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post 1653537893 01-01-2022, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
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And why not now. You can never control the future anyway. Things can go wrong no matter how long you’ve known someone so you might as well YOLO. Can’t control life anyway srs.
I agree with everything you said but I have always made fun of people that got engaged super quick and now I have to adhere to my own judgemental criticism of others LOL (ded fkn Srs)
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post 1653537963 01-01-2022, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
I agree with everything you said but I have always made fun of people that got engaged super quick and now I have to adhere to my own judgemental criticism of others LOL (ded fkn Srs)
I proposed on our one year anniversary srs
When ya know ya know

Hell our neighbor proposed at 3 months and they just had their second kid.
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post 1653538053 01-01-2022, 09:44 AM
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post 1653538133 01-01-2022, 09:47 AM
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I hope it works out well for you man. Honestly in this day and age, I'd rather be an old Dad. Trying to grow up in your 20's can be hard. Way too much BS. When you get to your 30's, you should know what's more important and should have a stable job to secure a good life.
post 1653538243 01-01-2022, 09:49 AM
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I'm having trouble understanding why people would want kids in this climate and the direction of society.
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post 1653538283 01-01-2022, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887⏩
Your kid will be a loser just like his old man
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post 1653538343 01-01-2022, 09:52 AM
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Biggest mistake of this generation, waiting too long to have kids. Picking careers and recreation over children.
Just stay healthy mentally and physically, you’ll be okay OP.
post 1653538353 01-01-2022, 09:52 AM
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post 1653538583 01-01-2022, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Why did you wait so long between the two? I never wanted kids but if I did I’d want them as young as possible and as close together as possible.
My oldest is from my first marriage, and after her he never wanted any more and had a vasectomy.
My little one is from my second marriage.
I never thought I’d even have the opportunity to have more children after my first. But here we are, and we couldn’t be happier. Especially my teenager. She always wanted a sibling.
post 1653538593 01-01-2022, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By hoop84⏩
I'm having trouble understanding why people would want kids in this climate and the direction of society.
Natural Selection says have kids or die

Pass on your genes.

Even God in the Bible destroyed the Tower of Babel and said "Spread to the ends of the Earth"

We don't want any of this happening:


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post 1653538713 01-01-2022, 09:58 AM
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post 1653538793 01-01-2022, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because they want an extension of themselves.
I don't think it's as selfish as you just tried to paint.

Did you know there's no "evolution" without kids?

So basically evolution is only spoken about under that premise
post 1653538863 01-01-2022, 10:00 AM
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My youngest was born on the year I turned 34. My oldest 32. I know lots of guys that had their first kid at 40! lmao, hope you enjoyed your 30's because you'll be working through your 50's.
post 1653539013 01-01-2022, 10:03 AM
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Can relate. Had my first at 37. Set of twins. Having my third this summer. I’ll be 39. At least we’re fit…. That’s how I cope lol.
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my father was older than that. was in his 40s when I was born
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post 1653539243 01-01-2022, 10:08 AM
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My dad was 48 when he had me
Originally Posted By Frank
My youngest was born on the year I turned 34. My oldest 32. I know lots of guys that had their first kid at 40! lmao, hope you enjoyed your 30's because you'll be working through your 50's.
my dad retired years before I was born. We also had a nanny
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post 1653539323 01-01-2022, 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
My dad was 48 when he had me

my dad retired years before I was born. We also had a nanny
Your dad was certainly an exception. 48 is very old to have kids, I'm sure you know.
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Originally Posted By Frank
Your dad was certainly an exception. 48 is very old to have kids, I'm sure you know.
ya my half sister and my mom were pregnant at the same time. Twice. My brother and my nephew, then my niece and me.
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post 1653539593 01-01-2022, 10:14 AM
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post 1653539763 01-01-2022, 10:17 AM
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Well at least your kids won’t have a broke ass 20 something year parents.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Sure but that’s not why people want kids. They want them as an extension in their own image.
It's Natural Selection/Evolution
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Sure but that’s not why people want kids. They want them as an extension in their own image.
I can agree with you there is an aspect to what you're saying but I don't think that's the main reason people have kids
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My grandpa had a kid at 55
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
LOL sorry I meant HS




hope you and your family have an awesome 2022 mamma (ded fkn Srs)
Thank you! I hope you, your fam and your girl do as well!

Also have to agree with SS. Everything is a crap shoot. Don't think you need to start a family right now but don't think you need to wait an arbitrary amount of time to get engaged. Do what you feel is right.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Why do you think then? I really don’t think people are thinking about the evolution of the human species in their own personal life decisions.
Why I think? To continue on the species.

Man, you're acquiescing hard on a lot of what you typically say

I don't think it really matters quite what people think. They can think close to whatever they want or whatever they want to convince themselves

I'm pretty sure evolution and a lot of theories in that ilk attempt to underpin the reasoning why a lot of stuff happens

Like, it doesn't matter what restaurant people choose to eat at - this is where you are in regard to people not thinking about evolution - but they are in fact eating cause it's sustenance to survive

The fact that they have to eat to survive would be evolutionary law
Where they choose to eat would be what people are preoccupied with and is subsidiary
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