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post 1664465403 07-15-2022, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery
As a 47 year old, I would say this is fairly accurate except there are shelves at particular ages due to search functions on apps. You fall off when you hit 40, again at 45, and I'm not looking forward to 50. I have a date with a cute 23 year old grad student tomorrow, and I'm wondering what the catch is because this isn't normal.
post 1664466123 07-15-2022, 06:38 PM
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Depends on what type of man you are. If you were a Chad that peaked at 21 because you were ripped, on the college football team, and had a stubbly 5:00 shadow all the time and killer hair, your prime may be your early 20’s. I see a lot of those dudes out and about. College cheerleader wife is still hot and hanging on but the dude traded the protein powder for Buffalo Wild Wings and lost his hair. Now he’s a fat, balding shell of his former self.

Then there’s the skinny dudes with good genetics that always looked young even until they were late 20’s but really grow into their looks as they age. They may look like boys (skinny, acne etc) until they’re 30 but then start lifting, get cut, and keep all of their hair and don’t really have a propensity to store a lot of fat. Those dudes will look better at 35 than they did at 25, and will get a lot of play.

It’s mostly genetics, and partly lifestyle
post 1664466143 07-15-2022, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
As a 47 year old, I would say this is fairly accurate except there are shelves at particular ages due to search functions on apps. You fall off when you hit 40, again at 45, and I'm not looking forward to 50. I have a date with a cute 23 year old grad student tomorrow, and I'm wondering what the catch is because this isn't normal.
Have fun. You're the catch. For the vast majority of human history we had no idea what age anyone was. It's a bogus construct.
post 1664466213 07-15-2022, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Or for the majority of men who don't take care of themselves?

Is near 40's a pretty desolate chance of getting women?
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post 1664466593 07-15-2022, 06:52 PM
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What a stupid question

Even if you're a 'chad', God I hate that term in your 30s or 40s

What the fuk are you going to do? You going to be going to the clubs/bars every weekend with your boys? Just lol

Sloots in their 20s on tinder want guys their same age or slightly older. Women over 30 on dating apps aren't after hook ups, they're desperate to get married.

Cold approach? Lmao, I don't care how good looking you are, reeks of desperation.

You'll find the odd bish to bang but you're not going to be fuking a different sloot every week or even month.

You either get married or whoremaxxx, I'll take the later.
post 1664467523 07-15-2022, 07:22 PM
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Fyi have a third date with a 23 year old African girl tomorrow night that used to run hurdles. Ass like two ripe thanksgiving turkeys. Smashed a 21 year old, 25 year old and 30 year old since break up with 23 year old. I'm 37. This is all off apps though. Has not been easy meeting real life girls. But it's possible.

Approaching is not desperate at all. It's courageous and lots of women admire it. Lots of them love older men too. Don't listen to the defeatist nonsense in this thread.
post 1664469063 07-15-2022, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet
Approaching is not desperate at all. It's courageous and lots of women admire it. Lots of them love older men too. Don't listen to the defeatist nonsense in this thread.
This depends largely on what country you're in. In Australia you're more likely to get arrested than get a number.
post 1664470933 07-15-2022, 08:46 PM
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[QUOTE=HayZues Christi post_id=1664457323]What a stupid question.


Obviously.


Inb4 a bunch of lifelong incel cope about how men age like wine and how they're going to [b]finally be swimming in pussy in their 40s and 50s.[b]

If you weren't killing it in your 20s, you sure as fuk won't be in your 40s.[/QUOTE]Men who take care of themselves physically(lifting, which is a lost art on the misc it seems) and mentally(learning about game, etc) can not get pussy in their 20's and still let the nuts hang in bitches pussy and ass in their 30s. Our value is different than females.

But if men aint improving, killing it, stay the same in your 20s like you mentioned, didn't learn anything, and thinking the 40s is going to be better, they're more lost in the sauce.

[QUOTE=poolshark472 post_id=1664457573][b]I think guys can stretch their prime of being their most attractive self to the widest range of women up to age 40, maybe a couple of years past that if they have top tier facial and body genetics as well as good style and all the other things that matter. They can continue remaining handsome (and slaying mad poocy) after that into their fifties if they take care of themselves but there's really no hiding their age at that point and they're basically moved from the prime group of men to the "old" but still good looking group.[/b]Man's overall genetic prime is really 25 to 35.[/QUOTE]It aint got to even be top tier facial/body genetics. keep groomed and like you said, take care of the other chit that matters and you'll still pull bitches at that age. We're going deeper and deeper in the age of technology, specifically youth formula for bitches. How many bitches pushing 35 but with youth tech they're looking the opposite? It's gonna change year by year and even at 40 as a guy you're still if you keep your natural chit intact, gonna be clapping synthetic tits and cheeks from bitches

[QUOTE=sword_ post_id=1664457853]Women for casual hookups?[b]That's a young man's sport UNLESS you're someone like George Clooney or Brad Pitt, etc.[/b]

Women for relationships? It's easier because at that age both men and women's priorities change, or at least should.[/QUOTE]aka, less than top 5%? Disagree on that one respectfully. You don't need to make the money they have to hit up women to fcuk casually, especially since we're going more in the social media era. Clooney or Pitt would trade big money to have the physique of someone who's low bf, got legit muscle mass, etc.

[QUOTE=CodyZellery post_id=1664464103][img]https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DiZwdrIVQAAyWwG.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]Rollo reps. Thread should have been killed off halfway through this chart alone but Rollo aint known that much yet xD

[QUOTE=Kewbrah post_id=1664464843]Opportunity for casual sex and hookups absolutely go through the roof age 35+,[b]so long as you are after women of a similar age.[/b]Everyone gets divorced, and divorced women hit the dating apps hard as fuk. Tinder dominated by 40yo women who have kids every second week, and spending every night of the childless week stuffed full of cock.[/QUOTE]As time passes, nobody's saying if you're 40, or 50 you're smashing 22 yr old pussy. You may be smashing 32 or 40 yr old pussy from bitches that have kept their body together but we can agree that casual sex is still possible 35+ if you as a a guy are on your purpose and realize that it's easy to be stagnant and not do chit, therefore, competition is non-existent.

[QUOTE=Fuggettabowteet post_id=1664467523]Fyi have a third date with a 23 year old African girl tomorrow night that used to run hurdles. Ass like two ripe thanksgiving turkeys. Smashed a 21 year old, 25 year old and 30 year old since break up with 23 year old. I'm 37. This is all off apps though. Has not been easy meeting real life girls. But it's possible.

[b]Approaching is not desperate at all. It's courageous and lots of women admire it. Lots of them love older men too. Don't listen to the defeatist nonsense in this thread.[/b][/QUOTE]Agreed. It can be the year 2200 and women will still prefer men to approach, despite them making more money and all that chit that's gonna be posted on whatever fcuking news they have in 2200.
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post 1664471023 07-15-2022, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx
if casual sex is what you desire at 35+ then you got some reflecting to do, idk
The thread topic is literally your value in the sexual marketplace as you get older
post 1664483173 07-16-2022, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
As a 47 year old, I would say this is fairly accurate except there are shelves at particular ages due to search functions on apps. You fall off when you hit 40, again at 45, and I'm not looking forward to 50. I have a date with a cute 23 year old grad student tomorrow, and I'm wondering what the catch is because this isn't normal.
Do you look like her father that didn't hug her enough?
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post 1664483273 07-16-2022, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By AgentSkyhawk
Men who take care of themselves physically(lifting, which is a lost art on the misc it seems) and mentally(learning about game, etc) can not get pussy in their 20's and still let the nuts hang in bitches pussy and ass in their 30s. Our value is different than females.

But if men aint improving, killing it, stay the same in your 20s like you mentioned, didn't learn anything, and thinking the 40s is going to be better, they're more lost in the sauce.



It aint got to even be top tier facial/body genetics. keep groomed and like you said, take care of the other chit that matters and you'll still pull bitches at that age. We're going deeper and deeper in the age of technology, specifically youth formula for bitches. How many bitches pushing 35 but with youth tech they're looking the opposite? It's gonna change year by year and even at 40 as a guy you're still if you keep your natural chit intact, gonna be clapping synthetic tits and cheeks from bitches



aka, less than top 5%? Disagree on that one respectfully.You don't need to make the money they have to hit up women to fcuk casually, especially since we're going more in the social media era. Clooney or Pitt would trade big money to have the physique of someone who's low bf, got legit muscle mass, etc.
I think the point he was making with them had to do with their looks and charm, not money.
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post 1664483973 07-16-2022, 07:37 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind
Is misc not aware how many younger women love older men?

lol
So much this, especially now with dating apps, and FB / IG to a lesser degree.

I got married at 20, divorced at 30 (nearly 15 years ago), and used tinder / bumble in my late 30’s and early 40’s.

Dating was beyond easy mode (especially when using Tinder and Bumble) as a good younger looking, successful, articulate, fun, and in shape guy in his late 30’s to early 40’s. Models, olympians, TV personalities, etc.

The apps did the vetting for them. So any girl who didn’t want to be with an older guy, you wouldn’t show up on their roster anyhow. Then when meeting women normally, age becomes just a number if you are funny / charming / genuine.

I ended up marrying a unicorn who I knew from a friend and not via an app. We dated for a year, and got married when she was 29 and I was 42. She think she is an alien being late 20’s, no kids, no divorces, driven, stunningly beautiful inside and out, and loves my teenage sons. So there is always hope, so keep up the good fight gentlemen.
post 1664484363 07-16-2022, 07:51 AM
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It depends on the man really. There are some men who are a WAY WAY bigger Chad at age 50 than age 20, 30, or 35.

Age 20


Age 50

post 1664486773 07-16-2022, 08:49 AM
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For the average dude? Absolutely not. See very few brahs who make it past late 20s without letting themselves go.

If you take care of yourself and are a competent adult, then from my experience you can do well in your 30's with some younger women. I feel like there's a cuttoff somewhere around women who are 23ish as that's the end of "college age" and most college age chicks have a plethora of dudes around them. That said, older Chad could certainly still dominate but 99% of guys can't pull that off.

All of that said, a man who takes care of himself and knows how to carry himself can dominate in his own age bracket from early 30s to mid 50s or so. But this is with women your own age.
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I think a lot more girls in their 20s are interested in having sex with older men than was the case a while ago. I'm 37 and have even fuked a couple 19 year olds this year(but I'm not sure they actually knew my real age, probably assumed I was like 29ish).
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
As a 47 year old, I would say this is fairly accurate except there are shelves at particular ages due to search functions on apps. You fall off when you hit 40, again at 45, and I'm not looking forward to 50. I have a date with a cute 23 year old grad student tomorrow, and I'm wondering what the catch is because this isn't normal.
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Originally Posted By FastBack6
Depends on what type of man you are. If you were a Chad that peaked at 21 because you were ripped, on the college football team, and had a stubbly 5:00 shadow all the time and killer hair, your prime may be your early 20’s. I see a lot of those dudes out and about. College cheerleader wife is still hot and hanging on but the dude traded the protein powder for Buffalo Wild Wings and lost his hair. Now he’s a fat, balding shell of his former self.

Then there’s the skinny dudes with good genetics that always looked young even until they were late 20’s but really grow into their looks as they age. They may look like boys (skinny, acne etc) until they’re 30 but then start lifting, get cut, and keep all of their hair and don’t really have a propensity to store a lot of fat. Those dudes will look better at 35 than they did at 25, and will get a lot of play.

It’s mostly genetics, and partly lifestyle
This is what im hoping is my case. Just turned 29 and consider myself retired at the moment. Just wear white tshirts and jeans. Basically live my life on my own terms. Have two brothers that look pretty similar to me that have done pretty well with the ladies. Really working on my physique and look probably a year younger than my little brother whos 25. Not too much stress, no drugs, and not a ton of sun. Just a tad acoustic though. Really hoping my 30's are better because life has been pretty lonely aside from friends and family.
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Originally Posted By Kewbrah
Opportunity for casual sex and hookups absolutely go through the roof age 35+, so long as you are after women of a similar age. Everyone gets divorced, and divorced women hit the dating apps hard as fuk. Tinder dominated by 40yo women who have kids every second week, and spending every night of the childless week stuffed full of cock.
Lol yes the pool opens back up and the divorced women hit their second slut phase. They have 10+ years being off the cock carousel to make up for so it’s like shooting fish in a barrel srs
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