Thread: My mom passed away today
06-03-2022, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Muscle2021⏩
Yeah my mom wasn’t doing the best mentally. But what’s the alternative? Death? When it actually happens it’s a little different though...Sorry for your loss man srs. Sometimes it seems worse when it happens suddenly but sometimes I don't know man.
My dad is currently pretty much dying of cancer srs. When someone suffers alot maybe it's better when it's sudden and over with?
Anyways sad to hear.
My dad is currently pretty much dying of cancer srs. When someone suffers alot maybe it's better when it's sudden and over with?
Anyways sad to hear.
06-03-2022, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
It’s surreal right. Everything just seems like it’s off a couple of beats. Also like I everything in my life just lost meaning. They told me autopsy can take months but they think heart attack.I am so very sorry OP.
Try not to think of the things you didn't do, but of the things you did do. I'm sure you had a lot of quality time together with her living with you for the past year.
Try not to think of the things you didn't do, but of the things you did do. I'm sure you had a lot of quality time together with her living with you for the past year.
06-03-2022, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By chalup⏩
Probably right. Either that or an aneurysm. The fact she was on the floor means it was quick at least. Take solace in knowing that. Was she older or not in good physical condition?It’s surreal right. Everything just seems like it’s off a couple of beats. Also like I everything in my life just lost meaning. They told me autopsy can take months but they think heart attack.
Lost my Dad in JAN. Seems like yesterday. It’s REALLY messed me up but it’s getting a little better each week. Lost my Mom when I was a kid so I’m alone now. That’s the worst part.
06-03-2022, 06:52 PM
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My Condolences Bud. the older I get the more I think about this myself for my aging parent's
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06-03-2022, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Underwrought⏩
She was 73 so definitely older. Smoker and drinker as well.Probably right. Either that or an aneurysm. The fact she was on the floor means it was quick at least. Take solace in knowing that. Was she older or not in good physical condition?
Lost my Dad in JAN. Seems like yesterday. It’s REALLY messed me up but it’s getting a little better each week. Lost my Mom when I was a kid so I’m alone now. That’s the worst part.
Lost my Dad in JAN. Seems like yesterday. It’s REALLY messed me up but it’s getting a little better each week. Lost my Mom when I was a kid so I’m alone now. That’s the worst part.
06-03-2022, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By chalup⏩
My Dad was 81. You never get as much time as you want. Be glad it was quick as ****ed up as that sounds. My dad deteriorated for years slowly losing his independence and ability to live a good life. And in the end it was the worst. He struggled for a month in the hospital. He was always a fighter I even thought he would get out. But that’s no way to die.She was 73 so definitely older. Smoker and drinker as well.
At least your mom went in a home quickly.
06-03-2022, 07:02 PM
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Sorry for your loss, op. Rip to your mother.
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I can't imagine what you are going through.
My mother (86) is my best friend and my rock, the thought of me losing her is too scary to think about.
I'm really sorry for the loss of you and your family.
Take care and be strong. *bow*
My mother (86) is my best friend and my rock, the thought of me losing her is too scary to think about.
I'm really sorry for the loss of you and your family.
Take care and be strong. *bow*
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so sorry, brah
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06-03-2022, 07:22 PM
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Sorry OP, condolences to your family
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Damn it sucks when this comes as a complete surprise. I still think of the chit I would be talking about with 2 family friend that have passed this year. Feels weird man. Sorry to hear it OP, RIP to your mom.
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06-03-2022, 08:34 PM
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So sorry to hear that. I know you feel like you didn't do enough but living together for her last year of life was probably such a positive experience. And getting to take care of your daughter was extremely special for her I'm sure. May she rest in peace.
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06-03-2022, 08:40 PM
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Condolences OP, RIP your mom
06-03-2022, 08:50 PM
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Sorry to great about your loss. It may sound cliche, but think about the good memories you guys had together. It’s definitely a difficult thing to go through. It sounds like she was able to spend lots of time with her grandchild, which is nice. Do you have anyone that you can talk to?
06-03-2022, 09:59 PM
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Anyone who has lost a loved one knows that you don't recover. Instead , you learn to incorporate their absence and memories into your life and channel your emotional energy toward others and eventually your grief will walk beside you instead of consuming you. Truly sorry for your loss and may your mom RIP bro
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06-03-2022, 10:37 PM
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My condolences OP.
I don't have much to offer but when my Mom passed I didn't watch TV, drove with the radio off and had a lot of just alone, silent time. I don't know why that helped, but it really did.
I don't have much to offer but when my Mom passed I didn't watch TV, drove with the radio off and had a lot of just alone, silent time. I don't know why that helped, but it really did.
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I feel you OP. I lost my mom 8 months ago, she was in that risky 1% and covid took her after 3 weeks in ICU. Do not go down that rabbit hole of things you should have done, could have done, didn't do, etc. Celebrate her life and be thankful for all the moments you DID share with her. Like, be glad that she was living close with you under the same roof this last year. She wouldn't want you to get depressed or feel bad. If she was religious well even better she is in a better place and got another guardian angel. She is up there in heaven and now she knows exactly how much you love her in n a way you couldn’t have expressed in words anyway.
Not going to lie, the logistics of all that has to be done after a loved one passes is a horrible learning experience but unfortunately, we all will have to go through it at some point in our lives.
Stay up and do what has to be done and power through it, let it out when the feels come in waves, give yourself the right to let it out and then composed yourself and be strong for the other family members that need it. There is no right way to mourn and grief, everyone around you will be different.
Not going to lie, the logistics of all that has to be done after a loved one passes is a horrible learning experience but unfortunately, we all will have to go through it at some point in our lives.
Stay up and do what has to be done and power through it, let it out when the feels come in waves, give yourself the right to let it out and then composed yourself and be strong for the other family members that need it. There is no right way to mourn and grief, everyone around you will be different.
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fuk man I'm so sorry to hear that
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Also OP; do you drink? Casually or regularly? If you don't great, but if you do... DO NOT HIT THE BOTTLE. I drank normally but rapidly increased my daily intake to stupid levels in the months following my loss and it did not end well. It will not help, do not prolong the grieving process by sedating yourself.
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Fuk man.
Sorry to hear that.
Sorry to hear that.
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Originally Posted By Goat_187⏩
I drank yesterday pretty heavily and just got sick so I won't be going down that road. Now I have to take care of all arrangements and notify all family members. What a horrible feeling to know you have to do immediately after losing a loved one.Also OP; do you drink? Casually or regularly? If you don't great, but if you do... DO NOT HIT THE BOTTLE. I drank normally but rapidly increased my daily intake to stupid levels in the months following my loss and it did not end well. It will not help, do not prolong the grieving process by sedating yourself.
Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
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Sorry buddy, god bless you for having her live with you. When the day comes when my folks are too old to help out, I swore to them and myself they wouldn't go to a home but I'd take them in and give them a room.
You loved your mama, good on you sir. She was home with her family if that brings you any type of comfort.
You loved your mama, good on you sir. She was home with her family if that brings you any type of comfort.
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Originally Posted By chalup⏩
I'm so sorry for your loss my man. I can only imagine what you are going through. However, im glad you won't start drinking everyday brother.I drank yesterday pretty heavily and just got sick so I won't be going down that road. Now I have to take care of all arrangements and notify all family members. What a horrible feeling to know you have to do immediately after losing a loved one.
Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
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My condolences, bro.
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