My gf is the type to overly try & please me, and my threesome seeds have finally begun to grow. We went to a local bar last friday, and some college chick was boldly hitting on me with my gf right next to me.

Me being drunk, I was being overly friendly (in my gfs opinion).


Long story short, she wants to give this a try for my sake, because she knows I still want to bang other girls.

If I value this relationship should I let this happen?

She is just my type, cooks, cleans, works out, no social media. Although I still wish I get with other women, I would rather keep what I have

Don't do it.

That chit is poison to a relationship.

And when she starts to despise you, she will use it against you.

From the sound of it, she wasn't to happy about your interaction with the other girl.

Even if she didn't care or was into it, there's a good 90% chance that at threesome would ruin your relationship.

Have some self control and appreciate what you have.

If you marry this girl one day and want to start a family, do you really want to know that the mother of your children was a sloot?

lol. In other words she's notactuallyon board and will be massively butthurt and resentful if it actually happens.

The fact she wasn't happy about you giving attention to another girl without sex being involved means don't go there. And the fact she's willing to "try it for your sake".

In my experience threesomes only work if initiated by the girl (and she has to actually be into it, not convinced to be) and the guy has to be super careful to not make the other woman the center of attention. Even then it can be a disaster. If you want to keep what you have, don't bother because it can result in everything changing.

No

Only a matter of time before she starts looking at other guys and brining that idea to you.

You going to get mad when that other guy puts the hog on her? After you've been banging new sloots with her being cool with it?

In after that edit. Sound like OP may have goofed and already let her know that he wants a threesome. RIP in peace relationship.

But seriously, OP do not do it and try to not bring this up ever again.

To my credit, I said that was the last thing on my list to check off, from before we started dating.

IMO that only works if you are living the lifestyle.

In the vanilla world, it never works.

Like this idiot knows. The only threesome he had was when he got spitroasted by two other dudes.

Since when do we care what women think? Do you think a Saudi Prince concerns himself with the thoughts of his harem girls?

You're a man. Do what you want. If she isn't happy about it send her packing.

Sounds like she's doing it just for you which isn't going to work. She needs to be into girls too. She's not going to enjoy just watching you bang another girl.

Pics or negs.

Who's to say you even have a gf?

Yes it does but only if both of you are into it and you establish boundaries. Using myself and the wife as an example, she is into women as well so we made the following rule, she is responsible for picking the girl and getting her home. I don't want to flirt, be friends, hang out, etc... I don't even have or want their phone numbers because I don't even want to chance jealousy developing from my wife's side let alone me and the girl having any feelings for each other in any way.

I wouldn't touch the girl in your OP with a 30 foot pole, your girl's already not happy about the initial interaction.

I think it could work for a while but female jealousy and other emotions will eventually ruin it. Only a matter of time SRS

You guys are saying what I already knew. I was hoping I was wrong. Thank you misc

Stages:
- Lets bring another chick
- Lets bring another dude
- Let me get dinked on side with dude
- It just happened

If you go through with it... be ready to hear "why'd you kiss her like that? thought you only loved me" or "you enjoy sex more with her than me, huh?" etc etc

Not worth all the BS that comes along with it unless you don't see a future with your current GF. The headache will be LARGE

Had multiple threesomes with my gf over the first few years we were together. Never had any issues with her over it. Any of my past relationships I could well imagine it turning into a complete chit show though. It all depends on what type of person your gf is really, you'll know from the offset if it has potential to cause issues, and your case it sounds like it. So I would avoid.

Do it


are you really going to marry your current gf and be with her forever until old age


you guys will prob break up anyways and then you will wish you had the threesome

If she really does cook, clean, works out and has no social media, OP should have proposed to her already.

LARP of Peace

Wrote a meme answer and then deleted after reading the OP. Honestly brah, here's my two cents-- if you're trying to marry this sloot and have kids w/ her I really don't think you should be sullying her by making her eat another sloot's groceries or whatever the kids are doing these days. Because if she's willing to do that chit she will turn you daughters into sloots and sons into trannies.

If you aren't trying to get married and have kids and/or don't see a long-term future with this sloot then try men for making this thread you massive homosexual ****got.

It's a trap

You can have 1 woman and rest easy knowing you have a loyal wife or you can start having swingers parties and turn your girl into a hoe who can't get enough side action. Soon as you have another woman she gonna get the mentality of "well if you get another girl i get another man".

It depends IMO.

Casual dating = sure, it can be a good time.

Serious Relationship = bad idea. If emotions and feelings are involved there is no way a girl is going to be really OK with you smashing another girl in front of her and giving her attention. It will eventually come back to bite you in the ass when future arguments pop up. Just not worth the potential fall out if she's wife material.

If you're casually dating this chick & don't really have feelings.. sure do it.. However if she's wife material in your mind?? LOL have fun when she wants to start bringing in other dudes to plow her.

in this situation, not worth it, unless you don't see the relationship going anywhere then go for it... but then you're essentially using your gf for your fantasy which is no bueno either.

IF your gf was all in, like - she's totally willing and wants to explore with another girl too, then i'd say maybe but "doing it for you" is bad, especially with her already thinking you were giving that other girl too much attention (real tea, you probably were). plus if you're gonna have 2 girls, you want them both devouring your cawk at the same time for sure, they both gotta be into it for that to be worth it.

your options at this point are to pull back from the idea, if she brings it up, then you put it on her and say that you wouldn't even want to unless she was totally on board and wanting it. tell her that she's more important to you than some fantasy and she'll either agree and it'll never happen, or she'll start to consider it more on her own and if it becomes her wanting it (even if just to please you), it'll be 100x better in the moment... but always a risk of her being jealous later on.

you'd need to make sure that even if you're banging this new sloot and she's got a pssy of the gods, you let your gf know how much better she is.

and since she's doing it for you, be prepared for her to want another cawk. it's almost spitroast season anyway.