse and i remember feeling more like ****.

a piece of me still feels like i was used to get her out of her military town.....

Same thing. I never wanted to know and she said they were all serious BFs. 18 years later I found out a lot that makes me super uncomfortable. I have a problem with girls misrepresenting themselves and IMO that ALL do it.

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10-14-2021, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩

Same thing. I never wanted to know and she said they were all serious BFs. 18 years later I found out a lot that makes me super uncomfortable. I have a problem with girls misrepresenting themselves and IMO that ALL do it.

yup. she really misrepresented herself and conveniently hid some truths, all the while i was honest about everything. as the years went by and truths started to unravel, stuff that she told me about her past didnt add up. knowing what i know now, i wouldnt have stayed with her. i intentionally avoided having a relationship with military chicks because they all slept with military bros. and since i was one, i know what we do to them. a woman who mostly dates nothing military guys is just as bad.... i only know about five (that she told me about) but i honestly dont believe her

all women do this. so unless she's a virgin, we really wont know the truth

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10-14-2021, 06:17 PM

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If she's got exes, she's not worth pursuing. No hymen no diamond

10-14-2021, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted By TonyTriangles⏩

been with my wife 16 years (13 being married) and i try not to think about it since it still gets under my skin. she had a thing for dating military guys and i didnt know until a few years after we got married. ...

If you decide to trade her in for a younger model eventually, no one here will blame you.

10-14-2021, 06:25 PM

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You meet a nice girl who seems like LTR material, then find out about the degenerates she dated when she was younger and likely more sexual, then you change your mind about her as just a practice girl that you eventually dump when you find someone better.

Women hate this, but that's the reality. The past matters whether they like it or not.

10-14-2021, 06:26 PM

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Wasn't exes just half the guys in town

10-14-2021, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩

If you decide to trade her in for a younger model eventually, no one here will blame you.

we have two sons (12 and a 10), i make almost 4 times she makes, and live in a blue state that will bleed me dry. not gonna lie, if i find out anymore secrets, i'll definitely trade her in

Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩

You meet a nice girl who seems like LTR material, then find out about the degenerates she dated when she was younger and likely more sexual, then you change your mind about her as just a practice girl that you eventually dump when you find someone better.

Women hate this, but that's the reality. The past matters whether they like it or not.

unfortunately, most of us wont know the truth or its too late

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10-14-2021, 06:36 PM

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10-14-2021, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Yeah I def would NOT talk to a guy who dated ugly or even average girls. They have to be pretty and fit.

They wouldn't date you either

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Yeah I def would NOT talk to a guy who dated ugly or even average girls. They have to be pretty and fit.

what if he has banged old sloots, and way older than him like 10 or 15 years older?

i mean he would have to be desperate

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10-14-2021, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩

what if he has banged old sloots, and way older than him like 10 or 15 years older?

i mean he would have to be desperate

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10-14-2021, 07:08 PM

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I find it annoying for a girl to talk about her ex(s) too much. Anything other then a brief description of why her previous relationship ended is a red flag for me. The reason why a previous relationship ended also tells leagues about a person and the person they were with.

As far as girls that have dated low-lives/losers/criminals. That's a huge red flag. Pump and dump immediately.

It she's over 25 and doesn't exclusively date dudes with careers/their schit together then she's dumb.

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defintely would
my current girl told me what / who she was dating before me
still trying to decide if i would settle with her long term because of that.

I only gain some sympathy after her saying she basically only met guys from them approaching her at coffee shop, uni etc.
they just turned out to be weed smokin, alcohol drinkin , weekly club goin dorks.
if she cant meet guys otherwise, i understand. guys are the ones that do the hunting.
"nice guys" usually arent out approaching girls on the street

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10-14-2021, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩

what if he has banged old sloots, and way older than him like 10 or 15 years older?

i mean he would have to be desperate

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10-14-2021, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted By Quiggie⏩

Yes. If any of her exes were lowlifes, criminals, or even just really ugly, it would always be in the back of my mind bothering me and I wouldn't be able to have anything serious with her. It means she has very low standards.

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