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post 1649169353 10-18-2021, 02:08 PM
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2 weeks is nothing kneegrow

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post 1649171173 10-18-2021, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
LOL so why did you break up?

Also you're not the only one - i've been split with my ex for the past 2 years and im still not over her.

Every time i check her IG she's got some new guy with her, so i guess she has not found happiness either.

It is what it is.

Also that 'stupid reason' you split up is probably something that's going to take time for you to truly resolve and when you heal past that you'll notice how it was holding you back this whole time.
For being such an enlighten guy, you're not as strong minded as I'd assume

Delete or stop seeing your ex on IG. Guarantee you she N.E.V.E.R thinks of you.

Weak ****
post 1649175213 10-18-2021, 03:37 PM
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Sometimes homie just needs to go full monk mode to re-evaluate life, chase your other desires, and grow from the relationship. Been there myself.
Hit more gym, buy a faster car, party more, etc.
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post 1649175743 10-18-2021, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Visel
Can't tell if OP regrets his decision and wants her back or not.

I'm recently passed a LTR of 3+ years and feeling the freedom, opened doors, lack of ball and chain, lack of obligations.
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post 1649176283 10-18-2021, 03:56 PM
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Well, maybe with the 4th girl you will finally learn not to be an id*ot with whatever you did again for the 3rd time in a row.
post 1649176803 10-18-2021, 04:07 PM
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time heals all wounds - Jesus
post 1649209783 10-19-2021, 05:02 AM
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Originally Posted By truesteez
location - UK

Also try meeting more than one girl in your life, Abdul. You will see that they're all more or less the same. You sound very inexperienced but I can't hate since all your Uk women look like snagletooth inbreds.

When the right dude comes around, that little loyal, smart, family oriented girl is going to get a tattoo and party till her tits fall off.
Dated easily 30+ women in my lifetime, some are basic, some are special. The idea that they’re all the same is as ridiculous as the idea that all men are the same. Some men would cheat, others simply won’t out of principle.

You sound like a mgtow incel, it’s pathetic.
post 1649225043 10-19-2021, 10:22 AM
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Appreciate the input brahs, even considered the trying men option..no homo

Been hanging out with a close female friend like every few days and it’s kinda helping fill the void srs. Still at the point where any girl who looks at me at the gym or anywhere I get pissed off cus it’s not my ex so this is gonna take some time.. will take the advice of just focusing on myself for now.
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post 1649225213 10-19-2021, 10:24 AM
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just wait like 8 months srs... youll be better off than ever before, don't even worry about women in the meantime
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post 1649225573 10-19-2021, 10:29 AM
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post 1649226013 10-19-2021, 10:35 AM
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post 1649226143 10-19-2021, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By plsmire
Dated easily 30+ women in my lifetime, some are basic, some are special. The idea that they’re all the same is as ridiculous as the idea that all men are the same. Some men would cheat, others simply won’t out of principle.

You sound like a mgtow incel, it’s pathetic.
post 1649226173 10-19-2021, 10:37 AM
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post 1649253233 10-19-2021, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Celsus
For being such an enlighten guy, you're not as strong minded as I'd assume

Delete or stop seeing your ex on IG. Guarantee you she N.E.V.E.R thinks of you.

Weak ****
dude i can't help it there is karma that is keeping me tied to her.

Like for example i once heard a whole conversation/sentence in my head, checked her story and saw an image that said what i heard in my head, word for word.

It's almost as if i am compelled to and check her page so i get triggered.

At this point in time she's spending time a miscer - I recognised the dude's head from way back in the day.

I get triggered so hard when i see this, but it happens less and less, and the more longer that time goes on, the more enlightened i become.

The thing is i don't care if she doesn't think of me, because it has to do with karma and i need to resolve it and it will just go away at that point.

Until the karma is resolved it will just be somebody else who I am tied up with living rent free in my head - seriously, i've figured out how this whole thing works.
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post 1649337113 10-20-2021, 11:20 PM
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Was she the best brah?
post 1649338473 10-20-2021, 11:52 PM
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It’ll take a while but you’ll move on. Breaking up with the oneitis disease is like dropping crack cold turkey.
See you tomorrow
post 1649338903 10-21-2021, 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Spazzzzy
what does this even mean srs?

You did something wrong to her now you need to suffer or what
I didn't do anything wrong to her - she just thinks i did because she liked me so much that all it took was for me to 'hit a nerve' once and she went apesh*t crazy and then i started going all weird like my 'energy' in my body starting going up and down and doing all sorts of weird stuff - this happened initially like over 2 years ago.

So for one whole year i was going from peaking harder than coke and pills to getting hit with these crazy lows, like that feeling in the heart is being 'pushed' down by my mind? IDK wtf was even happening.

It's a really weird story but essentially i went from being a paranoid depressed kunt that was hating life, to a totally normal person, in fact even more normal than most people.

2021 was a good year in general, but even now i get weird and can't move or do anything for a day or two, and then i suddenly just feel like i am on em dee em ayy.

The only reason that i am not ashamed of saying this is because i genuinely have never felt better in my life, and there is a steady rate of progression in terms of how much i am enjoying life.

You have to understand that i was as red-pill and egotistical as you are just 3 years ago, so this is like a miracle (SRS).

Basically what i've learned is that 'competing' with people to any capacity will cause you serious issues down the line if you're hoping to have natural pleasure and a relationship - just do what you love and don't worry about what people say.
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post 1649338983 10-21-2021, 12:06 AM
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post 1649339723 10-21-2021, 12:32 AM
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Try Tren srs
post 1649339873 10-21-2021, 12:43 AM
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2 - 3yrs is when the honey moon phase ends
post 1649340923 10-21-2021, 01:35 AM
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took me several months to get mostly 'over it'

don't focus on women rn either
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post 1649341053 10-21-2021, 01:41 AM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics
Dated for nearly 3 years, don’t want to go into why we broke up, mainly due to op being an absolute ****ing idiot who never learns

It’s been a couple weeks and it feels like no other girl will ever compare srs. I’ve dated three girls and never felt this way.. I have a few female friends who have blatantly tried coming on to me since and I just feel disgusted srs.

I injured myself in the gym squatting a few days after the breakup, just had so much ****in anger that I went way too hard and form got way too sloppy so can’t even lift rn to let out some steam. What the **** to do?
i split with my ex who im pretty sure i loved more than the rest and went on a phuck spree of good looking girls and this year the total rebound is about 27 ( i always forget one or so) but i just didnt feel any better . phucked her after a half a year of not talking and she cheated on her boyfriend and i havent said chit but she wanted to kick it on the low and because i thought about her the night after i knew it was going to be a bad idea for me cause i knew i still cared about her so i ghosted. she probably thinks lower but i dont have to explain chit.. i know long term it would phuck with my mental health. and after 6 months and her doing god knows what she brought up a girl i was talking to and was like " i found out about yall talking and got so upset! i wasnt even talking to anyone at that time" im like i havent talked to u for 2 months before that. you shouldnt listen to me but id still go out even if you dont slay . just chat and have fun at the club
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Originally Posted By simonsaysgoham
took me several months to get mostly 'over it'

don't focus on women rn either
my last one i still have underlying feelings for and she cried and came onto me and we phucked and she told me she still loved me and cheated on her dude shes with... every other girl i was with i kicked to the curb. even my first love i kicked to the curb and didnt take her back
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hella weird too any girl i liked after told me she was starting to fall in love with me and i would ghost to not hurt their feelings cause i wasnt all in like i was with the last. the chemistry is what was there. just focus on you G and stack up and build you up and if it should happen it will and it will have a higher chance if you do want it to.
post 1649341173 10-21-2021, 01:49 AM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics
Dated for nearly 3 years, don’t want to go into why we broke up, mainly due to op being an absolute ****ing idiot who never learns

It’s been a couple weeks and it feels like no other girl will ever compare srs. I’ve dated three girls and never felt this way.. I have a few female friends who have blatantly tried coming on to me since and I just feel disgusted srs.

I injured myself in the gym squatting a few days after the breakup, just had so much ****in anger that I went way too hard and form got way too sloppy so can’t even lift rn to let out some steam. What the **** to do?
our stories are the same but it was my first time focusing on rebounding actively but when feelings involved and they started to fall i just ghosted cause i didnt know what i wanted.
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89
Try Tren srs
bro this dude will become paranoid about his thoughts of what shes doing. phuck no. i stopped doing that chit when i tried it for the first time cause i want to get aesthetic but if your mental health is out of wack its not even worth it and you cant enjoy it. but some peeps dont get the same sides
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Originally Posted By justgenetics
Dated for nearly 3 years, don’t want to go into why we broke up, mainly due to op being an absolute ****ing idiot who never learns

It’s been a couple weeks and it feels like no other girl will ever compare srs. I’ve dated three girls and never felt this way.. I have a few female friends who have blatantly tried coming on to me since and I just feel disgusted srs.

I injured myself in the gym squatting a few days after the breakup, just had so much ****in anger that I went way too hard and form got way too sloppy so can’t even lift rn to let out some steam. What the **** to do?
if you wanna get back with her work on yourself but dont keep reassuring her she was right.that may help something short term but phuck you in the long
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Originally Posted By Celsus
For being such an enlighten guy, you're not as strong minded as I'd assume

Delete or stop seeing your ex on IG. Guarantee you she N.E.V.E.R thinks of you.

Weak ****
if this was beginning of breakup it wouldnt be bad cause it would show him the truth but two phuckin years deep hes still creepin. chits kinda weird
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Originally Posted By JuicyBruv
i split with my ex who im pretty sure i loved more than the rest and went on a phuck spree of good looking girls and this year the total rebound is about 27 ( i always forget one or so) but i just didnt feel any better . phucked her after a half a year of not talking and she cheated on her boyfriend and i havent said chit but she wanted to kick it on the low and because i thought about her the night after i knew it was going to be a bad idea for me cause i knew i still cared about her so i ghosted. she probably thinks lower but i dont have to explain chit.. i know long term it would phuck with my mental health. and after 6 months and her doing god knows what she brought up a girl i was talking to and was like " i found out about yall talking and got so upset! i wasnt even talking to anyone at that time" im like i havent talked to u for 2 months before that. you shouldnt listen to me but id still go out even if you dont slay . just chat and have fun at the club
In your experience do exes come back? The ex that I cared most about which we stopped talking about 3months ago clearly hates me still. A friend sent a screenshot of her posting in tiktok using my initials talking **** about me still. I've never contacted her ever since and while she is still on my mind a lot, I don't post bullchit or anything about her.
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Originally Posted By JuicyBruv
bro this dude will become paranoid about his thoughts of what shes doing. phuck no. i stopped doing that chit when i tried it for the first time cause i want to get aesthetic but if your mental health is out of wack its not even worth it and you cant enjoy it. but some peeps dont get the same sides
Ran it at 300mg only side was insomnia and some sweating
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