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Thread: Do relationships involving Threesomes Ever Work?

post 1659907343 04-19-2022, 10:22 AM
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It will end badly.

Women grow emnotional attachments that guys dont understand.

Introducing anouher lover into the mix gives her that simple chance to grow an emotional attachment with another person. This is the kiss of death for a relationship.

It will most likely go downhill for you after this. Its not like it is in movies. You dont just have fun and go your own way the next day like dogs. There are real feelings and emotions that come into play and ruin the fun.
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post 1659908013 04-19-2022, 10:34 AM
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My wife and I once discussed this together and came to the conclusion that it would have to happen somewhere like down south on a resort with someone we don't know and will never come into contact with again. It couldn't be someone we know here. That would probably cascade into perpetual awkwardness and problems down the line.

I've gotten out of the idea by this point. I think at some point we were really discussing it but I've long stopped caring.

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post 1659908213 04-19-2022, 10:37 AM
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She's saying she's OK with it to get your true feelings and intentions, and if she's like any other woman (which she is), she will use your answer to mentally justify seeing other dudes on the side.
It's over, you'll know it's over for sure when you're next out together and you're talking to another girl, your girl won't even care anymore
post 1659909573 04-19-2022, 11:02 AM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Don't do it.

That chit is poison to a relationship.

And when she starts to despise you, she will use it against you.
This. I've had threesomes in 3 or 4 relationships, in one we added a second gf in to the mix. As you'd expect it poisoned every relationship to varying extents, and as you'd expect the second gf scenario built a lot of resentment and got messy

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post 1659909943 04-19-2022, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
My gf is the type to overly try & please me, and my threesome seeds have finally begun to grow. We went to a local bar last friday, and some college chick was boldly hitting on me with my gf right next to me.

Me being drunk, I was being overly friendly (in my gfs opinion).


Long story short, she wants to give this a try for my sake, because she knows I still want to bang other girls.

If I value this relationship should I let this happen?

She is just my type, cooks, cleans, works out, no social media. Although I still wish I get with other women, I would rather keep what I have
It will ruin your relationship. Period. No exceptions.

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post 1659910103 04-19-2022, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Don't do it.

That chit is poison to a relationship
THIS

OP please listen
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post 1659910563 04-19-2022, 11:16 AM
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Tell her you'll do it if SHE wants to do it. Make it clear you don't NEED a threesome to be happy.
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post 1659910693 04-19-2022, 11:17 AM
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tours over for even suggesting
post 1659910703 04-19-2022, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
My gf is the type to overly try & please me, and my threesome seeds have finally begun to grow. We went to a local bar last friday, and some college chick was boldly hitting on me with my gf right next to me.

Me being drunk, I was being overly friendly (in my gfs opinion).


Long story short, she wants to give this a try for my sake, because she knows I still want to bang other girls.

If I value this relationship should I let this happen?

She is just my type, cooks, cleans, works out, no social media. Although I still wish I get with other women, I would rather keep what I have
3 Outcomes:


• She already cheated, and this is a way for her to "even the playing field" without feeling guilt so she can justify what she's done on the side. It's also an emotional catalyst for her exit out of your life. <-- most likely the reason.

• She is bored and this is the last "novelty" she resorts to before bailing.





• She already cheated, and this is a way for her to "even the playing field" without feeling guilt so she can justify what she's done on the side. It's also an emotional catalyst for her exit out of your life. <-- most likely the reason.













I've seen a few couples do this. The chick either cheated or dipped for the "third party" every time. It never ends well... lol
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post 1659910963 04-19-2022, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Don't do it.

That chit is poison to a relationship.

And when she starts to despise you, she will use it against you.
In simple terms JUST LOL at listening to women?
post 1659911093 04-19-2022, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By OutdoorsBrah⏩
3 Outcomes:


• She already cheated, and this is a way for her to "even the playing field" without feeling guilt <-- most likely the reason.

• She is bored and this is the last "novelty" she resorts to before bailing.





• She already cheated, and this is a way for her to "even the playing field" without feeling guilt <-- most likely the reason.













I've seen a few couples do this. The chick either cheated or dipped for the "third party" every time. It never ends well... lol
Women don’t cheat or bail on me.

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post 1659911203 04-19-2022, 11:23 AM
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post 1659911713 04-19-2022, 11:30 AM
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You're asking Miscers this? Most of whom can't even get one female, let alone two?

My serious answer OP: In my view, it isn't healthy for a relationship and yes, will probably lead to ending the relationship prematurely.
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post 1659911983 04-19-2022, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
You're asking Miscers this? Most of whom can't even get one female, let alone two?

My serious answer OP: In my view, it isn't healthy for a relationship and yes, will probably lead to ending the relationship prematurely.
Lold. It’s a good point but a lot of them came through with some good advice.

As much as I’d like to go through with it, I’ll shut this 3way thing down
post 1659911993 04-19-2022, 11:35 AM
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this definitely happened
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post 1659912233 04-19-2022, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By 8PointBuck⏩
this definitely happened
Like I’m a known fraud around here..


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post 1659912633 04-19-2022, 11:44 AM
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I've seen it work. But you gotta have really strong communication. And it generally helps if the girl is openminded but loyal, and has some type of social structure with normal people who aren't into that type of lifestyle. You gotta bail on 3rd partners after a while as well. Can't keep people longterm.

Because after about age 26ish, if you find single girls who want to be a 3rd in your relationship, it usually means they have personality issues. College girls experimenting is one thing, but once you hit late 20s the single girl usually is having sex with couples in order to double dip. She usually can't hold a relationship with males because of daddy issues, but still wants to use the guy's resources while getting social attention from both parties(but mostly the girl). The sex is what draws the couple in.
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Never works/pandora box

Cash out before you crap out if she’s good
post 1659913323 04-19-2022, 11:54 AM
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Yes, it works, but only with women who want to do this and aren't just approval sucking, and yours falls into that category. Do not do this.

It's nice that you have a people pleaser but you should know that you'll never know she's mad at you until she cheats on you.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Since when do we care what women think? Do you think a Saudi Prince concerns himself with the thoughts of his harem girls?

You're a man. Do what you want. If she isn't happy about it send her packing.
This.



If we were living 100+ years ago and you were given a virgin wife, then I'd say it would make sense to respect her since she has given everything to you

But in this day and age where your girl has probably banged tons of dudes before you, will bang many after you (and maybe some during the relationship), will take 50% or more of your worth in a divorce and steal your kids from you, you owe her nothing


The best way to view modern women is not as women, but as hoes, because that is what they actually are
post 1659914123 04-19-2022, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
If I value this relationship should I let this happen?
If you value your relationship you absolutely should NOT do this

You should reassure her that you will never cheat and that she is enough
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Women don’t cheat or bail on me.

Yes extreme ego, but also very srs
Famous last words. If you go through with the threesome, chances are high it'll happen. Glad to hear you're not going to do it though.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
If you value your relationship you absolutely should NOT do this

You should reassure her that you will never cheat and that she is enough
Trust me, I have to do that as it is due to my job as an airline pilot surrounded by flight attendants.
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Trust me, I have to do that as it is due to my job as an airline pilot surrounded by flight attendants.
And yet you are allowing her to attempt to please you with talk of threesomes

Really?

You’re brighter than that
post 1659916343 04-19-2022, 12:38 PM
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She sounds like a good woman OP. You already know it wouldn't end well long term. I definitely can't speak on the temptation, it's probably not easy and I won't pretend it is.
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they can

I was involved in two poly relationships this year. First was with a lesbian couple, hnngggg. The second was with this woman who was married whos husband came out to her as asexual and didn't want to have sex more than once a year, lmfao, her words, "Hes really.... nice"

would never share a woman with another man though, but ill share others peoples
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I'm a straight woman so not my cup of tea. If it's something on your bucket list you'd have to go find 2 women on your own.

I don't think your woman is really into the idea tbh...
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post 1659916743 04-19-2022, 12:49 PM
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Don't do it you idiot. You already have it good. Don't ruin it and marry your gf asap.
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