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» Can't really get anywhere in life while dealing with my GF. Raging hard af
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post 1671367533 11-18-2022, 04:24 PM
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Is she Irish? I lived with an Irish girl for 6 years. At first I was drawn to her for that. She would talk down to me until I finally was fudging her. She would even talk down to me then too. It was hot at first but eventually I would start having bad days at work and she would be like how much did you make this week? I saw Dave at. Burch and he just bought a boat and a truck. We will never have those. Going to the gym? I hope they have a penis increase mr becayse I want to be plowed tonight. You think you can even do that? It’s starts to put pressure on you. Then she even became physically violent. At first if fight back and put it I. But when I got tired of doing that it ended. Now the girl im with us clingy. Texting me all day why I haven’t heard from you in an hour? Thinks every wonan is after me. It’s just as bad
post 1671367983 11-18-2022, 04:29 PM
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brother its going to get worse

once you are married and have kids

"why dont we ever go out anymore"

"im bored"
post 1671368933 11-18-2022, 04:48 PM
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Break up with her. The only reason she's doing it is because you failed to correct that behavior the first time she did it and now she thinks less of you because of it. The relationship is done. Srs. I never had this with relationships besides the few times here and there and I just stand firm on how not to behave towards me AND in turn I don't do that behavior towards her. That's how they respect you and you guys iron out boundaries and communicate very early on so this doesn't become "a thing."

Dump her now and lick your wounds for a while. She's a negative in your life that needs to go. You're holding on because of things like the past and the value of a relationship/companionship. Be nice about it no matter how crazy she reacts. Just say you don't think you can provide what she wants and needs from a man right now and that you want to go a different path in life without her.

Let her go brah. It sucks but trust me...have some dignity and balls. Your life will get infinitely better after the short period of feeling like chit and the emotions of ending a relationship.
post 1671369583 11-18-2022, 05:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
Is she Irish?
asking the real questions
post 1671373533 11-18-2022, 06:27 PM
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stfu dude i wish i had a gf to nag me
post 1671373753 11-18-2022, 06:33 PM
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Have you actually had this conversation with her and talked about expectations, wants and needs? Or do you just cry like a squonk on the misc about it?
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post 1671374193 11-18-2022, 06:44 PM
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I actually read it

If you're not ready for a family and think running around the country chasing money is more of a priority, then you’re priorities aren’t aligned and you should break up

If you do stay with her, check her and let her know you’re done with her bitching - if she keeps it up, you’re done

After reading what you wrote I’m not convinced you’re not just as retarded as she is srs. I also think there’s a good chance your career or whatever you’re doing outside of town isn’t likely to be as fruitful as you think, but I’m less sure about that. It’s admirable to try and make a better living for yourself and family, but a lot of people are out there thinking “if I work hard I’ll get ahead”. Reality is it’s not that easy. The real world doesn’t give participation trophies
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